Most important:
1. Rapport!
2. Managing your own internal state.
3. Meta-model, to figure out what specifically is the problem.
4. 4-tupling and the Milton-model to create the experience
5. Perceptual positions
6. Submodalities (black and white, color)
7. Fast phobia cure pattern itself
There are literally 100s of notes I could give on this, and ideas how to cook with NLP. I will just give a few in a series of articles on this blog.
TURNING THREE PLACE DISSOCIATION IN FOUR OR MORE PLACE DISSOCIATION
An important part of the NLP Fast Phobia Cure is dissociating the client completely from the negative emotional experience. Some clients don't dissociate until more than even more than free place dissociation takes place. Examples: putting in extra or thicker plexi-glass walls, see through Teflon shields, a bubble inside the projection booth, etc.
WHEN DISSOCIATION ISN'T HAPPENING?
Running the fast phobia off a timeline that is preferably physically built (not just as a sit down unconscious process. Especially when someone is highly kinesthetic.) This is really a Master Practitioner level tool though.
Put the client in the physiology of dissociation: lean back, chin raised, looking up, need be put their hands behind their head.
GOING FROM A MOMENT OF SAFETY BEFORE, TO A MOMENT OF SAFETY AFTER THE EVENT HAPPENED
You run the risk of failing the fast phobia cure and trauma relief pattern almost entirely, if you are not picking a true moment of safety before the event happened and after. Need be you go back hours before, or even the day before if you have to. Example of the last pattern I did, was a visit to a dentist by a woman when she was a little girl. She used her experience in the dentist chair, the moment of safety before to the moment of safety after. The pattern failed. I used some Milton model language, to get her brain search for the answer (instead of me having to guess.) The coin dropped:) she also watched her sister go through the same thing, which added to the trauma. We then did the pattern from a moment of safety before they even got in to the dentists office, to a time well after leaving it. The pattern worked beautifully.
PLAYING THE BLACK AND WHITE MOVIE AS SEEN FROM THE PROJECTION BOOTH IS IMPOSSIBLE
First work with dissociation. If that doesn't work try playing the bottom half of the screen first, do the pattern on that. Then to the top half. Or every other minute (or second), and then the missing minutes in between. Remember, if the unconscious mind doesn't want to cooperate in a patter, it has reasons for it! Something is not in place for the brain to safely play the movie.
YOU CAN'T GET IT TO GO LEVEL 2 OR 3 FEAR
When you ask the client to rate the fear, from 1 being no fear and 10 being the worst and you can't get it below level 2 or 3. Then you have wonder if the unconscious mind of the client isn't absolutely right? First of all, a client usually rates their fear as 15 or a number like that, when asked to rate the fear from 1 to 10. So getting it down to a 2 or 3 is already a major success. In most cases, I ask the client if they are good with the number 2 or 3. After all, having a mild fear of snakes for instance, is completely justified as some snakes can be dangerous.
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