Someone with low self esteem will put themselves down, and will not accept compliments gracefully. (They often do not believe a word of them) Someone involved in a relationship with someone with low self esteem may try very hard to help them build up their self esteem. The problem is, when and if it does not work, they get frustrated and quite often angry. This can sabotage a relationship big time.
When someone loves you yet feel no matter what they do you will never believe it, they feel defeated. The believe they can never make you happy no matter what they do.
They can get tired of hearing you put yourself down over and over again. It is not attractive behavior.
People with low self esteem often make it the job of the one that loves them to help raise their self esteem levels. They want their partner to constantly and continually re-enforce their feelings and show loving behavior. The problem is it does not work, and it is not someone else?s job to do it. It may be other people that lowered your self esteem, but it up to you to bring it back up.
It is hard to attract the right kind of man when you have low self esteem. Think about the animals in the wild. They stalk a pack of animals to kill, and pick the weakest of the bunch. In a way, predatory men find the weakest females of the pack to prey upon. They know a woman with high self esteem wouldn?t put up with their bullshit for 5 seconds, so they choose women that they think will.
If you are tired of attracting the same kinds of men, and finding yourself in the same dead end relationships, look at your self esteem and see if it could be the reason.
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