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I don't think that I've ever formally described the Me Project, so why not describe it now? :)The Me Project, like its name implies, is all about me. After being in a relationship of any sort, one needs to work on themselves for a while. One needs to go back to basics, figure out what they want in life, what parts of themselves need development and what parts don't.This is particularly important for a Non borderline who was just involved with someone afflicted with Borderline Personality Disorder. The Non needs to do plenty of work on themselves to understand why they got involved with a BPD, what dysfunction they accepted and why. If they were in a relationship like me who was told "you're bad" every day, one will also need some time to clear those hurtful, negative thoughts out of their heads.So, back to the Me Project. For too much of my life, I've focused on others, and I've ended up with people that I would consider emotional vampires. These people suck the life out of you as they try to find themselves. Critical indicators of this include:- Low Self Esteem- Poor Self Image- Low Confidence Levels- Overall NegativityI've been the one to pull them out of their abyss and into a good state. The problem is that it was often at my expense.So, the Me Project was born. I began this project in 2006, but suspended it when I got involved with the borderline. Of course, this is too much growth for a borderline to handle.The objective of the Me Project is to reach my fullest potential and make sure that my kids stay on track as well. That's it.After I got out of the relationship with the BPD, the Me Project went back into effect. Here have been my short term goals:- Get back into good shape (underway:))- Heal myself from the BPD relationship (underway:))- Understand why I was in the relationship with the BPD and how to correct any holes (done!)- Take on new projects and hobbies to fill my time (underway)- Get the kids together (underway/done!)- Live the theories that embody The Secret- Get my spirituality/faith together (underway)- Get more involved in community events (not yet started)- Finish the book (underway)I've done quite a bit of work that continues. The fruits of my labors are really beginning to show though. I'm attracting people that I truly want to be in my life and are exemplary. I've stepped up a couple of levels in terms of the people in my life and the people that I am attracting.Something has happened recently. I still don't understand what has happened, but I'm not going to complain.I'm making it great in 2008. This is my year for me to start some great things.My 5 year plan? Be on the water (hopefully the beach) writing. I'll probably be on the snow in the winter writing. We'll see, but I'm going to make this come together.God I love it. It's starting to fire on all cylinders.The Me Project is working. I've always focused on others too much, to my demise. I never worked enough on me. Don't get me wrong -- I'm still a giving person, just not as giving as I was in the past where I gave to the point of my demise.Now I understand. It's happening right in front of my eyes. A little faith goes a long way.I can't wait to see what a lot of faith does.
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