TIPS ON MEETING WOMEN IN THE CLUB
GOOD DRESS SENSE: This is one of the most important factors for meeting people. You are addressed the way you are dressed. Women also love well-dressed men. Dressing also helps to boost one's self confidence. This is important because there is sure to be competition. There are lots of other wealthier, good looking and fun seeking type too who are sure to beat the club too. You don't want to be outrun and left on the shelf. If you go to the same club every week with the same group of friends, then it is important that you do not wear the same dress at least two times in a row. It is ok to mix and accessorize and come out with something entirely unique and different. You don't want to approach a girl and the next thing she says is "Oh, I recognize you. You wore this same clothes last week right?" Dress right and to suit the occasion. No matter how bad it is, you should not wear suit to the club. You will only attract negative attention to yourself. Clubs are places where people go to relax, have fun, dance and drink so it is ideal you put on something casual and really comfortable but at the same time, fashionable. If you are not sure then you are safe with a nice looking pair of jeans and a fitted shirt. You can decide to accessorize with a hat or cap, wrist watch or bracelet. When you have sorted that out then you are good to go.
ENTRANCE: As you must have heard/ learnt, first impressions matter a lot. Most times in clubs, people's attention are usually focused at the entrance to check new hotties, what everyone is wearing, a familiar face etc. That is why it is imperative that you dress well otherwise you will come off as either boring or something else unflattering depending on how you are dressed. It is important that you make a very good entrance because it will make your job easy for you. Provided you are well-dressed, women will be eager to meet you and don't be surprised if the bold ones even approach you first. Just play it well. Your confidence, your smile, the way you greet people etc. Arrange to go with your friends that are popular and who are sure to be greeted by everyone. The more popular and sociable you seem, the more women will want to meet you. Meeting women in the club doesn't seem like rocket science anymore, right?
ARRIVE IN TIME: I don't mean you should open up the club. Don't come too early else you will come off as cheap or jobless. Don't come late either because by this time, almost everyone would have hooked up and gotten partners and you will be left alone or stuck with the lot no one wants to be with and I am sure you won't like that. Be sure to smile at anyone who you lock eyes with. This is the importance of arriving in time. It gives you time to scan the club and find which woman catches your fancy. It also gives you time for light flirtations.
BE GENEROUS: Been tight fisted is a huge turn-off for women. I do not mean you should give her money. Offer to buy her drinks. This will not only make her more keen to stay with you but it will also help to keep her at ease with you. It is also an avenue for you both to get talking and get to know one another better.
DANCE FLOOR: This is a perfect way for meeting women in the club. Ask her to dance. Dancing has always been known to establish/ stir intimacy. It also helps the both of you have fun plus it is very easy. You don't have to go to dance classes to learn how to sway to music.
I trust it will be easy for you to take it on from here. When you both get tired of dancing, you can go outside to cool off, get to know each other better and depending on how well you both hit it off, exchange contacts. So here you are, follow these wonderful tips for meeting women in the clubs and go out there and get back into the game.
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