True Story I Was Raised By Deaf Parents

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True Story I Was Raised By Deaf Parents
This is just one of our many True Tall tale interviews, in which we talk to people who confess been through interesting/challenging/amazing bits and pieces. My vulgar friend Lovel (who I visited inside Mardi Gras) has been kind tolerable to tell us about life growing up with two deaf parents. Amazing, no?HOW DID YOUR PARENTS MEET?They were moreover separation to the deaf schools throughout in Louisiana. My dad was separation to the black deaf educational and my mom was separation to the colorless one. Yes, nearby were two deaf schools and yes nearby was still border line. Silly, I recount. But the blind date they were in 11th slash, the two schools built-in and that's how they met each unusual. My dad was the dope-dealing black football public figure and my mom was this nerdy fervent colorless girl. They started dating abruptly whilst the schools merged and someplace late in their senior blind date they got pregnant with me.Is nearby a definitely large deaf people in Lafayette? Why?I don't think it's definitely large, but as soon as moreover your parents are deaf you curb to recount someone and everybody who's deaf in this town. Greatest deaf people throughout come from generations of deaf line intermarrying or marrying board cousins - my grandparents were 5th cousins. (Blissfully my mom ruined with sacrament and married well outdoor her family allowing me and my brother to be board.) The same as of this, Lafayette has a strong deaf community with many deaf events and a few deaf organizations. Of gush, this leads to spare people heartbreaking to this limb and spare families having worry who are deaf. It's a harass that's true in a lot of small cities with ample minority communities.DID YOU Research TO Sign OR Convert FIRST?Definitely sign, as my father reminds me all the time. "All" offspring would learn to sign first, as they don't confess the vocal structures conducive to record. It's easier for them to give instructions themselves with their hands. They're not separation to be preforming Shakespeare, but they can say "food" or "drink" or "I weary my wash pants come tidy this!" (Refined that cargo space one's a place it's very the word for "poop", which is making the "B" sign in the air, and waving it back and forth)HOW OLD WERE YOU Being YOU REALIZED THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE DIFFERENT?Kindergarten. Up until I went to educational, the only unusual worry I hung out with were the worry of my parents' deaf friends. They, like me, were board but their parents were deaf so we were truly indistinguishable. But as soon as I got to Maurice Initial I was the only one in that situation and was with good grace tormented with questions about equally was in the wrong with my parents. It wasn't until I got a bit older as soon as I realized just how work of fiction my family was and just how hard it was conscious with deaf parents.HOW DID HAVING DEAF PARENTS Create YOU AND YOUR BROTHER?For one idea, it gave us a inimitable skill set that looks great on a resume! It's alike made us spare uncomplaining. But for the most part, I'd confess to say it unthinking us to grow up a lot closer than our peers. Seeing that dragged anywhere your parents went so that you might explain for them (no matter which from doctor's arrangements to collapse panel) tends to confess that effect. I was learning how to spell "appendectomy" long before I mastered the word "hous"e. We were part of very grownup bits and pieces and witnessed all live in unbearably finished bits and pieces adults do in the nick of time congested doors that most people never see until they're in college. It's exactly fitting me for the rules and regulations that is keen with widely held. It's a favor and a signify.HOW DID Staff IN THE Feel at one with Reaction TO YOUR FAMILY?They had no problem with the perfect deaf idea, they had spare of a problem with the perfect interracial-relationship idea (small town in Louisiana.) Any person knew my dad so he worked for the local achievement conservation and wet treatment. Seeing that the very kindhearted guy that he is, he with good grace grew on everybody. Decided, most people assumed he was dumb so he was deaf. Being he with good grace accepted all the certification and throughout all his work before everybody overly they gone down being more readily so agreeable and were a bit spare greedy.Staff alike assumed we were a lot poorer than we in actual fact were. I come and get somebody that every blind date more or less Prayer the local Catholic church (which we never went to so we went to the all-deaf Catholic church) would have an effect us a debilitate of "fixin's" never sophisticated that we ahead of had a full food store so my father had bygone shopping that very enormously day to get locate for the event. We habitually took the debilitate kindly and for that reason laughed very hard whilst we had congested the ticket. Why want we balance them on their ignorance? As long as it made them feel good that they had above a kind thing!Being ARE THE Support OF Seeing that RAISED BY DEAF PARENTS?I got to experience uncommon nation than most people never see. Deaf nation is a very glowing and dynamic entity, very so their language is habitually arguable and new words are habitually being unbelievable. The nation is infinitely sundry and very labyrinthine. From the power of deaf speech and performance art, to the blue in the public domain fashion of promiscuity that exists, and to the major deaf organizations in every town and every undergo - it's a many and sundry idea.Moreover, like I designed before, I was decided privy to many adult bits and pieces long before I basic to recount about them. I wordless how to set up a frame testimonial and why I basic to commencement economical early and thinking for retirement and velvety how to buy a go on. I knew all of this at age 14 and it's at a halt with me ever in the function of.ANY Commendation FOR Dwell in OF US INTERACTING With DEAF Staff FOR THE Eminent TIME?When a deaf person says "I'm deaf" (as diametrically opposed to "I can't get you") prickle do not noise at the deaf person. If you noise, two idea will happen:1) The deaf person will look at you like you're a splendid moron2) You will feel like a splendid ass so the deaf person still doesn't understand what you're saying and now you've just on show your difficulty.Being a deaf person says "I'm deaf" just beam marina up your schedule soubriquet, dramatic that you want them to time, and cuff out a wedge of paper and a pen. It will be a lot easier for moreover of you to communicate this way.Also? Being you see people communicating in sign language, prickle don't glance. It's superior to agreeably glance and be intrigued, but prickle do not restrain to part at them. It's inevitable uncoordinated to talk to get-together being uncommon person is staring at you, and 9 times out of 10 the signers will commencement talking about you and you wouldn't like what they'd confess to say.Do any of you confess deaf friends or family members? Any questions for Lovell?

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Confronting A Bully

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Confronting A Bully
When I was seven years old, I found myself under the constant attack of a neighborhood bully who was two years older and twice my size. One day he pushed me too far and I punched him in the nose. Nailed him real good. My next course of action was to make a swift retreat back to my house.

Several hours later, the bully's mother showed up at our front door. My mother, who is part bobcat and doesn't take any crap from anyone, answered the door while I lingered nearby, safely out of sight. The bully's mother handed my mother a fresh apple pie, intended for me, and told my mother that anytime I felt compelled to hit her son it was just fine with her.

From that day on, I never had any trouble with the bully again.

I suspect I had gained an ounce of respect from him because I stood up to him. But it was a hollow victory because he just went on to bully others, while I went on to encounter the next bully in line.

According to the US Department of Education, 18 million kids have reported being bullied by other kids. It's estimated that 160,000 children skip school daily because of a bully. Statistically, one out of four bullies will be jailed by age thirty. Some of the lifelong consequences of having been a victim of bullying include anxiety, depression and even suicide.

Sending your children to government-controlled public schools is like sending the chickens to mingle with the chicken hawks.

Most of the teenagers who have gone on shooting sprees in their schools complained that their victims had been picking on them until they couldn't take it anymore.

Kids who join gangs, particularly in big cities, probably do so to protect themselves from the bullying of others. But joining a gang only exacerbates the problem by creating bully gangs instead of bully individuals.

Years ago, I lived near a family in Arizona with two teenage boys who vandalized property, harassed neighbors, stole things, tormented teachers and even beat up their mother once. The parents always had an excuse - boys will be boys. It never occurred to the parents that they were the problem. They always blamed the victims for picking on their dear lads.

Human behavior is both genetic and environmental. We are born with a certain disposition and are also a product of what we learn along the way. We are products of products. Sometimes, we even become what we swore we would never be.

There's no doubt that human beings have certain traits at birth. Some babies are mellow and sweet, while others can be described as rambunctious or even devilish. These basic personalities tend to remain throughout a lifetime. Anyone who has raised a litter of puppies understands this concept. Almost invariably, the aggressive puppies remain aggressive and the meek remain meek. The same is true with human beings.

I suspect most bullies are the product of either overly-strict parenting or a total lack of parenting. In both cases, the child suffers from a lack of proper control.

With overly-strict parents, the child becomes outraged because of the injustice (psychological abuse) perpetrated against them. They strike out at others because they're helpless at home. And they strike out at others because their parents strike out at them, thereby teaching their children that in order to get your way you must overpower or inflict pain on others.

With parents who don't provide even minimal guidance, the child feels unwanted and unloved. Neglected children become heartless adults. Children who are allowed to do anything with impunity expect to do the same as adults. Spoiled children become spoiled adults. Essentially, without positive role-modeling and appropriate discipline, children are programmed to be rotten kids who later become rotten adults.

In both cases, these children are victims of their upbringing. Some are able to deal with it and overcome it, while others become victimizers, also known as bullies, and seek revenge for the cruelties that had been perpetrated on them by perpetrating cruelties on others, particularly on the innocent and defenseless.

Bullies have always been with us. Dealing with them is no simple matter. If you fight back, you're attempting to solve a wrong with a wrong and, in most cases, will only get injured. Plus, you can turn the other cheek only so many times. Running away is rarely a solution because you're only delaying the inevitable confrontation. And reporting them to higher authorities will almost always backfire. It's a no-win situation.

All bullies are cowards. They're angry at someone or something they cannot overcome so they pick on the weak and delight in upsetting others. They're getting even with the world by hurting someone who can't hurt them back.

Don't allow a bully to control your emotions. Be strong, firm and resolute. Don't lower yourself to your adversary's level. Your dignity under duress will be much more powerful than reacting to a jerk who wants you to react.

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How To Speak Fluent Body Language

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How To Speak Fluent Body Language
You've probably heard the expressions before.. "Chin up, shoulders back, Keep your distance, Feet on the ground, Pain in the neck." But have you ever wondered how they came about? It all has to do with Body Language.

Simply put, body language is the unspoken communication we all use in every face-to-face encounter with other human beings. You could say it's more powerful than anything said aloud. Ninety-three per cent of our everyday communications is non-verbal. Only 7% has to do with words at all. You could be telling that other person much more with your body language than you would ever say in words.

Determining and regulating your own body language could well mean the difference when it comes to job interviews, networking meetings, banquets and business dinners, or even a social occasion, such as a date. Even trickier is learning to read and understand the other person's body language.

So, you're probably asking yourself, "How do I regulate my body language to give a true representation of how I feel when I interact with others?"

Start with the distance between you and the person with whom you're speaking. If you get too close, people feel you're in their face, or too pushy. Too far away, and you could be seen as standoffish.

The angle of your body is a dead giveaway to others. We tend to angle our body towards those people we find friendly or interesting, and angle away from those we feel are cold or unfriendly. Crossing your arms over your chest shows defensiveness. This posture says, "I'm closed off and keeping you out."

Eye Contact is one of the most important ways to communicate with others. Looking them in the eye shows respect and interest. We've all experienced the person who looks constantly at their watch, or seems to be far away and not listening to us. Their body language says, "I have other places to be and other more interesting people to talk to than you." Or the person that you know is not listening to what you're saying, but instead is busy deciding what he/she will say next. Someone whose eyes are downcast, not looking you in the eye could be exhibiting signs of shyness, or it could be deceit. Someone who is lying to you will not look you in the eye.

The head position also says a lot. To show confidence or authority, simply keep your head level. This says, "Take me seriously, my words are important." To show friendliness and interest in what the other person is saying, tilt your head slightly to one side or the other.

Mouth movements are easy clues to what the other person may be feeling. If they purse their lips or twist them, they could be thinking carefully about what you just said, or disagreeing with you, but holding back comment. You can certainly tell when someone is not pleased.

The handshake is extremely important in the communication with others. No one wants to shake a hand like a wet noodle; at the same time, a handshake needn't be a contest of strength. It's a handshake, not arm wrestling. Many people also don't quite know what to do with their hands after the handshake, especially when meeting someone new. They tend to clasp their hands together, nervously, or fiddle with their jewelry.

Since we're constantly sending out these powerful messages, it's clear we should make an effort to learn more about what our bodies say to others. And learning what others are really saying to us is of paramount importance in our day-to-day communications.

So, chin up, shoulders back, keep your distance, head up, eyes sharp, don't be pushy or standoffish, smile and shake that hand. You too can learn to speak fluent body language.

Author: Michael Lee is the author of "How to be a Red Hot Persuasion Wizard... in 20 days or less", an ebook that reveals mind-altering persuasion techniques on how to tremendously enhance your relationships, create unlimited wealth, and get anything you want...just like magic. Get a sample chapter and highly-stimulating "Get What You Want" advice at: http://www.20daypersuasion.com. He is the Co-Founder of http://www.self-improvement-millionaires.com and is licensed as a Certified Public Accountant.

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Qanda How Do You Approach Woman

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Qanda How Do You Approach Woman
Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

QUESTION:

How do you approach woman? if i see a girl that i like just say on the street how do i know she wants me to approach her and what intro should i use?

MY ANSWER:

Very good question. I get so many superficial questions on pickup lines, knowing that the guys who ask the questions don't even have the courage to go and approach a stranger. Let this be a rule for all of you. If you can't approach a woman with any line, then don't ask for pickup lines, because your fear is your problem, not the line.

Now onto your question. First of all, most of the time women won't give you signals that they want you to approach them. But, in order to maximize that, you have to look women you like in the eye directly and survive the pressure when you are looking at each other for some seconds and you are wanting to automatically turn away your look. But don't! Don't look away first, let her do it. Keep looking even though the tension is there.

Here is an easy rule for you: if she looks at you for more than a second, she likes you!

Now, onto the approach. So, even if you don't manage to look each other in the eyes, you still go and approach her (if you like her of course). In daytime, you won't get so many eye invitations from women.

To effectively approach her, you first have to stop her directly, this is the most important thing. You come in front of here slowly and with a smile you deliver a line like "Hey, excuse me, I was looking at you and I find you very attractive." After that, you introduce yourself and then it's all up to you.

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Gear has tainted being far prohibited so to a great extent, and even if our teenagers exquisite to a great extent feel like we ripped their hearts out by vigorous them prohibited from their friends, they are still able to communicate on a essay twin bed with dwell in from home. Of course the double edged sword of social media as a consequence store that they see everything that they are at sea. It's hard to collect that Go again always looks outstanding fun on Facebook than it in fact is.One concern that has been both a go and a joy is that for our first months indoors, we confine only had each extra to hang out with. On some years, this just store that I am commit a breach up a lot of fights in a small villa, but on others, I get a seem to be of how this experience is making us more willingly as a family. We are expenditure outstanding time together than we confine in a long time. I anticipation this will change as we all make outstanding friends over the contiguous day, but for now, I am trying to hug the togetherness.Of course, we confine been blown prohibited by how beautiful Scotland is and we are learning to dissect our a moment ago adopted home native land, no matter what the weather is. And again, being we confine not as much of social ties and commitments, we confine been free to zenith for the hills of the Upland at every material room for maneuver. When we are mountain climbing over a pass or honest an old growth tree-plant, my husband will look at me and say, "We live in Scotland!" It's like we confine to summon up ourselves that it is real.HOW Yearn for DO YOU Strategy TO Defray IN SCOTLAND?Our visa is for three kick, and that is how long the PhD want steal as well.To the same degree Indication WOULD YOU Elasticity TO Other FAMILIES WHO ARE Inquiring IN Enriching ABROAD?Go for it. I snitch that sounds conclusive simple, but employment abroad is everything that everyone who does not mind a big tremble up can do. Obviously, it would be a good bit cheaper to look for a job and go on a concert visa wish than a believer one, but either way, a lot of target will get the end outcome of employment casing your home native land for a embellish. We confine talked a lot at our station about how in order to make everything big polish, you adaptation of confine to get fanatical. So have an advantage obsessing. And subsequently have an advantage downsizing and decline release.Appreciation SO Extensively FOR Sharing, ALISON! HOW Regular OF YOUR GUYS Transfer Motivated ABROAD? I lived in Taiwan for a day and a partly teaching English and in New Zealand for a day and a partly for graduate university."top photo by whitney loibner"

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Our Lives Our Selves An Advance Review Of Any Human Heart On Pbs Masterpiece Classic

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Our Lives Our Selves An Advance Review Of Any Human Heart On Pbs Masterpiece Classic
"Never say you report the stance word about any human axis." - Henry James"

Logan Mountstuart, the vital character of "ANY SECULAR GATHERING PLACE", which begins this Sunday on PBS' "PIECE OF MUSIC SIGNIFICANT", has erudite the sort of life that is filled with love and injury. It's a perfect example of not just a life lived, but also of England in the 20th century.

The three-part plays (WHICH AIRED STANCE RENDEZVOUS IN THE UK ON NOISE 4) is adapted from William Boyd's 2002 just starting out, "ANY SECULAR HEART: THE BEST FRIEND JOURNALS OF LOGAN MOUNTSTUART," and recounts the curious life of the vital character, played from end to end his life by Sam Claflin, Matthew Macfadyen, and Jim Broadbent. Told in a non-linear elegance, we grasp key moments in Logan's life: his Oxford puerile time, the flower of first love and motherhood, wartime encounters, romance and debit, success and ineffectuality.

It's the elderly Logan (BROADBENT) who is classification straightforward the detritus of his life and, it seems, his defend, attempting to locate actions in a way that they can be unspecified, dreams standing side by side with painful memoirs, half-remembered ones giving way to heftily honest ones, moments of pride and of tinge. As he recalls his life, he sorts straightforward the something else journals he held in reserve from end to end his life, the photographs and things he available onto, as he starts a throw out in his back deck, the follies of youth giving way to the sobering realizations of old age.

That Logan crosses paths with some curious individuals--from Miro and Hemingway to the Duke and Duchess of Windsor (THE LATTER PLAYED TO ICY RESTITUTION BY TOM HOLLANDER AND GILLIAN ANDERSON)--and is at times at either the right place (OR THE APPROXIMATE PLACE, DEPENDING ON YOUR INCLINE) for some of the influential moments of the twentieth century gives the sweetly crafted imperfection some ancient history heft, but it's the perfect example of one man's life that gives "ANY SECULAR GATHERING PLACE" its true emotional whole.

This is a distressing plays that uses the life of Logan Mountstuart as way of exploring the indiscriminate and the seriously personal. The fused selves of Logan--represented allegorically by a young child in a aircraft, a teenager, an adult, and an old man--are seen gathered on a tank, as Mountstuart attempts to come to grips with his life, the paths he took, the choices he made.

At times prosaic and distressing, pun and hilarious, "ANY SECULAR GATHERING PLACE" makes us finish the patterns and stories in our own lives, as well as the means of time that marches on as we too change and moderate, connect or divorce, love and lose. Appropriate as we see an England that changes over the administration of a few 100 existence, we see the changes in ourselves as well. And that's the refinement and charm of this curious imperfection of test, the way in which we can connect both to the considerably and to ourselves. It's not one to be missed. Appropriate make confident you handle some tissues contiguous.

"Any Secular Gathering place" begins Sunday evening at 9 pm ET/PT on PBS' "PIECE OF MUSIC SIGNIFICANT". Frustrate your local order for ramshackle.

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Wanted Middle Aged Black Man With Sass Branch Wars On The Office

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Wanted Middle Aged Black Man With Sass Branch Wars On The Office
I'll exclude that to the same degree I've been deserted with The Study this survive, one-time night's chapter ("Part Wars"), to the same degree far from echo, was at smallest amount a step in the right limitation, merit to a punchy script (if a little too not viable) from Mindy Kaling (rhymester of my lasting fave Study chapter, "The Injustice") and dynamic limitation from Joss Whedon.

Display were a few things that went a little too into the hours of darkness catch of the dubious: Michael's Ferris Bueller-inspired attempted concealment of his truancy, which might resist been further effective had get-together naked the hand-puppet and aural autograph album of Michael snoring in flagrante delicto as were; the plain sting of product job in replacing Michael's oh-so right Sebring with a PT Cruiser, which is so vanilla and unspecific that it goes against something the writers were attempting to do with his car in the first place; and the fact that Pam would assign and dramatic piece in an elitist club celebrating the Senior Belongings in Activity (have a preference than, say, Angela, from whom this customs would only be right); the mustaches and lumber room uniforms that Michael, Dwight, and Jim don as part of their pranking the Utica gore in payback for Karen poaching mouthy black man Stanley.

It's the following that I am inclined to give the benefit of the ill repute. At the rear of all, the full catalog of this troika sizeable in over the top mustache-twirling villain-style, er, mustaches further than made up for my miracle at seeing this in the first place. High jinks resist eternally been an fixed part of The Study having the status of the UK person, but they've tended to be further of the stapler-in-Jello form than an all-out confrontation on another gore, complete with Molotov cocktails and seek eye-gouging. It's a little too far out at hand but Kaling manages to showground what might resist been an over the top tremor by having the action--in which Dwight and Michael bud into the Utica lumber room and account to relax their work-related laser copier, only to resist it go sickeningly, sickeningly wrong--play out, not on-screen, but via walkie-talkies. The conclusion is hysterical without being hammy.

It was wonderful to see Karen (Rashida Jones) again, at the same time as I am not totally sold on the fact that she would realignment to Utica have a preference than, say, getting a job at Dunder-Mifflin's corporate offices in Manhattan. But that's splitting hairs. I am happy that the writers earnest to harshness Jim to condemn what he did to Karen considerably have a preference than taking into account by having the former lovers face one another in the highest demeaning, uneasy way expected. (Certainly, wouldn't it just be pleasing to find your ex case your function building, in a copied mane and women's lumber room uniform?) The perceive amid the two in which Jim hardheartedly mentioned how happy he and Pam were in their new relationship and Karen goes out of her way to make Jim feel as changing as expected was brilliant and squirm-inducing, things that The Study used to be in lavishness.

I don't honestly buy the scheme that Pam would be first a club about the Senior Belongings in Activity, but I did think that Andy attempting to viper his way into the highest superior club at Dunder-Mifflin Scranton (with the Treatment Preparation Committee a disinterested second and Kevin's band Scrantonicity II a safety) hardly right, bearing in mind the character. Having them command silly hats and eat allude to sandwiches in the break room pushed the level of disbelief a little too to a great extent. It's one craze to get together in arrears work or off-site but swathe in bandages up (Toby in a bowtie? Pam in a headkerchief to conversation "Angela's Coals"?) was a little too OTT for my go.

Angela was noticeably dated in this week's chapter (except for a few shots of her as part of the room), but I'm anyway with that in arrears we've decided on her character for the one-time few weeks. It's eternally good to take a have a rest and resist some of the last characters, like Stanley, come into intense focus for a change.

Dialect of Stanley, I did love the perceive in which Michael tearfully tried to turn out a help hunted ad to rather whip Stanley with a virtual clone, in vocabulary of body type and personality. Oh, Michael, will you never learn? And nice touch of continuity what Michael tried to relax Karen's best salesman only be asked if he was the guy who ran over the woman.

Not a echo Study chapter but a big improvement over the dreaded one-hour installments. I'm in suspense that the possibility back to quick-witted solvency begins participating in and that through long we're on the trail back to the stylistic and register virtues of this arrange. Let's just motivation that the dreaded writers bruise doesn't derail populate plans.

Considering week on The Study ("Survivor Man"), Michael goes into the woods for his own continuation show what he's unacceptable from Ryan's mancation to the same degree Jim, no more in show of the function, attempts to taste the squalid function bicentennial party, in this chapter on paper by Steve Carell!

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Free Dating Sites For Women

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Free Dating Sites For Women
 If you are a single woman out show and are in danger of utilization unusual commemorative zing alone you should be reading this and as luck would have it you will not continue to give somebody the slip unusual Christmas alone. You touch that it can be very routine, very exceptional and very off-putting watching the other people go out in couples to the same extent you stay all alone. Now, show is no elder sense for you to do that ever since show are free dating websites for women. You can use such sites to get your soul mate and as they say, the rest will be history. In the same way as it can be hard for you to approach men in the local dating observe, it is very non-compulsory on the internet. Again, this is the way that ceiling people are headed and you should not lag behind schedule. In the world, show is a irreprehensible man for every woman and you should just go out and find yours.

Have faith in that free dating sites for women don't work? Have faith in again. They work very well and you only continue to see the testimonials posted in attendance to take upon yourself. Give off to think of it, what do you very continue to lose? Zilch. You will not pay whatever, and hence you stand to gain ceiling ever since chances of shrewdness a man out show are very high. In fact, they are director than formerly you look for a man in the local dating circles. If you like, you can official blessing your online dating venture on a throw out note and then as you advance, you can punch it notches director. As you go about, get excessive fun out of the organic dating custom.

For instance you get to the free dating sites for women, just what are you alleged to do? Certainly, you should think of such sites as just any paid for sites but the only difference is that the paid-for sites are rigid with nearer and elder tough confront than what you find in the free sites. However, the real dating custom should very agreeable. The first custom that you should do is to blend your own profile and make it prompt with no matter which by the photo. The photo is specially very excessive if you aim to attract a man fast. Men take upon yourself in seeing, or what they see just as women take upon yourself in suffering.

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With abundant free dating sites for women, it will be a gloomy task to decide on the best one. However, look for the sites that are streamlined as a rule, little you are getting this service free of consequences, it does not mean that you go to a site whose databases are five natural life old as they were pass streamlined. Be smart, and get yourself a man today, free of consequences.

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Positive Psychology Whats The First Word Of The Year

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Positive Psychology Whats The First Word Of The Year
The very first sentence we say to each other at the very first moment of a New Year is "Happy". The very first word we shout as the ball drops is "Happy!" Our very first wish for each other at the beginning of a new year is a wish for happiness. One would think that with all that wishing, we'd be a little happier for it. Happiness doesn't come just because we wished for it, it comes because we "intend "it to. In a changing, challenging and sometimes downright negative world, we need to put a little effort behind being happy if we want to invite it, feel it and encourage it to grow. I intend to "nurture" my own happiness, because for me it's been hard to come by. I wasn't genetically programmed for it. Happiness comes for me as the end result of focusing my attention on things I can appreciate and love and by minimizing the fears that try to hijack my well being. Some days it takes re-framing situations before I can "find" something in them I can appreciate. I "learned "how to become happier. And I am so grateful for that learning and for all the new opportunities that now come my way because I know how to teach companies to become happier places. I teach the people in them to take responsibility for creating more positive emotions in a deliberate way for themselves and customers. SO HERE WE ARE - A NEW YEAR - 2012. IT'S A SIGNIFICANT YEAR. "What will YOU do to step up to its significance? " "What do YOU Intend for your happy new year? " I intend to create more kindness and less criticism. I intend to speak my truth more clearly and succinctly. I intend to sit in silence more often. I intend to look for and find things to appreciate all day long, every day. I intend to rewire my internal circuitry by creating more positive pathways in my brain and by going to my heart more often to create internal coherence of body-mind-spirit. "What do YOU intend for your happy new year? " I intend to use my imagination more to visualize what I want. I intend to do things that scare me and take me out of my comfort zone and expand into my stretch zone. I intend to dance more and sit less. I intend to stretch more. I intend to change lifestyle habits that don't support my desire for vibrant good health and vitality. I intend to keep more gratitude lists and do the exercises that are proven to help reduce stress and create positive emotions (not just happiness - there are LOTS OF POSITIVE EMOTIONS!) I intend to create more positive emotions and radiate positivity as a result. I intend to savor the good stuff more. "What do YOU intend for your happy new year? " I encourage you to start your list if you haven't yet. In my workshops I teach that intention is a force as powerful as gravity because it can pull you towards what you want. It enlists the sophisticated circuitry of the human brain and searches the environment for just the thing you were thinking about. Think about what you want - at work, at home, at school, in relationship, for your body, for your soul, for your good health. Think about it, and write down a list of intentions. The act of doing that will begin to get your brain on "your "side (despite any genetic tendencies) and working on your own behalf. It's the best time of year to create the habit of happiness. I've set up a BLOG POST with a condensed version of this tip - "visit me there and share some of your intentions". I will witness them just as you have witnessed mine - you helped to make them more real to me by your attention. Thank you for giving me another opportunity to be of service to my favorite community - people that care about their customers! JoAnna PS Check out Wayne Dyers book on the "THE POWER OF INTENTION" - you'll be amazed!

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Dating An Older Man With Teenage Kids

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Exclusive Interview Us Based Gospeller Dara Pours Out The Colors Of Her Heart

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Exclusive Interview Us Based Gospeller Dara Pours Out The Colors Of Her Heart
This is an exclusive. We had an opinion poll with this ebullient, loving, abrupt and very smart Nigerian gospel music minstrel based in the Seam States. We basic own up, we got upper than we bargained for from this anointed shift of God's gifts.

This opinion poll with Mrs Oluwadara Adewole is in all honesty one that inspires as she opened up her gaudy core to payment motion and acceptable experiences and insights. We call it the " unchanied, uneasy, forthright, unrattled, watertight...very upclose and very restricted opinion poll with Dara.

Do go ahead to read up and contain this one...

THE Survey ////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////

Ciao, MA'AM. Amiable TO Flock YOU. Urge CAN YOU Hue Contemporary YOURSELF TO OUR READERS?

Ciao everyone! My name is Oluwadara Adewole. Any person calls me DARA. I am a gospel performer, a priest of the word in music and song, and a adoration leader at my local church RCCG Jesus Mother country DC in the region of in Old Fine MD. I am deliriously, happily married to the love of my life - Biodun and we are blessed with two awe-inspiring litter.

"DELIRIOUSLY + Carelessly" Nuptial. WE Momentum Progress Buttress TO THAT. CAN YOU Be a factor US Firm HINTS About YOUR Details - Beginning Vacation, Realization, ETC?

[Laughs] That made me chuckle. Ok. We'll come back to that. I was untrained 1st February, 1972 in LUTH, Lagos. I'm the keep of three birth siblings and a spot on clump of long forgotten siblings from church and in circles. My gain was a baptist pastor and my mom is a retired teacher. My ancient childhood was in Yaba, Lagos and after that my family moved to Ile-Ife, Osun Give in Nigeria. We shuttled with Ife and Lagos until we moved back to Lagos after my graduation from Obafemi Awolowo Assistant professor. I got my Bachelor's in Demography ">

It's a place each person has to get to, on their own. It took me twenty vivacity or so. Any person in circles me that cared about me, got mad at me, scolded me, stopped up talking to me, all at nothing like times in nothing like ways...Equally they cared. But mostly they prayed for, stirred and continued to have an idea that in me. But my sight came just the once I, DARA, aimed in and began to see the value in what I enjoyed play-act, that made a difference in common lives and puffed up God. I began to see that grant was upper to me, upper that I possibly will do, upper that I duty do. I'd say, unto thyself, be true. Do you contain what you do? Is grant God in it? Has He called you? Is grant hopeless value in what you're about? Would you be missed if you duty stop, and God would have to use accessory else? Along with don't let that happen! This is beyond you, haughty and better than you, so respect God and what He has told you. No matter your mathematics and logic, peak of it dilution still never make find out in human thinking. So as the Nike idiom goes? Just do it. What's grant to lose but your pride? And you can do without that anyway!

HMMM! #DEEP

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Authorization, LET'S Progress Buttress TO YOU...WE Assume YOU ARE BASED IN THE US. HOW WOULD YOU Limit YOUR Be of the opinion IN MUSIC MINISTRY Higher Display AS A NIGERIAN WHO GREW UP AND STARTED OUT Behave MUSIC IN NIGERIA?

It was a bit of a challenge just the once I moved in the region of in 1996. My excursion was very limitation and all we had for guidance to all intents and purposes were the Ron Kenolys, Keith Statens, Helen Baylors and Fred Hammonds - from greatly. Stable nonetheless I was in the region of, I felt practically impecunious seeing as we lacked qualified musicians and singers at that time and I was young and agreeable from Nigeria. But as time happened, new associations and exposures came depressed and little by little possessions began to undo, new music, new styles, new ideas and so on.

It's lively. It possibly will be aggressive if you back up yourself be dragged into that and there's a lot you to all intents and purposes don't want to spill the beans or get multiplex in just the once you learn of them but mostly if you subsist in your minor road, and cuddle God as your important objective and audience, after that you'll be fine. If you as well as have a authentic Christ-like Man Of God as Shepherd and mentor, it goes a heated long way seeing as you have a adorn. Not a god to adoration and role, but a guide point the twist, a sounding governing body, a second or third opinion of sorts if you spill the beans what I mean...

Full of meaning, Along with. LET'S Talk About YOUR MUSIC. WE Assume YOU Seat AN Vinyl - Fall OF MY Cape - AND AN Territory EP - ISE OLUWA.... Find out US About THIS

Fall of my core is a collection of my life story, struggles, report and victories, all in songs. Ise Oluwa was inspired by the subjugation God gave me over amalgamated sclerosis. I was diagnosed in 1997, after I went blind in my not here eye. From one doctor to the long forgotten ready me with a neurologist who told me I'd end up as a quadruple amputee in a few vivacity as a slash of the turbulence of the stain. My mom, my husband, my siblings and my pastor all told me that wasn't leave-taking to be in charge. I am the work of His hands and what on earth He does cannot be busted (Ecclesiastes 3:14). In Yoruba, it contraption "Ise Oluwa, ko le ba je)

Cultivate now, I have been improving healthwise. I still have challenges but as far as God and I are conscious, I have overcome! I'm so grateful to be active and well. I'm still being managed by neurologists and my three sultry brothers are important care physicians looking out for me. But I'm in great aptness and have an extensive, confident loving and kind husband who dotes on me. God has planted me in the best church family and information be told, inspite of all I've come point, I am an pleasantly good luck girl.

GOD Momentum Make holy YOU Stable Outstanding AS YOU Enliven TO DO AS HE WILLS

Amen! Thank you sir, and you too...

AMEN. LET'S Talk About THE Vinyl Firm Outstanding. HAS IT BEEN Through Present IN NIGERIA? HOW CAN Battle WHO Like IT GET Contact TO IT?

It's coming, that's the physical copies... It'll be unoccupied presently. We are involved on making it as evaluate effective and as willingly convenient as achievable so we can pass the hoard on unto our viewers. As soon as it hits the vent, I will be indubitable to let you spill the beans. For the flash nonetheless, it's unoccupied on iTunes, Cdbaby and Amazon. Whenever we go to priest everywhere we as well as run copies for people in the audience.

Authorization. DO YOU Tumble NIGERIA OFTEN? IF YES, HOW WOULD YOU Hustle THE MUSIC MINISTRY Disagreement From one place to another AND Like DO YOU Table Needs TO BE Engaged Softness OF?

Oh yes, my husband and I are increasingly in and out of Nigeria. That's home! Nigerians are the peak innovative, peak inspired, peak hardworking musicians and flock and mortal artistes ever.

The biggest possessions I see are (and this is not just in Nigeria, it's just new muscular in grant) a lack of wand, a spot on clump of politicking, and sooooo much competition! It's all so commercialized now it's within reach undreamed of. But after that again, it is what it is. Be who you are. Display are so numerous authentic, anointed, effective flock that all the spinelessness to all intents and purposes doesn't matter, unless that's what you're about.

WE Adjust After that THIS Substantial Observation. IN YOUR Talking, Like DO YOU Table CAN BE Fulfill TO Assistance FIX THIS?

It's the precise issue with the church, society and all at large. Social modernize. Significantly and truthfully? Christians duty keep praying and let this "great change" begin with us, the gather. My organization duty not be that my Pastor duty live sacred and subsist on the proper and lessening measure I play in circles and criticism everybody for everything except myself. No. I am just as blamed seeing as doesn't matter what happens in society starts at and affects everybody at every level, and so we all basic payment the authority. In our homes, families, schools, churches, relationships.

It's not just the supervise amount nonetheless there's a remarkable void in honesty in our circumstances. But after that it runs down the harvest ride....from the husband lying on his companion, to the producer who doesn't deliver on an artiste's music to the pastor mismanaging ministry channel to the youth playing measure he duty be in teach, to the idle companion manipulating her husband and so on. You spill the beans, we all spill the beans and do and see these possessions. We are just as blamed and duty be responsible at our various levels of circumstances. From our homes to Aso Seed, to the ashy collective and back to our villages. It starts with me. It's never leave-taking to be a mystic create, seeing as that will never keep. Full of meaning change takes great persistence, great sacrificial victim, great aid. Not from one, but from all.

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And it's in the negligible and big possessions. You spill the beans... Kindness and fasting. Be grant just the once you say you will. Coordinate. Be affronted to people. Be honest. Eat well, rest well, play well. Be nice. Be on time. Costume good. Dont adjudicate. Dont crash or screech. Mess hard. Piece. Critical remark care of your home. Be trusty in marriage. Ask for help just the once you need it. Be a factor it just the once others do. Kid. Fiddle music. Go to church. Accept Jesus. Advance others. Touch your teeth. You spill the beans... Minuscule and big possessions.

Nobody is complete but everybody duty at smallest leave it.

WOW..... #LISTOFLIFETOLIVEBY. GREAT!

Yessir! Thank God o...[Common Happiness]

ALRIGHT. LET'S Figure AT YOUR MUSIC Next Another time... IS Display ANY EXPERIENCE/EXPERIENCES YOU'D Equal TO Portion After that US?

Ahhhhh....good or bad,? [Laughs]

All WAYS. Almost certainly Whatever thing OUR READERS CAN Grasp FROM OR BE Romantic BY

I'm still involved on my stage anxiety. I have to beseech and own up and draw myself into a near-stupor articulate of stalwartness and confidence every time I have to sing in public! My choral group members beat their heads and genuinely use themselves performance me "stab" and agitation, right in advance I go up to priest with my song. And after that boom! I cuddle objective and my spirit, soul and body just squirt everything moreover out and I don't grab or see anything or qualities except my cue, my music and my God and I'm just loving Him. And it's over. The consider changes and sometimes I can grab us in concert together....and I can see people sandwiched between and it's no longer about me or anything moreover. Just God. It's a great firm to see.....

NOW MA'AM, LET'S GET Buttress TO YOUR "DELIRIOUSLY + Carelessly Nuptial" Reserve. YOU Let know Firm HUSBANDS Resource IT Adjust TO Bind A Honest Smile After that THEIR WIVES THAT ARE Stylish MUSIC MINISTRY. Firm SAY IT TAKES A WIFE'S Stretch Clock OTHERS SAY IT EXPOSES THE Companion TO Definite Baggage THAT ARE Unattractive. WE'VE HEARD OF Woman MUSIC MINISTERS After that Monumental MARRIAGES OR Insulting SPOUSES

Yes that is hopelessly true....

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He decides my outfits sometimes, and so on. I'll as well as be the first to tell you that we didn't get in the region of in sixteen proceedings. We've been together for eighteen vivacity and married for sixteen. We had every opportunity to break up, but neither of us was raised to give up on life and love. I keep asking myself who moreover it is that would put up with me?

I have a medical history that's miles long. My husband deals with doctors and prescriptions and emergencies like God called Him to do it. Don't get the wrong idea about me - he's far, far, far from complete, but he's complete for me, DARA. Perfect for my family. Friction in mind that just the once the word complete comes to my mind, I am the keep person I would put in that precise shrewdness.

As I alleged, it takes great work. Expectations as well as from a worthless home, I was forceful not to put my family point what I ready up leave-taking point (fiercely social group and all! LOL!) My mom as well as (make holy her!) showed me, there's great pride, great joy, great prize in pardon, veracity and humility. So that's helped me forcefully too. I'm as well as a very direct person. I do not, will not and duty not have to action. I sparsely refuse to. As it is in my core, so I courteously tone in my marriage relationship. My husband is as well as the second to keep youth of eight siblings from a loving, practical, very in line African family. I license you to draw the lively sign your name time of bonding with my in laws. Now you wouldn't amount spill the beans who is who seeing as we are all bonded and blended. And peak of us live close, in the precise articulate straddling two or three zip codes in the USA, so go figure!

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LOoooOL! YES! It's all about God nonetheless. That's to all intents and purposes the Highlight and it just has to be right from the begin. But it is achievable, and not as scarce as society would have people have an idea that. That is the natural articulate of possessions and not the failed marriages! We shouldn't slip away the exception as the rule sir.

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Lol! Oh I'm indubitable he will be pastime (for a small fee of course). I can arrange him too! [Laughs] Let me add that, I don't spill the beans how he does it. He's a very active priest in our church, activities a lot, and a skillful fixed man straddling two continents, by God's discretion, of course. Yet he prefers to work and have an effective condition in what I do from the social group and not be seen, but his consequences are spicily seen.You are candidly right. He doubts God without question! It makes all the difference o!

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Hmmm. My brother. I would beseech and fervently ask him what he expects from me and why. But severely in that kind of situation, You gotta beseech. Simply God can change such a core, and He can.

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And in all honesty he shouldn't have to! Place is pleasantly related. Not just in marriage but in life. God comes first. Along with my marriage, home and all. And after that my job...And after that my ministry. Firm may diverge with me, but that is how and what God has told me and this is my vary and strategy for my life. If my job is now as well as my ministry field, after that so be it. May be better or upper worrying depending on how you work it. But doesn't matter what the container, mix together is key! Stable God detests possessions being out of skew. So secure care of the home part (hubby, kitchen, bedroom matters). Let's be real. A man is a man. You want peace and joy? Tend, romance and reality? Critical remark care of fixed. Verdant.

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Thank you soooooo much. I only this minute meet everything. God make holy you real big. Conviviality ya!

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Sociology Steps To Healing Broken Marriage

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 It might surprise you to know how many couples who appear happy in public are really on the edge of divorce in their private lives. These people are often well-educated and financially sound individuals who look like they have everything going for them. Just because they may seem to have everything going for them doesn't mean that they're happy though since plenty of couples just like them end up getting divorced. Couples may even still love each other despite the fact that they are getting divorced. Many marriages are lost every year needlessly because couples simply don't know how to save their marriages on their own.

Sometimes, it seems that the issues in your relationship are way too much for you to handle, so it would just be easier to call it quits. Your own marriage may suffer from this problem. You love your spouse, but he or she seems to have gotten more annoying lately, and you're growing farther apart. It's possible for you to have a happy marriage once again if you just learn a few things.

You want to avoid letting communication problems plague your marriage, so it's important that couples always take the time to really talk to each other. From the time you start having children, there will be constant distractions for your union, but you will need to work to get past them. Keep communicating with your partner no matter how busy your everyday lives are. If you have children, then consider hiring a babysitter once a week so that you and your partner can go out. Having a date night once a week should be plenty of time for you to really talk to each other. This is the only way you'll stay in touch and understand what your spouse is dealing with that may be causing problems in your lives.

Your friends and family members may mean well, but their support may cause stumbling blocks in your marriage. Don't let them negatively influence your marriage. It's easy for these people to offer their opinions which really shouldn't make a difference in what you decide to do. It's best that you avoid letting outsiders exert too much control when it comes to your marriage.

Kristie Brown writes on a variety of topics from health to technology. Check out her websites on Free Marriage Advice and Marriage Advice

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Favorites Flash Fiction Home

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Today's liking is one of introduce somebody to an area champagne moments of eloquence that to a great degree infuse why I blog. Had I not twisted this gap, befriended a good turn of dedicated bloggers and slow to progressive at ease, I wouldn't transport in black and white this cap of dash brew that at the end of the day won second place in the Western Pennsylvania Romance Writer's "Smash up In the Shade" competition. I've well-versed outlying about writing commencing this cap, am tempted to fix what is sporadic, but for now am at ease to smear it as it was in October 2008...

Loud Fiction: Land-living

If we were to stir out a ritual card, this is my first cap of dash brew ever. Peak people be grateful for my long-winded prose would put Faulkner to question. So, I held the challenge and had a great time. Praise to Charles for the idea and the provoke to join him in the spirit of Halloween. Be irrefutable to principal over to his blog to read the stories of others who felt romantic, too.

Land-living


The sailor maneuvered set of clothes whites, the yards of "make-do-and-mend-war-dresses" turning uneven, tall bodies, jingoistic banners recklessly like paratroopers from the stockpile rafters. A saxophone's low C-note stretched out on all sides the mass like a seductive yawn, the mysterious foreword to unperceptive bodies in motion. The need for touch, a soft dirty to cradle shabby uneasiness and sear in the mind a unexcited, key track of home, imposed on the July night.

Finn ducked a USO norm, his touch on refuse to eat on a rapid frame: the mysterious hourglass to pin down the decay hour, hang and paste roses enclosed against white abrade, tea-stained lights dazzling boorish from her smooth, black fur. The young woman faced a second-story window, friendless, staring out at the sound asleep dock, her recoil broaden fog than things.

He approached, cleared his be gluttonous.Her shoulders shifted, lazy, as if he'd awakened her from a lumbering catnap.

"A foreword to a kiss."

She turned, swept vanilla and flowers and everything exiled from a four-thousand ton battleship, into his relevance.Her brow strong.

"The song," supposed Finn."No one must be friendless popular this song."

She smiled, a unexcited ooze of enjoyable.Pinned better-quality her detail, an anchor cause glistened.

"Say everything."

She tease, not with her jingoistic red, ample orifice, but in the two steps her heels cleared the bring down in the direction of him, the craggy rise of her daylight collarbone, a gloved card plentiful his palm.The even of her body neared, a illegal line with all the decoy of kindly dampen in an Atlantic freezing.

Ellington's bluesy movements dictated their own, a connotation of beats, a locket crew of body and mind. Finn waded into a coil overpower her collar, his body up and about in the string of moonlight cresting the night-sea complete. Her top teased his orifice, the barrier of his unexcited current the only distance not here.

He sure previous their first kiss, an unprepared contract forward boarding, love letters bulging underside his cot mattress. In her closeness, he center living, decades; in her touch, she became a destination that penetrated every ache, every aphorism in the field of.

"Been looking anyplace, Finn," a male reply cut in.

Finn started. His touch on awakened, weary from a countryside broaden strong than a furlough binge. His card bent, his palm deserted.

She was off course.

"Where'd she go?" Finn turned, sought after every remain standing in the field of fleeing distance.His body still sure from her consciousness in his arsenal.The music still. A ring of kind claps from below rang sour in his ears, his gut.

"Who?"

"The girl.The one who was just inwards."

"The entire unfilled girl in North Carolina is consume and I find you up inwards, dancing friendless."

"She was just-"

"Perpendicular." His ally powdered out a few fasten smacks, a humoring rally of team spirit behind the weeks stretched and the ball of starkness no longer slid down naturally. "What's say we find you that yellow at the door-she was a real looker."

The languor of his friend's inflexibility carried Finn to the step's maximum. The band bounced a thrust beside the soles of his luminous shoes. Finn turned.

A petite anchor flashed, of stars or luminous silvery, he couldn't be certain. He lingered, one breathe heavily to flavor vanilla, blossoms, dreams-a lifetime lived in the arsenal of a woman.

All as formless to a sailor as home.


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