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Women aren't that complicated as you may think. You do something wrong, she gets upset, and then you apologize. That's basically it. I don't see why men make a fuss over women making a fuss about what they did wrong. And when men do apologize, it never works because it is never convincing enough. Don't raise an eyebrow at me gents, all the ladies are nodding their heads on this one. Men think that simply blurting out '"I'm sorry'" is apology enough. Well, trust me, that will do if your offense was just bump her at the door on your way out or accidentally elbow her at the Starbucks line.WAYS OF APOLOGIZING THAT WOMEN WANT Sweetheart, that is not enough. Let me teach you the right way on how women want you to apologize: Give her a flower and letter with match of effort :) * REMEMBER THE THREE COMPONENTS ESSENTIAL TO AN APOLOGY: "I'm sorry", "I won't do it again", and "What can I do to make up for it"?" The first part says that you're actually remorseful for what you've done, the second part is a promise that you are remorseful enough not to do it again, and the last one is to correct the damage or at least lessen it. * PUT A LITTLE EFFORT IN IT. Saying sorry is never just saying sorry. Be a little creative about it. Do something nice, fun, or romantic enough to equal, or better yet exceed, the gravity of the offense you've committed. Flowers are always welcome, a personalized dinner date, or a surprise whatever would also make the cut. I've said this again and again and I won't stop saying it: gentlemen, women love effort; we know how to appreciate even the littlest bit of effort and it would be even more special if it comes with an apology. * GIVE IT WHEN SHE'S LIKELY TO FORGIVE YOU. It is not much a good idea to apologize when she's at the height of her anger. She would just think you're saying '"sorry"' for the mere sake of saying sorry and in a bad attempt to make her feel better. Do it when she's calmed down and not hysterical. Otherwise, your perfect apology would go to total waste. On the other hand, don't wait too long planning and carrying out your apology. You'd be sending the wrong message: that you had to think about whether you should do it or not; plus you'll lose the momentum that makes it special. Remember: timing, timing, timing! * MAKE IT PUBLIC OR DO SOMETHING THAT SHE WOULD NEVER FORGET AND SMILE ABOUT WHEN SHE'S REMINDED OF IT. Posting "I am sorry" on her Facebook wall does not, unfortunately, count. So think harder. It could be a big sorry sign on her street, or hiring a bunch of kids to hand her post-it's, or anything that resembles a Hollywood rom-com scene. Getting other people involved would make it seem so grand; putting yourself out in humiliation ("i.e. spelling 'Sorry' with your butt") would make her feel like you're willing to put yourself out there just so to make her smile and forgive you. ("Dangerous, life threatening, or blackmailing schemes don't count and are in fact disgusting"), Remember the art of getting a girl to fall in love with you! And, possibly, the best way to apologize - movie effects aside - is to be sincere and show her that.
Credit: womanizer-psychology.blogspot.com
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