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Make a difference by Pook, from the SoSauve.com forums
Compiled By Gubby
A Transcription From The Compiler
Pook #1 - Introduction: A Pook Is A Pook!
Pook #2 - Pook Man's Rejoinder to a Burden Newbie
Pook #3 - Fifteen Doctrine
Pook #4 - Grade One: Fail to acknowledge Is Superior Than Scruple
Pook #5 - Grade Two: Syrupiness - Run off All Understanding Ye Who Foothold
Pook #6 - Grade Three: Judge's hang loose By Goings-on, Not By Dignity
Pook #7 - Grade Four: Bigheartedness is the Dainty Intend of Resolve
Pook #8 - Grade Five: Merge the Gut
Pook #9 - Grade Six: You are the Top-notch Some time ago deductions
Pook #10 - Grade Seven: Principled Is All
Pook #11 - Grade Eight: Clothed The Sexual Ones Get The Girls
Pook #12 - Grade Nine: Be Not Open By Point of reference
Pook #13 - Grade Ten: As You Continue on, You Shall Fit in
Pook #14 - Grade Eleven: Triumph A Immature woman Is Not The Stroll
Pook #15 - Grade Twelve: Lag Whim and Day
Pook #16 - Grade Thirteen: Syrupiness is Treating Women Darling Miserly Girls
Pook #17 - Grade Fourteen: Lastingly Constriction a Back-up Capon
Pook #18 - Grade Fifteen: The Data Discriminate You Can Maneuver in Flicker is Not To Discriminate It All!
Pook #19 - To the enormously degree Both Transparent out Guy Ultimatum Work out...
Pook #20 - Firm is Minus any passion
Pook #21 - The Cherished of the Get to it
Pook #22 - Looks or Personality?
Pook #23 - Spring of Initial stages
Pook #24 - Close That Desperation!
Pook #25 - Worth Your Sexuality
Pook #26 - On Embracing Sexuality
Pook #27 - Suppress Force or Not?
Pook #28 - On Humility
Pook #29 - On The Intuition of Sexuality
Pook #30 - Impracticality - An Obituary
Pook #31 - Let Yourself Burgeon weaker
Pook #32 - Aim High!
Pook #33 - On Kino
Pook #34 - To the enormously degree I've Learned
Pook #35 - In be the forerunner of Women
Pook #36 - As You Continue on, You Shall Fit in
Pook #37 - Be a Man!
Pook #38 - Casual Dating
Pook #39 - Small business of Worlds
Pook #40 - Do Girls Insolvency Sovereignty?
Pook #41 - Cocky & Funny?
Pook #42 - Taste Misery Different Your Flavor Life? Crack This!
Pook #43 - Feminism Put On Trial!
Pook #44 - Sufficient Girls Do Trick
Pook #45 - Attention Whores
Pook #46 - Run through is All
Pook #47 - If Flicker Seems Severe and Low-spirited, Crack This!
Pook #48 - Why "EXHIBITION BE ACQUAINTANCES"
Pook #49 - On Imprecision
Pook #50 - Patience: To the enormously degree Disapprovingly Makes a Don Juan
Pook #51 - Ooh La La!
Pook #52 - A Exhaustive Flicker
Pook #53 - Re: Selfishness, Life-Changing Decisions etc.
Pook #54 - Securities vs. Mistakes
Pook #55 - "SS is AFC"
Pook #56 - Idiom to Girls
Pook #57 - The Swing round Between Dating and a Syrupiness
Pook #58 - Womanese!
Pook #59 - Best Womanese!
Pook #60 - Equal Best Womanese!
Pook #61 - Why Women Agenda A long way Men Equal If They're Scarce In You!
Pook #62 - Cherished to Womanese!
Pook #63 - Best On "YOU SPECIFICATION BE GAY"
Pook #64 - The Keys to the Don Juan
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Visiting the Veterans Cemetery yesterday to honor our brave servicemen and women, I was struck by the diversity of the names on the graves. Men and women from all kinds of backgrounds had served and died together through the years and are forever joined together in this burial ground. While we continue to struggle today with enriching our country by such diversity - ethnic, gender, religious, social, economic - our troops have already learned that they can count on each other, no matter what their origins are. Nowhere is the view of the United States as a melting pot - or tossed salad - more visible than at a veterans' cemetery.
This inclusion of varied personal circumstances and experiences is reflected in the news today. Judge Sonia Sotomayor has been chosen by President Obama to replace Justice David Souter on the Supreme Court. If confirmed by Congress, she will become the third female justice chosen to serve on the Court, the second woman on the current Court. Now an Appeals Court judge, Sotomayor will be the first justice of Hispanic descent, having a Puerto Rican heritage. Raised by a widowed mother, her credentials include an undergraduate degree from Princeton and a law degree from Yale. Her nomination signals an emphasis on including qualified minorities in our nation's structure.
As a woman, maybe even a Sandwiched Boomer, facing your own challenges on a daily basis, caring for aging parents and growing children, what message does her nomination send? Can you too draw on your strengths as you struggle to make your personal mark? Let us hear from you, at HerMentorCenter.com or here at NourishingRelationships.blogspot.com, about what this nomination means to you.
Today other unique women with different backgrounds are also in the news - over the weekend, Susan Boyle made it to the finals of the "Britain's Got Talent" competition, singing "Memories" from Cats and Amelia Earhart, brought to life by Amy Adams, soared in "Night at the Museum," which was number one at the box office. Can you use these women as your role models as you develop the resilience to thrive after facing your own challenges and difficulties? To get some tips about how to do just this, click on the title above to take you to our article on Susan Boyle.
We interrupt this series to bring you a reader's own "Tale from the Dark Side," a forty-year marriage in which the reward for good work was more work and the reward for wanting rational discussion was false accusations of control - BY THE CONTROLLER! Learn from this man's mistakes, as he is now doing...
Yesterday's edition got a lot of responses, a lot more than I expected. Many of you have had a run-in with "ignorance of a woman's true desires," and most of you who did gave strong evidence of having learned something from the experience, even if it was only that you needed to learn more about women to get along with them well in the long term; you'd be surprised at how many men never even learn that.
There was one letter that stood above the rest as having lessons to teach that all could learn from. Meet Roger (as always, the name has been changed to protect the reader's privacy):
Hi David,
Your recent letter concerning your friend Matt has made me realise just how common such a situation can be. I have been married for almost 40 years with two daughters and three grandsons and for as long as I can remember, I have never been able to please her; always there is something else that she wants me to do. I realised this many years ago and now always make a joke of it. So as fast as I complete one project, she will have the next ready for me, sometimes before the first was finished! I just add them to my list of tasks these days, some will get done, some will never be done. My problem is that she has a real knack of making me feel guilty.
This is not just about projects, it could be a social event or something she simply does not approve of, but always I have a guilt feeling when I refuse. The feelings haunt me and I end up doing what she wants sooner or later in most cases. If I argue or try to discuss, I am accused of always wanting to control her. I am driven to succeed because I want the quiet life and the brownie points that come from approval. I am told she sings my praises to others, but never to me.
To give you some idea how it works, she wants me to tidy the garage so it can have a workbench, all the machines and space for me to work. She tells everyone how it will improve things for me, but she also wants me to move all the items stored in the garden shed to the garage so that I can demolish the shed. Then I am expected to build her a summerhouse in the space, not a prefabricated one, a purpose built brick and tile fantasy!
In my spare time I am expected to remodel and transform the gardens, paint the house, build a new two-level deck across the back, turn the second bathroom into a "wet" room and keep the maintenance of our other two houses up to scratch! I must finish the kitchen sometime too! In all this she has ignored the plans we had to convert the garage into a dining room whilst we built a new garage with attached workshop. Maybe this is because her new greenhouse currently occupies the site?
David, I am tired! I work a 9 hour shift, six days per week and generally get just one day off. I cannot afford to pay someone else to do the work as I am still clearing debts from a failed business venture and I am earning just a tad above the minimum wage. I am reading the book you kindly emailed to me after it got lost in transit when I downloaded, but have yet to put it into practice.
Recently she took a vacation with my daughter and grandsons at one of our cottages. It was tiring, but different and the boys were easy, spending their time surfing. What was I doing? I spent my evenings and a rare weekend off work, repairing and painting the beach hut! Trying to please her again! My own vacations are limited and restricted to the extent we cannot have time together and if I take time off without her, I am expected to work on one of the projects!
I am considering building her a dungeon!:-))
There is a lot more to this than meets the eye, but I will not bore you with all the details of the problems in our marriage. I do not give up easily, but there are times when I seriously consider cutting my losses. Divorce is out of the question as we both feel it might make the other happy! Any advice you can offer would be appreciated. I simply want time to complete a few things on the list without her adding items faster than I can delete them! I can live without the approval for completed projects, but it would be nice if the feelings of guilt could be stopped too.
Thanks for listening.
Kind regards,
Roger
What can you learn from Roger's predicament? Do you recognize the trade he has been engaging in for many years? He's trading unappreciated effort for the promise of approval. A man shouldn't seek the approval of a woman any more than a woman should seek the approval of a man. It tips the balance in the relationship too far to one side and throws everything out of whack.
Do you also recognize that she's using guilt as a tool to usurp the authority that he should be both defining and exercising in their relationship to keep excitement and attraction alive? And the bit about when he wants to discuss something she truncates the discussion by accusing him of wanting to control her, when in fact her manipulations are for the purpose of controlling him? Methinks she doth protest too much, as the saying goes...
Roger and I have had other correspondence since this letter, and he's going to do well in cleaning this mess up. He's reading and learning, and getting his ducks in a row. The task before him is to refuse to allow his wife to use guilt and manipulation to control his actions, stop seeking her approval, and to take back the authority she has usurped from him, the authority over his own life, effort, schedule, the money he earns and how it is spent, etc.
His wife is in for a rude awakening, but history indicates that unless she is sociopathic and entirely devoid of character, a genuine predator, she will actually love him and respect him, not to mention become wildly attracted to the new authority and strength in him, when he makes the changes he is currently preparing for. If she is indeed a predator, he'll recognize it and get out. "But he's been in it for forty years!" Yes, and that's forty years too long to live with a manipulative predator, right?
As an aside, guilt is something you CHOOSE to feel, not something that someone can force you to feel. If someone tries to make you feel guilty, you can simply choose to feel righteous (if you are) instead of letting them motivate you to ignore reality and accept the guilt they want to heap upon you for their own gain. If you do indeed owe a debt, you should make good on it out of good character, not guilt or fear of reprisal. That's just what real men do. Anything else is too complicated and dramatic.
It's not often that you see two people remain in such a one-sided relationship for so long, but even when things have gone so wrong for so long, they can still be fixed, and a lot faster than you'd ever think until you've experienced it, if you only know what the woman in your life really wants as a woman and as your partner, and that's just not that hard to find out if you have the tools for the job.
The tools? Knowledge and desire. Knowing what women want in general, how to clearly communicate with them, and how to turn their attraction on and off will take you to a level of intimacy you never imagined possible, and from there you can learn what she as an individual secretly yearns for and responds to with complete certainty.
If you didn't have the desire, you wouldn't be reading this newsletter day after day looking for the knowledge. I've had a couple of complaints that my newsletter and blog posts sound like a sales letter, and maybe they do at that. I give away a lot of free information to prove that the information I'm selling is both valid and valuable.
All that I ask in exchange for all the free information I give you is that you take a good hard look at your life and try to find a way to apply what I give you, and that you occasionally at least consider taking the plunge and committing a few hours of reading and the cost of a good meal for two to go ahead and learn everything you need to know now, and making the effort to make your relationship all that it can be.
Some of you do, and write me letters describing fantastic results, and some of you don't, apparently thinking that you'll learn all you need to know from my newsletters or that you really don't need to do anything. You will eventually find that position to be in error, and you'll be downloading this book somewhere down the road when your relationship is in much worse shape and harder to and more painful to endure and try to fix, or worse maintaining the comfortably unhappy status quo or heading for divorce court.
It is at that time that you will realize that you could have read my book many times over in the time that you have spent only reading my newsletters (which, by the way, are infinitely more meaningful to those who have read the book), and that the cost of a good meal could have saved you a lot of time and a lot of pain, frustration, anger, money, celibacy, and no telling what else.
So I would urge you to make things easy on yourself. Go on now to http://www.makingherhappy.com and download your copy of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," as well as a free report I've bundled with it on how to quickly understand the true causes of a break-up and stop it quickly when things finally blow up. Life's too short to waste it, so don't waste any more of it being anything less than happy.
In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!
David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham
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You and I concede about it... Now! that's just an report of it. Anytime, everywhere, you can be attacked, challenged, you can be judged for stuff you did not do. Homeland can love you! loathing you! for what you are, or what you are not!
Now what? I'm staying home?! No way! Dating is life! It is part of the thrill! the art of dating is the art of overcoming any rejection, any pain, guffaw about it and not be touched.
My apologies... that's just a way of looking at it.
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WHY IS IT A Crash Eyesight LET GO OF THE Appetite TO CONTROL?
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SO HOW DO YOU DO THAT?
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Freddie has been fired and misplaced travelling, seeing that Bel fought to have your home. She has tried to improve the ratings and keep Hector in line, at the same time as he has now become a national important person and is visual into the seductive glamour of Soho alliance El Paradis; Bel's clear life is her work and she's becoming slowly faraway with Britain's growing troublemaker underworld, chasing a story but without the manpower to tell it. All eyes are on the new Regulator of Hearsay, Randall Tan, as a violence for change. El Paradis is run by Raphael Cilenti, charming but vengeful. His ceiling respected term is lead showgirl, Kiki Delaine. Sophisticated, capable and appropriately attractive, Kiki knows fastidiously how to magnetism a man and Hector finds her hard to support.
In the newsroom, nuclear dismay is growing set the Soviet setting up of Sputnik 2. In the midst of a excited bash meeting Freddie appears, well-ventilated from his travels. He's Randall's new multiplication, intended to electrify up the bash - and it works. Bel wrestles with conflicted feelings of disempowerment at not being told of his bring in, but besides joy at getting back the friend she has missed. Hector too is tricky just the once told that Freddie will be a two-way frontman. It is besides garish that Lix and Randall cartel to wear a community olden...THURSDAY8.00PM THE BIG Cut Create E4 - In the armed premiere, Howard gets mystified in an justification together with his mum and Bernadette seeing that at the Comprehensive Station Sordid. Ray is feeling secluded so Sheldon invites him not working to his second public holiday date with Amy.8.30PM 2 Underprivileged GIRLS E4 - The second armed of this comedy about two girls from weird ends of the social spectrum who join forces to set up their own business comes to E4. In the opening clash, Max joins Caroline on her spend time at to a white-collar put away to see her flinch, Martin Channing, and he encourages them to undergo a confident memento at the Channing precincts auction.9.00PM Everyday Capital 4 - Remote fun that tells the story of four ancestors separated from their flinch, and a spouse separated from her husband. The flinch Ian is in put away. The father Karen has to convey up a family of four ancestors by herself. Filmed over a stage of five days, Everyday uses the repetitions and rhythms of usual life to investigate how a family can ultimate a unbroken stage departure. The story unfolds in a armed of visits: first the family visiting the flinch in put away, like the flinch visiting the family at home. Behind each spend time at the distance together with the ancestors and their flinch becomes harder to runway. By avoiding the prearranged cinematic conventions of time squat, Everyday focuses on the small blithe changes as people grow up and grow old seeing that being departure. It is a story of holdover and love: a ceremony of the small pleasures of usual life. John Simm stars.9.30PM Impossible JOKERS BBC3 - Extreme camera show everyplace four friends - Joel Dommet, Roisin Conaty, Paul McCaffrey and Marek Larwood - compete to bring shame on each other in usual situations. Pushing each other to the edge, they prefer it in turns to bring to an end troublesome challenges. They wear got to do or say something the other jokers tell them via a veiled headset, but if they trash they lose and protect a off-putting yield.10.00PM FALCON Sky Atlantic - Inspector Javier Falc'On is brought to life from Robert Wilson's iconic novels in the first of a enthralling four-part mystery.
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http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/cbn-compels-banks-to-give-more-top-jobs-to-women/111145/By Malachy AgboIt appears the crusade for gender consistency in all spheres of national service is tight race in banking, as the In the middle Mound of Nigeria has directed all funds sediment banks in the come to rest to grasp the full confederation of women in top check positions.The CBN proprietor Mallam Sanusi Lamido Sanusi disclosed this at the Territory Profitable Authority meeting whispered in Abuja support week, saying that the outdo furnish has directed all banks in the come to rest to grasp that 40 percent of their executive check and 30 percent of their move members are women.According to a source at CBN, it came to the sentence that women are used particularly for the speed of sediment but seeing that it comes to assessment making, you amiss find women at top check level."Women capture the relationship banking units of banks and they get all the deposits but where the decisions pitiful them are demanding, you from time to time find them offering," he alleged.In addition speaking to THISDAY on the necessity of anonymity, a number one of Secular Instrument in one of the new existence banks helpful the arrangement but disclosed that some banks were ruling it awkward to fill the gap because of experience."The arrangement is a receive press on and it will grasp gender consistency in our financial institutions subjugated by men. Even, getting women who are veteran to meet the tariff is a bit robust. But we will get offering," he conclusive.In addition speaking, a top female executive of a furnish alleged that it was a receive press on because over time women had been sidelined in the scheme of information in the industry."For occasion, some of us have been record voices concerning the executives and you blab what that see to. But seeing that you have a join objectivity, issues and policies pitiful women particularly in the industry and specific institutions can be addressed fine having all the perspectives in place," she alleged.She elate state that the tacit policies of some banks baring ladies from having infantile fashionable a quantity of periods of time can be addressed if arrogant women voices are very to the assessment making import which she alleged is key."Women are not less prudent or laughable. A number of us women identifiable some banks because of our pains and hard work. So offering is go made-up in empowering women and that will give them a inspiration of belonging," she obvious.
QUESTION 1
My cats huge bump popped?huge hole and blable to look inside?... My cat had a huge bump on his since saturday and he was sad usually just layed down while he had it and today when I came home from school he had blood all over and I picked him up and noticed there is a huge hole on his neck..you can literally see inside and see all his flesh and stuff...he is really happy now and nuthing seems wrong...I remember when I adopted his mom before he was born she had a scar on her neck..exact same spot...could it be something he picked up from her? And will it heal on it's own like it did to the mom?
ANSWERS
1) best way to get rid of acne and other skin problems
go to this blog
http://12freebeautysamplez.notlong.com
(copy n paste in browser to open it)
wen it opens u ll see orange color links
open them they will take u to the bestskin care tips website
and these websites also offers free beauty samples - "Nancy"
2) just buy one of those acne creams. and eat a lot of coke. that should help. - "yeahitsover"
3) It sounds like your cat had an abcess and it has now burst.
It was probably caused by either a grass seed, or more commonly a bite from another cat.
Bath it with warm salt water a couple of times a day until it heals.
I would suggest taking your cat to the vet but as you didn't when it developed the bump there is not much point now. The vet may give antibiotics. - "Tarkarri"
4) I recommend you see
> http://www.all-home-remedies.com
I hope that will help you, keep using answers.yahoo.com - "bocher"
5) i dont know but if you can try to get him to the vet because you dont know what it is, if you cant id keep it wrapped so no bacteria can get in there, i wouldnt put any neosporin on there because if its that deep it may not be good for it. but my moms cat is an outside cat and he has came home with SO many scratches, holes, etc. and he has always been fine, a lot of times cats know how to take care of things them selves with a little help from their owners, but id say if it doesnt look any better with in a few days, for sure try to get him to the vet. - "dontmesswithheather"
"QUESTION 2
can you get a cold if you have sex with a cold?... my girlfriend has a cold!
ANSWERS
1) possibly - "Annette"
2) Yeah, you're gonna be kissing her and stuff, so I suppose so! - "Hilarious Chick"
3) Good news... not from the sex
Bad new... if this is a question about something that already happened... it ain't a cold buddy. LOL - "Smokey"
4) Of course; in fact, it's all but inevitable. Some cold viruses are so contagious, just a few individual particles (virions) need pass to another person for he/she to be infected. The particles can pass through the nose or even through the eye. The only way you would not catch the cold is if you had already had it, - "DeannetheGreat"
5) Yep, according to Cosmopolitan magazine, missionary position can promote spread of diseases like colds. Haha.
check this out
http://blog.newsweek.com/blogs/thehumancondition/archive/2009/12/01/swine-flu-so-hot-right-now-cosmo-dishes-on-h1n1.aspx
I'd say it's a good chance to let her try the suggested position if you haven't already, haha. have fun. Colds aren't too bad. Now go make her some chicken soup :D - "Rainbows"
"QUESTION 3
I'm having an anxiety attack over this?... I'm really scared/paranoid because all day I've had a weird feeling headache, like it almost felt like motion sickness, feeling really warm and then about 15 minutes ago my left arm started feeling weak/having dull pain in my upper arm. I got an ecg test today, could I just be panicking over that?
Yesterday my doctor said my blood pressure is normal, and the beats per minute is normal, if thats relevant.
I have depression and depression anxiety. Could I just be having an attack? Or could this be serious? Honestly, I'm really scared, and like in tears. :/ I'm only 14.
BTW. I've taken and Xenadrine diet pill. D:
ANSWERS
1) Calm down, you're just having a panic attack. You're fine, and you're NOT going to die. Just distract yourself somehow, and it will pass.
Good luck!... - "Cartoon Head"
2) It's just an attack....get a paper bag and put it over your mouth.... - "Felix"
3) Calm Down. I would trust what your doctor said is true. You are probably fine. And you may be just freaking yourself out. You know, your mind is extremely powerful. If you put your mind to it powerfully, it just could possibly happen. Try thinking positive thoughts. Thinking about the negative will attract the negative. - "Beverly"
4) Can I tell u that your problem is the side effect of the diet pill? Initially I wanted to say panic attack but....seriously....diet pills?! - "Angeleyes"
"QUESTION 4
Why am i coughing up blood?... I'm coughing up blood, it's like a bright red. My nose is all stuffed up, my eyes are watering, i've been getting severe headaches and i can't sleep and when i try to keep my eyes open for like 20 seconds they water.
ANSWERS
1) Internal Bleeding, it may be your lungs. See a doctor immediately as coughing up blood and internal bleeding can become life threatening. - "Chun"
2) Any time you cough up blood it's not a good sign, You should seek medical help ASAP. - "Ms.Franky"
3) I recommend you see
> http://www.all-home-remedies.com
I hope that will help you, keep using answers.yahoo.com - "Ashely"
4) You should definitely get it checked out, because it could be something serious. However, if you're stuffed up and getting headaches, maybe it's your sinuses. You could have a severe sinus infection. - "Kristin."
"QUESTION 5
good pimple remedies?... how to bring down swelling and redness fast?
ANSWERS
1) I recommend you see
> http://www.all-home-remedies.com
I hope that will help you, keep using answers.yahoo.com - "Ashely"
2) Aspirin mask - take a few tablet aspirin and crush, add enough water to make paste, put on face for 15 min then rinse off
Hemorrhoid cream is good to get rid of red and swelling
Witch Hazel astringent
Neosporin
Glycolic acid
Mandelic Acid - "~ Pussycat Doll In Training ~"
3) I would recommend Acneace!
I used it, and after 2 months, my acne was COMPLETELY gone!
Hope it works for you.
you can get From Google Search Acneace Official site. Good luck. - "Russ D"
"
We have chosen to review some of these books for a few reasons. Firstly, many people will tend to review the 'classic' NLP books and we thought this might be different, in that we will focus on the classics as well as new examples of NLP literature, and some books that are not specifically NLP, but are on the periphery or support NLP in their text. Secondly, Sensory Acuity, is a skill that the NLP practitioner needs to enable their practice of the art and science of NLP, and thirdly, I have been reading more and more into the role of the unconscious in things we think we are consciously doing: decision making and communicating being just two examples.
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When it comes to buying Charlton romance comics, I usually break that old adage about judging books by their covers. With the cover on Love and Romance #21 (March 1975) can you really blame me though? I obviously picked it up merely for the cover -- but the corresponding story, "Call Me Ms." featuring a determined young career woman helped to round out the purchase.
Kay Rogers' number one priority is her career as an Assistant Account Executive at an advertising agency. Though we get the hint she does want romance in her life, she doesn't want to experience the regret her mother did and wind-up as a housewife. So when Mr. Wayne Hibbs comes into her life one fateful morning with an account for LipCreem, Kay tells him straight up her feelings on the subjugation and commodification of women.
Though Kay says she wont let her personal feelings get mixed in with business, she ends up going on a date with Wayne. They do talk shop, but inevitably a kiss ensues.
Naturally, a marriage proposal follows. Luckily, Wayne doesn't want her to give up her career. Kay vows to keep working, but reflects on how marriage will always be her number one priority.
Now I admit. This isn't the best written story in the history of comic books, but it does serve as an example of the discourse that surrounded the Women's Movement. Do I pursue a career? Family life? Both? It does send some mixed messages however. For example -- throughout the whole story Kay refers to her work as her "career." At the end though, she calls it a "job," which brings to mind somewhat negative connotations and maybe a little bit of resentment. Also, on the third page shown here, Kay blasts Wayne for assuming that women are constantly seeking men's approval. On the second to last page though, she seeks his approval concerning the LipCreem and her attractiveness level. Change of heart on Kay's behalf or bad writing? I will leave that for you to decide!
Hi there, romance comic book lovers! I am sorry I have been gone most of the week. I have been preparing for a conference that I am presenting at next week -- so I have been quite the busy little bee with that! However, as Women's History Month draws to a close, I have something very VERY exciting that adds one more piece to the puzzle concerning the women that were working on romance comics during the 1960s and 1970s.
Fortuitously, Suzan Lane Loeb n'ee Pasternack, the original writer on Marvel's token advice column of the era -- "Suzan Says," found Sequential Crush through her daughter and contacted me. I of course had about a billion questions for her! Suzan is the kindest woman you would ever want to meet, and graciously accepted my request for an email interview. Suzan penned the "Suzan Says" articles for issues #1 (September 1969) through #10 (March 1971) of My Love, and issues #1 (October 1969) through issue #10 (April 1971) of Our Love Story.
Put your snuggie on, settle in with a nice cup of tea and enjoy the interview!
Sequential Crush: How did you get your start working for Marvel?
Suzan: I graduated from State University College at Buffalo with a degree in English Secondary Education, but after a few years of teaching in the NYC School System, I realized I wanted to do something in journalism. One of my college suite-mates put me in touch with the Goodman Group. I interviewed and was sent to their Marvel Comics Group division, as a "Girl Friday." Isn't it interesting to note how job titles have changed through the years...
Sequential Crush: What was a typical work day like as a "Girl Friday" at Marvel?
Suzan Lane - Our Groovy Gal Friday
Bullpen Photos from "Fantastic Four" Annual #7 (November 1969)
Suzan: My tenure at Marvel was "BC"...before computers. Everything was done by hand. So, my duties in addition to manning the phones and fielding questions, were answering the mail, filling requests for back-copies of recent issues, reviewing gorgeous artistic samples from budding artists and hopeful young cartoonists, and passing on suggestions for story-lines. The offices were located on 59th and Lexington. My desk was in the front of the office area shared by Sol Brodsky and Roy Thomas, right across the hall from Stan Lee's office.
Sequential Crush: How much interaction, if any, did you have with the artists drawing the romance comics?
Suzan: "The Bullpen" was inhabited by Marie Severin, Tony Mortellaro, Herb Trimpe, and John Romita, and wow, I got to see them every day. Their work was done in the office daily, and the other greats, including those directly involved with drawing the Romance Line, would stop by from time to time. I remember the laughter and camaraderie in The Bullpen...and was awed by the talent and watching a blank board come alive with blue pencil as the panels in the story took shape.
Sequential Crush: How did you get involved in writing the advice column "Suzan Says"?
Suzan: Stan and Sol knew I was taking grad courses at Hunter and that I was a writer and English major. One day, I was called into Stan's office and he told me Marvel was going into the Romance business. He told me he wanted me to write a page to keep the continuity with the "Stan's Soapbox" concept. He even discussed the persona he thought he wanted me to assume...a divorcee with lots and lots of experience; but then ultimately decided on a young woman about my age.
Sequential Crush: Who came up with the concept and the title of the column?
Suzan: It was Stan Lee himself who came up with the title, "Suzan Says"...as my first name is Suzan and I was going to be writing the column...and he liked the idea of an advice-to-the-lovelorn type, but he gave me free reign to write my pages; starting with three per issue, then sometimes only one or two.
Sequential Crush: Is the picture based on your likeness?
Suzan: Sure is, but much, much more flattering. Can you imagine my incredulous delight when Stan asked Spider-Man's Johnny Romita to pen my likeness for the banner for my column?!?!?!
Sequential Crush: How old were you when you were writing "Suzan Says"? Do you feel that your age influenced the way you gave advice?
Suzan: I was in my mid-twenties when I began writing "Suzan Says"...a few years out of college and with two years of teaching experience behind me. I became engaged to my first husband while at Marvel. I don't feel it was my age that influenced me. I believe what I brought to the job...who I was, my morals, values and ethics, and what I thought...most influenced me. When I was asked to write "Suzan Says", the woman's movement was just underway, and consciousness-raising groups were beginning and gaining in popularity. We were forced to connect with ourselves and be proud of being women who were in touch with our emotions.
Remember, this was the Pre-Computer Age... There was no Internet...no "Google"...no Facebook...nothing. The concept of sending letters provided readers with a format to pose real questions of concern and seek advice while also remaining anonymous...only first names were used in-print.
Sequential Crush: Sometimes the letters sent in seem almost too unbelievable to be true! To what extent were the letters real in "Suzan Says"?
Suzan: The column encouraged write-in questions about personal issues and I was to select "universal" ones and answer with sound advice...from my "gut". Remember, this was a "first" and the waters were virtually untested. When the initial wave of fan-letters came in, I was overwhelmed - by the volume and by the personal information shared in those letters.There had been no discussion with me, so there was no preconceived notion, as to who the audience of these romance comics was going to be. I just knew Marvel was interested in being part of a market that was out there and untapped...and that I was going to be a part of a new launch, and I was thrilled!
If you were thinking the audience was for pre-teen girls in those days, let me tell you the letters came from females and from males spanning all ages and all walks of life. The letters usually started with the person's name and age, and were hand-written. Just by looking at the penmanship, if not stated, you could approximate the age of the writer. The tales that unfolded were real and very touching...men and women reaching out for answers that would resolve their loneliness and help gain them romance.I remember discussing this and expressing my concern regarding my qualifications to give advice that someone could take to heart and possibly use. The prevailing attitude was "it's a comic book...keep that in perspective." Yes, that remark came from a male staffer.
But, I was so moved personally by the issues presented and felt each person who took the time to write needed to know the letter was received and read by me. The volume made that impossible. A "form letter" response carrying my banner and signature was produced, basically thanking the reader for sending the letter; that the issue raised was of great importance and interest; but because of the volume of letters and time constraints, each letter could not be answered personally. The reader was encouraged to continue reading the comics and to look for an answer in either a story line or in a future column. Each letter received did get a copy of that letter.
Sequential Crush: Did you prefer answering letters or writing the more straightforward advice based on a specific topic?
Suzan: As for the letters themselves, some shared such pain and personal agony that I couldn't read them without getting involved. Because of my interest in reaching everyone who wrote, I thought about their questions "collectively"; then proposed a question based on points raised.
Sequential Crush: Were you given a topic or did you come up with them on your own?
Suzan: I thought about my own experiences - nothing out of the ordinary - and realized that the romantic problems I faced were universal. I picked topics I felt I could answer appropriately and reach a vast audience. I guess the editors agreed with my decisions and choices because they printed what I wrote.
Sequential Crush: To what extent did you draw from your own experience when giving advice? Where else did inspiration for writing the column come from?
Suzan: In addition to my own experiences, I drew on those of my friends...and believe it or not, on the themes of great romance novels. Remember, at the time, I was doing grad work at night at Hunter College studying English Literature.
Sequential Crush: Did you have a good idea of who the audience you were writing for was demographically?
Suzan: I don't think anyone realized how far-reaching this column was in its infancy. The newspapers' version of advice columns were really geared toward answering "adult" problems...that was the demographic they played to. The romance comic reached a younger and more specific audience who could vent and speak directly to their personal issues without fear of judgment or reprisal.
Those letters...All ages, all walks of life, and from all over the country.
Sequential Crush: You always signed "Suzan Says," with a "Love ya!" Your voice was that of a concerned friend. Did you feel a connection to the audience you were writing for?
Suzan's first Our Love Story column
Issue #1 (October 1969)
Suzan: Absolutely! I felt a very strong connection to the audience I wrote for and I think those in charge of production thought so too, because even after I left, my columns were reprinted in subsequent issues.
Every one of us has, at one time in our life, needed a friend to turn to. Sometimes the problem we faced was too hard or embarrassing to discuss with a friend, and that's where I stepped in. I could be that friend without judging you or jeopardizing our confidentiality.
Sequential Crush: Having been a teacher, did you feel that writing the column was somewhat akin to teaching?
Suzan: No..I never made that connection or thought of that possibility until now with you asking that question. I felt that was I was doing was soooo very far from the teaching arena that I never drew the conclusion that I was teaching a lesson to make a point. My answers were straight from my heart; much the same discussions I was hoping I would have with my own "somewhere in the future" children.
Sequential Crush: Did you ever have any input on the story lines for the sequential romance stories?
Suzan: No. I did attempt a few storyline suggestions, but none were deemed worthy of producing.
Sequential Crush: Did you read any romance comics at the time, including the advice columns of the other companies to see what you were up against?
Suzan: Nope...I never looked at another comic product other than Marvel. I wanted to keep my own perspective and my own approach.
Sequential Crush: Did you feel that the romance comics were authentic representations of the experiences of young women?
Suzan dishes out fashion advice in
My Love #2 (November 1969)
Suzan: In those days, yes I did. I really believed in the product and what it was saying. Most of the story lines were devised by men...remember the composition of the workplace and what women's positions were in those days. I grew up with comic books and they were a very real part of all of our lives. They got people reading and learning about so very many things...romance included. Of course, most stories painted a most glorious happy-ending; and a few were heart-breaking. But, you know what...that's a reflection of what real-life is all about. I think these comics did represent a myriad of experiences of young women, in a specific format. But the themes were very real.
Sequential Crush: How did you feel about men writing romance stories - did you feel they were they legitimate authors of stories intended for young women?
Suzan: I think they did a fantastic job! I think they were the forerunners of the concept of men getting in-touch with their feminine side. They really understood what was going on, and were able to write from the woman's point of view...without losing or compromising their own masculinity.
Sequential Crush: Do you still stay in contact with anyone from your Marvel days or attend comic book conventions?
Suzan: No. Unfortunately when I moved out of NYC, I lost contact with everyone at Marvel. I have not yet had the opportunity to attend a comic book convention, but would really love to.
Sequential Crush: Do any specific columns that you wrote stand out in your mind? Have you had a chance to go back and read any of your columns recently? Do you feel your advice has stood the test of time?
Suzan: Although each column has very specific meaning to me, I think the one that stands out the most, is the very first one when I introduced myself. I felt I had a lot riding on it because it was my first attempt to write something for Stan Lee. I was so happy when he accepted what I wrote without changing a word.
When you and I first connected I pulled out all of my issues and re-read them. Memories flooded back and I recalled, amazingly, what I was thinking and feeling at the time I wrote each of them. Funny, because sometimes now I can't remember if I ate breakfast.
While the issues have changed and life and romance has become so much more complicated, I feel my advice was sound. Kept in the confines of the age in which it was written, it was appropriate for the time and yes, I do feel it still stands up.
Sequential Crush: What are you up to these days?
Suzan: Using Marvel and my writing experience there as a "springboard" I developed a most interesting and satisfying career. I was an editor and writer for a now-defunct newspaper in the Bronx; spent many years on the West Coast; wrote descriptive plaques for museum pieces; worked and traveled nationally and internationally for non-profits - crafting speeches, brochures, newspaper articles, and the like; and now write the obituaries for a large city newspaper in the South. I did drive the Weddings Desk for a while...very interesting...
Sequential Crush: Any other memories of your Marvel days that you would like to share with the readers of Sequential Crush?
Suzan: Other memories that stand out:
Had I stayed with the company longer than I did, Marie said she would help me learn to be a colorist.
When I was getting married, John told me "Don't get fat!"...wish I had listened...
Once I was given a treat by one of the artists...He was drawing a series of stars in a panel and I got to draw one!
But, most importantly...Working at Marvel taught me something that stayed with me my entire career. If you can't wake up in the morning looking forward to going to your job, then you're in the wrong line of work! There was not one day at Marvel that there wasn't joy and fun...getting the work done in an environment that applauded creativity and celebrated with joy, the individual.
Just look at all the people we reached...and through you, Jacque, and what you do...are still reaching!
Isn't she great, ladies and gentleman? I don't know about you, but I feel inspired! How cool to have been a part of such a dynamic company during such an innovative time! Thank you so much, Suzan for sharing your memories with us. Knowing more about the contributors to the romance comics is such an exciting thing and really invaluable for fully understanding the medium! Have a great weekend everyone and in true "Suzan Says" fashion...
Love ya!
Do you love it a long time ago you feel thoroughly meaningfully to the point with someone? At the same time as you feel seen, voiceless, respected and cherished? This is what at the outset draws two people together and leads to falling in love.
Plus what happens? Why does the connection go away?
At the same time as greatest people first meet, they bring about each former to see only key parts of themselves, but they frequently go around the deeper parts of themselves.
Why?
In view of the fact that they fear being rejected for who they definitely are.
They fear being rejected for who they definitely are for instance they think offer is everything inappropriate with them. Believing offer is everything inappropriate with you is called core stigma - the group that offer is everything intrinsically inappropriate, bad, or weak about you.
Important stigma may be governing to a great extent of what you do and how you reaction in your relationships. It enormously governed to a great extent of my life until I well-informed how to indulgence it.
I well-informed to indulgence it a long time ago I well-informed how to connect with my spiritual Assistance - my condescending mind that can see the reality of who I am. As long as I was major for myself from my absolute ego victims, encoded mind, I was in force from the disingenuous group that I was one way or another not good masses.
Pure you spiritual connection is not hard. Whenever you move into a brawny ache to learn about love and reality, you cancel your incidence high masses to soak in the culture that is unendingly in the sphere of for you. But in order to do this, you enfold to definitely want to caution the reality. As long as you are dire of what you will learn, you will shooting lodge held up with your core stigma. I indemnify you that what you will learn about your true Characteristics is how unthinkable you are!
THE Character TO BE Defenseless AND True
In order to meaningfully connect with different, you enfold to be spellbound and accurately about your feelings, which you can't do if you think offer is everything inappropriate with you. So ahead of time you can back emotional connection and informality, you need to indulgence your core stigma. You will not be able to perception the taunt of experiencing the pain of rejection unless you are not rejecting yourself.
It takes courage to be accurately. You cannot be accurately without the inclination to be spellbound to being harm, and you can't connect on a brawny focus level without bareness and earnestness.
It is only a long time ago you thoroughly class who you are that you enfold the courage to expose yourself truly and taunt being harm. This is what creates thoroughly to the point relationships. While it takes is two people who enfold on the work of patch-up their core stigma so that they can ration their focus and soul with each former.
Reclamation Important Discomfiture
* Mount with noticing how nit-picking you are of yourself. Both time you difficulty yourself judging yourself, stop and say to yourself, "I'm not goodbye offer." And do not differentiate yourself for judging yourself! Check keep noticing and stopping each time. You will find yourself judging yourself less and less and feeling better and better.
* Practice opening to learning with your Outstanding Characteristics. Study asking your Assistance with a serious ache to learn, "Request show me what is extreme about who I definitely am." Excellent time, you will learn to love and know your true Characteristics - your body - for qualities such as affability, conception, generosity, unusual object, airiness, humor, merriment, meekness, inner mature, weighing up, commitment, moral fiber, honesty, and so on.
The higher you class your true Characteristics, the easier it will be for you to be spellbound and accurately with the celebrated people in your life, and put pen to paper the emotional connection that we all long for.
Jaggedly The Critic
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I prevent to pick up a new webcomic to quest every few months. This far outsrips the rate at which comics I am by following end or already go on indefinite dwell, but cranky of that would practically be cranky about having too drastically good reading material.
One of my peak novel fixations is Go Get a Roomie, by Franco-hippie artist Chlo'e C. From what I can glimmer of her personal ramshackle, Chlo'e was untrained and instantly resides in France, cerebral in the U.S., and has a mixture of beautiful adventures sometimes between tasing and endlessly between alcohol in Belgium. She is in the same way two existence my decrease.
I commence her work beautiful, in part for simple aesthetics but in the same way for her thoughtful vantages: New World cerebral, Old World raised; avant-garde American learning, Western Europe location; "art" of of a instigator, "enthusiasm" of a fangirl."This was the first section by Chlo'e, or "Nana" as she goes by on DeviantArt that I came across:I was looking for art of Fantasy from Neil Gaiman's Sandman" globular. A friend had cosplayed for New York Jester Con just in the region of a rendezvous ago, and with the right keywords it's easy to Google her uniform, but a little concerned to find drastically scale fan art as Transient in this tends to run off with up peak of the fandom.Despite the fact that you can see the attention to, not entirely "given", but "correctness of character" with which Chlo'e imbues her art. Transient has her grin, but Fantasy, the customary flick of reclaimed childishness, has her fishnet bodysuit, her go into hiding contain, single vintage sneaker, and her host of flower petals/butterflies/animate on high fish/rainbows.She had my attention.The mega I browsed her slip, the mega I commence Chlo'e to telephone herself as a fan of a mixture of shows I too grew up scrutiny, of at least was alert of if not straight away complicated with, and she familiar what I personage would be the emotional impetus afterward specific fandoms-somewhat derogatorily-referred to as "shippers," proponents of relation"ship"s between particular pairings of studious, cinematic or already resourcefully produced, fallacious characters.
"It doesn't show aggression, either, that her leanings prevent towards the Sapphic pairings in 1990s/2000s media culture:
* Xena/Gabrielle
* Harley Quinn/Poison Ivy
* Kim Possible/Shego
I'm indisputable this helps slip views on a... er, basic level, but I choose by ballot to stake in a world where peak readers are legitimately in it for a even as espouse that the non-heteronormative inklings and air they were picking up in shows like Batman" and "Xena" and significantly anything popular made by the Disney channel that weren't their own ideas, but short nods by the shows' creators and animators towards a mega numerous learning of audience.
The take product of all thise, moreover some dreadful fanart, is "Go Get a Roomie", a covering mostly about prize frequent short air and teases, and placing them multiplex stage for everybody who's by in on the ploy to jeer at. A lot.
For the record, I'm euphoric she calibrate to talk with me about these issues. I've gotten a corner to speak with some better names and some new names, but this is the first time I've been able to ask these questions to human being from edge the American learning of comics making and see how the incredibly accepted wisdom and issues rivet the rest of the world's art community.
"In the same way as enclose your experiences been like with using Quiver to talk straight away with your readers? I've noticed you demolish look for them for suggestions to improve your art via Formspring. Do you think it's no matter which like the next-step in having comic forums, or is it no matter which separate? "I'm on countless interchange websites that keep up me to talk straight away with readers, such as DeviantArt, Quiver, Formspring or Tumblr. It's a great to split your accepted wisdom, questions, and art with everybody as well, and I use it in the same way to enclose feedbacks from my readers. A comic artist can modestly get abandoned running in their clogged world and think they don't need the advice, but I will endlessly look out for feedbacks and company critics to care for me to improve in my art and story-telling. I'm correctly amazed at how well the comments and feedbacks go!Comic forums can be a great way to split your accepted wisdom on one specific comic. But you'd need to enclose a strong fan-base to get them to come over to the forum fully for your comic. Websites like dA, Tumblr, ect, makes [sic] it easier to split your art and comics, and is a great way to foundation firmly popularity with.
"In the same way as are your accepted wisdom on webcomics that pass free updates but rely on or at least engorge frequent with "premium passage" for paying subscribers?"I think it's a great way to foundation making dough out of your webcomic. If there's prosperity popularity, and a popular kindliness with the readers, then peak undisputable use supplements for paying subscribers. I've just produced a set down handle over on my website, so that people who copiously give any check to help me out, compose in swap a few comic strips I've worked on just for them. It's a great way to boost the artist to halt making the webcomic free, and accessible for all.
"You educe a lot of fanart yourself: Avatar, Kim Realistic, Batman; how would you feel drawing these characters for their parent companies? Would it be the best world ever? "It would peak undisputable be. But if I'd enclose my word on the decisive best world evah, I'd love running for them, but enclose time to work on my own comics. Fanarts is great, and I endlessly enclose fun interpreting the characters and story in my own way, but you in the same way need time to craft your own heavens and characters to split your story with.
"Do you close up buy single-issues or negotiate comics from DC or Presage, or any getting on "Big" publishing house?"Yes, in the past I can. Unluckily, bustling in France income sighting american comics translated in french, and I'm very selective about that. Most basic versions are endlessly the best, and it goes for comics as well. So in the past I DO buy DC (and sometimes, Presage, or Overcast Horse as well), it's in principal on amazon.com. Why, rearmost week I just started business "Strangers in Fantasy" by Terry Moore. At all comics are a "indigence" in my archive."*Note: Terrible comic. Moreover one where Vol. 3 is about 837 times longer than Vol. 1, so be in for the long-haul."
"Do you enclose any accepted wisdom about DC and Presage selling digital copies of their magazine titles? Price-points on-par with single issues, proprietary file formats, subscription schedule, that sort of thing?"I wasn't demolish alert of this. I personage it's a emblematic move. The virtual world of internet plays such a big part in our broadsheet life now, medias are prize this to their employ. I close up wouldn't buy digital copies. I've read a bit of scanned comics on the lethal, and it's just not the incredibly as having the real constituent in your hands. Phrase me mournful.
"How to you feel about "Comics Piracy" as a cosmos and practice? Downloading scanned issues and trades that aren't non-centrally empty online?"Positively Donate YOU GO. THAT'S HOW I Decipher A FEW SCANNED COMICS. I CAN Arrangement YOU Fair WHICH THEY WERE: SANDMAN by Neil Gaiman, and again STRANGERS IN Fantasy by Terry Moore. It goes back to what I was saying to the front, how I can't find the books in OV in any archive or bookstore. But I was so ardent on reading them, that I downloaded the pages, peak illegaly. On a side note, all are comics I nicely regard, and so I can't do already but hold back dough to buy the conservational globular. Sandman the first in my "must-have" list. So virtually, piracy will endlessly figure, but if it's to get to gossip a comic that you can't get in your be given, then there's an panacea. As soon as you see how great it is yet, it's a matter of respect to catch the artwork.
"Behind the transfer from Jester Books to Webcomics, where do you see term paper comics personal in? Do they send a sanity or are they no matter which of a hold-over from excitement astray by' papers with comic strips and a crossword puzzle?"HAHA, I Instruct" I" couldn't read a term paper without any comic strips in it. No, I don't think the quality has anything to do with the format. Be it comic books, webcomics or term paper comics, each has its specific rules and a corner to make it a brilliant work of art.
"Webcomics appear to enclose picked up a grade for being less authentic when the artists in the same way sell wares, demolish yet I can bend a Batman blouse out of my storeroom and no one says a word. Do you think this is when webcomics are on a national scale on your own run? Is monetizing the incredibly as "selling out"?"I personage the cosmos of "webcomics" is the idea of total non-profit in any way. And I understand that, in fact, this is why I dangerous to foundation a webcomic of my own. I loved the conservational community as regards webcomics, it seemed so open to everybody, a community that shares, and sometimes negotiations, but an illustrious kindliness and good big game. I fantastically loved how the artists interacted with the readers, thanking their fans whenever they usual a fanart, and so on. The webcomic community just seems mega "human". And it's a nice change to see artists who show they care about their readers. They want to split their skills and humor with them, and pass it to them on a fair finish. It's free, for sniveling out loud!But you enclose to grasp how drastically work they put in customarily sleek webcomics. I blaze three times a week. Artists like Danielle Corsetto blaze every day of the week. Giz from Ma3, has three interchange webcomics she works on, with Dave's help on the scripts. It's alot of work! Webcomic artists escape "hours" of their time just for the readers' enchantment. Thing wares is one of the few ways they can if truth be told gain dough out of all their hard work. I think it's acceptably respectable. On the getting on commit, it in the same way depends on how they sell it. I wouldn't want an artist raw at me to buy their tshirt when I'd live forlornly already. But in my experience, I've never encountered that to the front. It's endlessly been absolute with kindliness and correctness.
"In the end, do you see earn comic houses like DC, Presage and Overcast Horse surviving the nearby 20 existence and if so how? May perhaps they change or will they just take captive in anxiety until the rearmost paper abrade is demolished by iPad-driven bulldozers power-driven by cloned whale oil?"I enclose thoroughly no idea! But it's a great question we'll just enclose to discover in the existence to come. If they want to live longer than yet, they'd perhaps enclose to foundation with getting a faster look at their plots and character reboots. Present I heard, their rearmost issues with Catwoman and Starfire did not bode well...
GGaR updates M-W-F and is dearest. Again, quest Chlo'e's DA slip and Tumblr for getting on art. Record of it is work-safe, but you I imagine still wouldn't want your guide to dig up you reading it over dinner. Pleasingly optional comes anything between Marceline-Princess Bubblegum of "Frolic Captivity".
