"think POSITIVE" when it comes to approaching
women and when it comes to solving the issue
of approach anxiety i.e. the anxiety that comes
when you see a woman you want to approach?
They say things Like "You can get her! Go up to
her and approach her! She's yours!"
Or how about this one:
"Don't worry about rejection! She WON'T reject you!"
Well, the truth is, this "THINK POSITIVE" advice
only works if you ALREADY are 99% confident !
For example, a gifted athlete who is already super
confident about his abilities in his sport will do even
better if he focuses on "thinking positive".
He already has TONS of confidence, but if he can
just learn to think TOTALLY positive, he will then be
FULLY confident, he will gain that 1% that he was
missing.
Similarly, positive thinking when it comes to approaching
women is great, IF you are ALREADY doing AMAZING.
But this lucky "amazing" situation, when it comes to
men approaching women, does NOT apply to 99%
of the entire male population!
Most of us are just NORMAL human beings, who need
something MORE powerful than just "positive thinking"
to overcome approach anxiety and the barriers we feel
internally when we want to approach women.
In fact, if you are trying to get your "foot in the door",
so to speak, when wanting to approach a woman,
then trying to "thinking positive" is the absolute
WORST thing you can do for yourself!
It WON'T solve the approach anxiety!
Trying to think "positive" can actually make you far
MORE ANXIOUS about yourself and about your
chances of success!
The reason for this is because when you TELL yourself
not to worry because "everything will be great and she
will want me", you end up even LESS confident, as
deep down, burning stronger and stronger, with every
"wishful thought" is the OPPOSITE thought, the most
negative thought:
"WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T WANT ME?"
The more a man tries to "be positive and NOT think
negative" the more powerful the negative thoughts
become, till they are overwhelming.
Plus, the contrast between the "positive wish" and
the very real fear of the actual WORST makes the
fear even more overwhelming!
I should know, I used to try to "pump myself up"
with just using "positive thinking" for YEARS and
it often made me LESS confident.
Here's the other thing to realize as well: You gain
deep, inner core confidence NOT from "thinking
nice positive confident thoughts" so much as from
TAKING THE RIGHT ACTIONS!
After learning all this the HARD WAY, I have
broken it all down into an EASY to understand,
step-by-step PROVEN METHOD for destroying
ALL inner doubts, anxieties, and fears about
approaching women.
I designed this course so you can master these skills
QUICKLY and OBLITERATE approach anxiety
once and for all.
It's all been perfectly organized into a JAM-PACKED
1 HOUR AUDIO program that is pure GOLD.
The bottom line is, if you don't approach women,
then no matter how skilled you are, NOTHING will
happen. You can't stand around expecting women
to initiate or you are really just depending on luck.
It's not that women are lazy about approaching men,
as once a woman is attracted to a man, she will
pursue him to the ends of the earth.
Women don't want to have to do the first approach
because women feel that it is more MANLY for the
MAN to do the initial approach.
In addition to this, there's ANOTHER important reason
why YOU should do the approach:
It's because it sends the right message to a woman
when she sees that YOU approached HER, and she
then realizes that the same way you were able to
approach her, you could also approach OTHER
women even if they are total strangers, if she
doesn't treat you right.
This helps ensure that she never takes you for granted.
Being pro-active about approaching women first tells
a woman ALL THE RIGHT THINGS about you before
you even open your mouth!
Waiting for a woman to approach YOU says all the
WRONG things.
Right now, at the very moment you are reading this,
there are TONS of women around you who are
single! In fact there have never been more single
women in history than there are today.
But nothing will happen if you don't take action to
obliterate approach anxiety and approach these
women in the first place.
And although you can meet women online, the
REALITY is that the CONFIDENCE that comes
from being able to approach women ANYWHERE
in the REAL world SPILLS OVER into ALL of your
interactions with women, no matter where you
meet them.
Women can tell right away that they are dealing with
a man who has OPTIONS.
You will be radiating this confidence without even
thinking about it, it will come through in your thoughts,
body language, and tonality.
Plus, when a woman senses you can approach other
women, you ALWAYS become more attractive
to her, it's far more VALIDATING to her self-esteem
because she knows you could have chosen a billion
other women INSTEAD OF HER, but you decided to
approach and chat with HER.
She can detect this confidence in a MICROSECOND,
I promise you that.
She can also detect a LACK of this confidence just
as instantaneously.
OBLITERATING "approach anxiety" is absolutely
crucial.
If you are only relying on the women that fall into your
lap through introductions or through "luck" you are
going to be waiting FOREVER to meet the right woman.
On top of that, you're also going to be so starved for
female attention, that chances are you will become
needy and weak around the women that DO come
your way, since you won't have as many OPTIONS
at your fingertips.
You can CHANGE all this with getting over "approach
anxiety" once and for ALL.
And now you have the special opportunity to get this
jam-packed 1 hour audio program INSTANTLY
DOWNLOADED to your computer, so you can
start using it NOW and approaching women
IMMEDIATELY.
Let me ASSURE you, this is absolutely not some
"pump up think positive!" advice- I PROMISE YOU
THIS IS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT AT ALL.
What you will learn in this proven program, called
"Obliterating Approach Anxiety", is based on
THE MOST POWERFUL SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH
INTO THE WAY THE MIND WORKS.
Doing this research took me a long time, and it took
even longer to test it out again and again for YEARS
before releasing it.
I really should be charging ten times more than I am
for this program. My programs are known for being
the very best, and this program is certainly worth
at least 1200, as simply FINDING this information
is almost impossible. Never mind also formulating
it all into a powerful course that can be mastered
QUICKLY.
This time, I've definitely jumped off the edge and dived
into the deep end of insanity by charging only 19.97
for this supremely powerful program.
This way, there is no excuse for any man on Earth to
NOT have this program.
Do YOU want to have this area of your life HANDLED?
Does it MATTER to you that you can finally ENJOY
having CHOICES with women?
Or are you just going to let this chance pass you by?
It's only 19.97, and the BENEFITS of this program will
last you FOREVER.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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