It is a Sunday evening, you are hanging out with the guys, having drinks and just generally having fun. You have been having a wonderful time until all of a sudden, the conversation switches to women and then you clam up. This is because you are the only single guy amongst your friends- most of whom are either married or in committed relationships. Your single status has made you the butt of jokes for all your friends and you know this time around, it's not going to be an exception. You keep asking yourself why you are not successful at dating and why women don't give you a shot at a second date. Well, you don't have to worry any longer because help is at hand. This article is going to give you some wonderful dating techniques for winning over the girl of your dreams.
Dating Techniques to follow:
Keep Promises: Women love men that stand by their word. If you promised to call her at a particular time, make sure you do. If you promised to pick her up for a date at a particular time then make sure you don't keep her waiting. Women take extra care of themselves while preparing for a date so it won't be fair to keep her waiting for longer than necessary otherwise you would have ruined the date before it even begun. If for some reasons maybe traffic, you are going to be late then have the courtesy to call her and inform her.
Dress Sense: This cannot be over emphasized. Most women like good-looking and well-dressed men. Even though not everyone is gifted with looks like Will Smith, dressing well will always score a point in your favor. This is because every woman wants to have a man that she can be proud to show off. Women love attention and they will surely love to be the envy of their friends, but you shouldn't over do it. Play with some colors, be creative and most importantly, dress according to the occasion. Don't turn up in shorts if you are going on a dinner date otherwise that date will be your last.
Manners: Be her prince charming. Open the car door for her, pull out her chair and endeavor she is seated before you take your seat. Ask her what she wants to order before you make the order- do not assume you know what she wants. That is downright rude! If the weather is cold, lend her your jacket. Ask to fill her wineglass when you notice it's empty. You should also treat others around you with respect even the waiter. The way you treat them or talk to them will show her whether you are indeed a well-mannered person or whether you are just trying to impress her. If she is convinced that, that is indeed who you are, you can be sure you have made a wonderful impression on her.
Body Language: While you both are talking/ eating, pay attention to her. You can lean towards her, hold her hands, smile at her jokes, compliment her, look into her eyes. Make her seem like there is no one else in that room except her. As said earlier, women love attention so if you don't pay attention to her or you spend most of the time gazing everywhere else or at other people then she will interpret it as you not being interested and she will write you off as standoffish and an absolute bore.
Show Genuine Interest: While you guys are getting to know each other, it is ok to talk about yourself, your job, your childhood etc but do not hijack the entire conversation. Ask probing questions but not in an intrusive or rude manner otherwise she will clam up. Ask her about herself, her childhood, her job, her hobbies, where she lives, her plans for the future etc. Chip in some advice when necessary as this will show her that you care about her wellbeing. Appreciate whatever it is she does. Do not make her feel small or cheap especially if her job is a low-income job or if its beneath you. Women also have their pride and ego so she won't thank you for that.
Lasting Impressions: Let everything about your date be memorable. The venue, the food, your dressing, your cologne (this is important, let it not be too choking or over-powering but it should also be pleasant and masculine enough to tease her senses). Carry yourself well with an aura of self-confidence but don't be too cheesy or arrogant. Being confident is different from being arrogant but most men tend to mix up the two. Share jokes and make her smile- women love that. If the entire evening is a success, then you would have made a wonderful impression on her and she will be looking forward to seeing you again. This is a very important dating technique.
Good Endings: At the end of the date when you drop her at her place, walk her to her doorstep and give her a light goodnight kiss. Don't push it except she decides to take it deeper and with all your good work, which girl won't? After the goodnight kiss, you can now go home.
I am sure these wonderful dating technique tips will be able to earn you a second date. Go on out there and get the woman of your dreams.
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