He Doesn T Try To Impress The Woman

He Doesn T Try To Impress The Woman
Attracting A Woman Who Is A 'Ten' Means That

Your "Inner Concept" Is A Ten Out Of Ten!

A quick point before we start- regarding the idea of

"unexpected and perfect" and how it applies for

intensifying any emotion, including HUMOR!

I recently heard Jay Leno make a joke about

how strippers in LA are getting affected by the

economy, so they are charging half-price (or something

like that
) for lap dances.....and...."You know what

that means?" It means you get a HALF-ASSED job!

The audience exploded into laughter, because this

is a CLASSIC example of UNEXPECTED, yet PERFECT.

When he says/asks, "You know what this means?"

people are thinking "hmmmm maybe more people

coming, maybe less enthusiastic strippers, maybe

more enthusiastic because they appreciate the money,

etc, etc, etc."

But then, they get the answer: A HALF-ASSED JOB!

The answer is PERFECT, in many ways it makes TOTAL sense,

almost LITERALLY, and yet it's TOTALLY UNEXPECTED.

This is a great example of getting women laughing

by using this combo of UNEXPECTED and PERFECT.

The SECOND point I wanted to make is that when it comes to

attraction, as men, we BUILD attraction, unless we are already

a supermodel with billions in the bank. And yet, rather than

building attraction, we often DO THINGS ON OUR OWN

to HARM our own attractiveness.

In the film "She's Out of My League", this guy meets this

knockout, and the one thing he has about himself is that

he doesn't try to impress the woman by being someone

ELSE. That's what he has going for him.

Also, he has a bit of a sense of humor and he can

OWN his own lack of perfection, he can talk about

his own flaws in a way that takes out the steam

from them because once he's said it, it takes away

the power from that flaw since it's already been

expressed by him himself. He can speak about

"the elephant in the room" which gets rid of the

POWER of that "elephant".

This is a strong quality, that if you have any flaws

that are massively evident, rather than trying to hide

them, let them be exposed by yourself, it shows

a lot more social intelligence that way, especially

if you aren't going on a rant about it, and you

seem pretty calm about it.

HOWEVER, the one DISASTROUS thing he does,

is that he CAN'T BELIEVE THAT A WOMAN AS

ATTRACTIVE AS HER CAN REALLY WANT TO

BE WITH HIM.

So, based on this belief, he interprets EVERYTHING

as a reason why this girl will not want to be with him.

So, while the girl is slowly getting more attracted to him

as the movie goes on, there is a point where his FEARS

start to screw things up with her, and one of the biggest

examples is when he SERIOUSLY HOPES she has

some MAJOR FLAW of her own, so that this way

he can feel she will more likely want to stay with him.

Think about that for a second- why on earth would

a man who is attracted to a woman who is treating

him RIGHT, and who is a KNOCKOUT, why

would he WISH that she actually had to have

some kind of DEFECT to her?

The answer is INSECURITY and NEEDINESS.

The insecurity says, "Well, if she has a flaw, then

maybe she will accept my flaws."

The NEEDINESS says that, "I can't feel good without

her, so I must find some way to KEEP her regardless

of what's good for her or not, in fact let's start WISHING

she had some problems, some DEFECT in fact!

YEAH, that would be perfect!"

And this is not just a movie thing, it's very common

to REAL LIFE. When feeling insecure and needy,

it's quite HUMAN to almost wish there was SOME

flaw to the "perfectness" of the other person, the

woman who we think is "OUT OF OUR LEAGUE".

Now, think about it from the woman's point of view:

How can she love a man who SERIOUSLY WISHES SHE

HAS OR WILL GET SOME DEFECT?

Just because HE is afraid that he is not good enough for her.

The point of all this, is that INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS

can turn a guy who is slowly growing on a woman into being

a guy who went from being a 5 or 6 into being an 8, 9, or 10,

and then this INSECURITY AND NEEDINESS constantly

CUTS HIM DOWN BY ANOTHER "POINT".

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She's Out of My League at MOVIECLIPS.com

Each time you RESIST the urge to give into insecurities,

your GAIN a point on the attraction scale.

But in this movie, he does the opposite, and each time he

allows himself to give IN to his insecurities, he LOSES another

point on the attraction scale to the woman.

And THAT is how he ends up as a "5", when he was

at one point more of a 9 on his way to being a TEN.

That is, until near the end of the movie, when he realizes

how SCREWED UP his own thinking has been and

how he IS indeed a "10"!

And here's the OTHER major news: EVEN THE GUYS

EVERYONE THINKS HAVE IT "ALL" ACTUALLY

VERY OFTEN HAVE MAJOR INSECURITIES AS WELL!

And the movie actually reflects this reality, as the very

guy he is jealous of, who used to date the knockout

in the past, did JUST AS MANY INSECURE THINGS

as well! He just puts on a show in front of the rest

of the world that he is really secure, but when it came

to being with the knockout, he screwed things up

just as bad, all because he thought the woman

would ultimately dump him.

This happens in real life all the time!

It doesn't matter if you're an "A LIST" ACTOR,

IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE A MODEL OR

BILLIONAIRE, the bottom line is that EVERYONE

has insecurities, and if you let those insecurites and

neediness affect your ACTIONS, it will harm the

attraction a woman feels for you.

Yet the crucial thing to remember is that if you

RESIST the urge to give in to those insecurities,

you keep on RISING on the bar of attraction.

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