Discernibly, people try to define each person excessively they meet. We try to place people in nicly cut slots to highlight where they go. Girls do this all the time. They want to statue you out to establish what role you will have in their daydream, if you call for be relationship material for them or their friends, and so on (i.e. Aficionada, Friend, or Second best). If you keep defying the control they have for you, you will be christened a mystery.
Limit people are set in your ways. A day from now, they will credibly look the enormously, act the enormously, and be the enormously. But if you are in a hand over of flux, carelessly out of unhappy a self-improvement (or self-discovery if you will), every sort out they try to stay on the line you in will fail.
"Relatives see Pook."
"Look! He is great. He enjoys talking about sports. Followed by, he is a jock."
"Pook subsequently federation philosophy."
"Play at that! He have to read books! Followed by, he is a bore jock."
"Pook subsequently listens to the women."
"Oh, he is so sweet! He is such a Polite Guy!"
"Pook subsequently cycles unhappy the women."
"How is this!? Pook is a Polite Guy Player!"
"Pook subsequently pisses off a woman."
"Such as ho! Pook is jerk-like!"
"Pook subsequently makes a speech."
"Play at him go! Pook is an orator! He have to get his own radio show."
"Pook subsequently writes an essay for a paper."
"Wow! Pook have to be a writer! Play at him go!"
And this goes on permanently. In the end, they quiet Pook is a Polite Guy/ Player/ Surprise who's writer/orator and a nerd/jock. No blow they are matted.
The longer they charge me, the first-class of a mystery I am to them (having the status of they've seen first-class change). They can only love Pook, never define him.
Anti-Dump advised shy guys to use their malleability as an extra to not give themselves available. Terminator911 used the word, "The less she knows, the first-class she wants to charge". These two were responding to how numerous guys turn their dates into Oprah and tell their mediocre life stories.
Women like men who are like mountains, muggy with numerous layers having the status of all women are gold-hunters, either for the gold of your potential or the gold you evidently have. They like to dig unhappy these layers. They get information but they charge that bestow is first-class bestow. It frustrates her that she can't define you. She loves you having the status of of this.
You don't withold information, you make her work to get it out (you are not to regulate your record to her). But you're persistently changing. So on one occasion she has dug up a layer, the mint has hard-pressed up three layers haughty. She (and you) are never bored and any of you are sooner to the stars.
Differ THIS with the guy who is in stasis mode. She will go unhappy his layers and his mint just sits bestow. Candidly, she thinks that the far afield mountains are taller, outsized, first-class interesting to increase. She will say, "I am bored," casual you, and go for the bordering mint "having the status of it's bestow".
Relatives do not see mysteries in people they have not talked to/met. Why? What bestow are lots of people they have not talked to. Put on is nothing powerful in that. No, fill with people are delegated in her mind as part of the feeling or scenario she is in. You only become real on one occasion you initiate interacting with her in some real way. The first-class morality and time she gets from you, the first-class she will try to put you in a sort out. If you are upwardly changing, she will be unfamiliar. "He is such a mystery!"
You want to be a mystery in this way a bit than beating your life (but no set the girl into Oprah. That's just gross.) In this way, the first-class a person knows you, the first-class the person will see you as a mystery. This path your girl won't get bored. Her notice level will house high.
And it will be unhappy her doing! The word all-important won't regular go unhappy your mind. She will think and reflect and start on perform out of nothing (as women are pretty good at law). And the first-class she thinks about you, the first-class she will like you.
See? Don't try to push her mind into feel you. She wants to like you. "By her prudence reasons to like you as she tries to statue you out, she has Really HERSELF that you are clear".
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