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Comfort is a two-faced bitch. It lures us away from the jagged rocks of pain to the soft shores of protection. It is a great time-saver and facilitator; it might even be fun for a while.
Comfort is also our undoing, robbing us of our potential. It's the difference between Bilbo Baggins staying in the Shire as a Hobbit, and fighting a dragon as THE Hobbit.
So, let's keep this in mind when I offer my thoughts on Grouper, a self-described "social club" offering a new spin on online dating -- although they never use the word "date," and you're hardly ever online. After using Grouper three times, I'll say this: it's one of the most comfortable ways of meeting women that a guy is going to find. Take that for what you will.
Here's a quick lowdown for the uninitiated: Grouper started here in San Francisco and New York and has since spread to other U.S. cities. A "Grouper" matches one guy with one girl, and although the company takes great pains not to call the event a date, you must each find two single friends of your gender to go. I suspect this formula will gain popularity with younger, techier crowds who don't want the anxiety of approaching attractive strangers.
It goes something like this:
All the prep work is done for you: there are no online profiles to sift through, no email exchanges and no planning where to go. These factors will be pros or cons depending on your viewpoint, but I mostly consider this an improvement over standard online dating, where scanning profiles and sending emails can be an eye-gougingly dull experience. Yes, at least you exercise choice with OK Cupid, but we've covered the downside of that.
The price includes a free first drink, making the cost of this endeavor far cheaper than traditional arranged group dates like Table for Six, or even your average first date. So that's a plus, too.
You will not know what your Grouper partners look like before you see them, nor will you have any information on them other than a generic-sounding promise that the girls are "super cute." I suppose that's more comforting than being promised that they have "great personalities," but the matching system, based on people's Facebook profiles, seems as sophisticated as throwing at a dart board.
I've been on three Groupers with the same two wingmen, and we each took turns being the guy who signed up. We have plenty in common, but not so much in common that we should get the same type of girls each time -- for example, one of us is a hard core Burning Man guy whereas I'm quite the opposite. But diversity was hard to come by.
Leaving physical attractiveness out of it for a minute, all nine of the girls we met were in their mid-20s, white and of mainstream tastes. Virtually all of them lived in or hung out often in the Marina, which is the Never Never Land for ex-frat boys and sorority girls. None of us are compatible with Marina girls beyond a drunken night of hooking up to songs by Keha.
Based on my Grouper outings, here's a quick cheat sheet for any guys considering your own:
GET FUN WINGMEN YOU CAN TRUST, AND HAVE A GAME PLAN: I had the first part of this down -- my wingmen are great friends -- but our first time out we didn't consider the logistics of having a six-way encounter where we're all sitting at a table. Unless you want polite chit-chat the whole night, you need to switch seats and isolate at some point. The girls came together and will have pressure to leave together, so your insta-date odds afterward are slim unless you're really hitting it off.
GIVE THE POINT MAN FIRST DIBS ON A GIRL: Even though my friends and I have different physical tastes, we agreed each time on who the best looking girl was. So to avoid any conflict or miscommunication, I advise giving first dibs to the guy who organized the event. My secret code for calling dibs was looking at the girl and saying, "How about those Giants?" Smooth, I know.
DON'T BE SHY ABOUT ESCALATING: I find it ironic that while Groupers seem marketed to shy people and uses a "no labels" mantra, you need to exercise some PUA skills to close the deal. Grouper doesn't give you the girls' contact info afterward, so you will need to get her number by the end of the encounter, probably in front of everyone.
Now for the recap of my three Groupers:
NO. 1: Thumbs up on the bar Grouper chose, and I liked being able to get Scotch as my free drink. As for the girls, it was a three-headed Marina monster. They could talk about sports, visiting Western Europe, and drinking, but that was about it. One of the girls was good looking enough that one of us probably should have gotten her number just for the hell of it, but we didn't regret it.
NO. 2: The best I can say about this one was that the girls were all nice (in fact, all nine of the girls we met were nice; social conventions sort of require it). However, none of them were remotely interesting to us, physically or otherwise, and the bar had a DJ blasting music so loud we could barely talk. After this one I had to talk one of my wingmen into doing a third Grouper, on his condition that I write this review. So I hope you're happy, buddy.
NO. 3: I was the point man for this one, so I was fortunate that one of the girls was cute. Yes, she lived in the Marina, but at least she was apologetic about it. I got her number but she didn't return my texts afterward (was it my Giants line?); still, even soft rejection felt like an improvement. The bar was solid, and we took an inspired Groupergram -- you're encouraged to take a creative Instagram photo of the six of you. It was my idea to have the five of us simulate surgery with knives on my shirtless wingman while the bar manager watched in horror.
Grand total for three outings: None of us is swearing off Grouper forever, but none of us would rely on it for dating. Combined, the three of us spent 60 and over six hours of our time. We had a whopping one phone number (that didn't lead anywhere) among the three of us. We had perfectly safe, pleasant conversations in safe settings with nine friendly girls who mostly did not attract us (the feeling may very well have been mutual).
But phone numbers are beside the point. This is more about the costs of comfort. There might be little to lose in talking to three pre-selected women, but for many guys I suspect there's also much less to gain. Personally, I would rather exercise my own judgment in meeting my kind of girls -- and the risk of immediate rejection is an asset, not a liability.
I'd still recommend Grouper to a guy who just wants to go out and meet lots of people and maybe hook up with a girl or two. But if you're looking for girlfriend material, I'd take the bumpier road.
Credit: dating-for-black-men.blogspot.com
"BE YOURSELF" AND "JUST RELAX" ARE USELESS ADVICE FOR AWKWARD PEOPLE. INSTEAD, HERE'S SOME CLEAR, SIMPLE GUIDELINES."
It's tough going through life as an awkward person. Social skills seem to come easy to everyone else, but not for you. It can be hard knowing how to not put people off or not seem weird and unpleasant, especially if you don't feel good at socializing or are non-neurotypical.
Too much of the advice for this situation is written by people who aren't themselves awkward, and is based on their own experience. "Be yourself" is no help when the entire problem is that "yourself" tends to seem weird or obnoxious. A list of clear specific dos and don'ts would be a lot more helpful for people looking to get better at social situations. So I wrote one.
For the purpose of this guide, we're gonna assume that you're talking to strangers in a social setting. Conversational rules with close friends and partners can be very different from these.
FIRST, HERE ARE SOME OVERALL THOUGHTS TO HAVE IN MIND.
* Think less about "how do I become less awkward" or "how can I avoid scaring people away?" Instead, flip it around. Think about, "How can I learn to be friendly and polite?" and "What is respectful behavior?"
* Confidence will help you, even if you're faking it. If you can be confident, you'll have a better "vibe," and you'll be more able to recover from faux pas. "Fake it 'till you make it" is a real thing.
* Really listen to people you're talking to. Don't make the conversation about you. More on this later.
* If you know or see someone whose social graces seem impeccable to you, don't be afraid to imitate them, or ask them about their techniques.
* Don't be afraid to check in occasionally. "Do you want to talk about something else? Is this okay for you? Are you still interested? Am I rambling?" It's okay to ask these questions!
* Don't treat people like you have a relationship with them that you don't. Just because you can touch your partner that way doesn't mean you can touch someone you've just met in the same way. Just because you can tease your friend like that doesn't mean you can tease a stranger.
* If someone says, "that made me uncomfortable," do not get angry at them for telling you, or for being uncomfortable. This is true even if you made them uncomfortable because of your mental illness, disability, etc. Do apologize. Do explain the nature of your difficulty, if you wish. Do not be angry. Do not "expect "them to accommodate you.
* Your mannerisms aren't everything. Your intentions are important. If you stutter, if you have trouble with eye contact, if you're just awkward, but you're genuinely interested in what the other person is talking about, chances are good that they'd rather be talking to you than to someone who has smooth and polished manners, but is only angling into their conversation partner's pants.
Remember those things. Now, let's get specific.
Body language can be tough to manage, but helps to ensure you get your intentions across. Reading it is also a valuable tool for assessing your conversational partner's mood and feelings. This will be divided into two sections. First, things to and not to do with your body language, and second, some things that their body language might mean. Bear in mind, though, that if their leaning in means they're interested, your doing the same can carry that same message!
YOUR BODY LANGUAGE:
* Don't ever touch somebody without asking.
* That includes hugs. Ask someone before you hug them, and don't ask them after you've opened your arms or leaned in. Say, "Do you mind a hug?" or just "Hug? then" open your arms "if they say yes." Do not be offended if they say no.
* Don't ever touch someone's stuff without asking.
* Don't use your body in ways that might make people feel trapped. Don't corner them. Don't use your arms or your body to fence them in.
* Stay out of people's personal space, unless invited in. Don't get within about a foot of them is a pretty safe rule of thumb for lots of people.
* Don't stare!
* Do make eye contact. For casual conversations, once every couple of seconds should be pretty all right. Don't forget to blink!
THEIR BODY LANGUAGE:
* Folded arms or arms wrapped around the body-they might be uncomfortable.
* Leaning towards you-they're probably interested.
* Leaning away from you-they might be uninterested or uncomfortable.
* Looking around the room, checking their watch or phone-they might not be very interested in the conversation, or they could be nervous.
* Tension in the body: hunched shoulders, clenched fists, etc-well, they're not comfortable. They may be nervous or ill-at-ease.
* If they touch you (or ask to touch you, which they should), they probably like you.
* Smiling and laughing-probably good signs! They are not uncomfortable. They like the cut of your jib. Smiling or laughing nervously mean the opposite, though.
* If they go to get a drink or to the restroom or anything like that, then return to you-they probably want to keep talking to you!
* If you're talking to two friends and one of them wanders away, but the other one stays-they probably want to keep talking to you!
"If their body language indicates discomfort:" change the subject, ask them a question, check in on them, or let them out of the conversation. Don't beat yourself up or hate yourself for it; everyone's been there. You can let someone out of a conversation pretty gracefully by saying something like, "You don't seem to be having fun, so I'll let you go," or by going to the restroom (etc) and not coming back.
Now that how folks look is covered, let's talk about what they say. For a lot of people, reading these cues and producing cues in line with their intentions will be easier than it is with body language, but it can still be difficult, especially if you're learning. Again, we're gonna have two sections: your speech, and theirs.
YOUR SPEECH:
* Almost nothing is creepier than not taking no for an answer. Take no for an answer. Do not argue or cajole. Do not make a show of disappointment. Do not ask a second time.
* If you stutter, or have trouble getting words out, take a deep breath and try again! People are often pretty understanding of these sorts of things, so don't be afraid to explain, "I stutter when I'm nervous," or "I have trouble talking to new people, sorry."
* In general, it's okay to explain that you're feeling awkward. Lots of people have trouble when they first meet someone, so there's a good chance they're feeling awkward, too. You might even be able to laugh about it with them!
* Don't approach someone with an agenda besides getting to know them. If an agenda (ask them out, invite them to something, etc.) develops, don't push it.
* Don't talk over people! If you do, say you're sorry, stop talking, and let them finish.
* Don't belabor apologies. Say you're sorry. Be honest. And move on. Don't make them uncomfortable by dwelling on something that sucked for them or by self-flagellating. Do forgive yourself for making mistakes. If they seem to be upset in a lingering way once you've apologized, you may ask them something like, "It seems like you're still hurt. Is there something I can do?" Take no for an answer or do the thing they ask of you.
* Wait a second or two after someone is done speaking to respond, just to make sure they're really finished.
* It's great to connect what someone is saying with yourself and your experiences-but don't connect it to a brag, or use that connection to make the conversation about yourself.
* If the conversation stalls, ask them a question!
COMPLIMENTS:
Compliments are their own special thing and you've gotta be careful with them. It's very easy to make someone feel very happy with a compliment, and it's very easy to be skeevy, or downright offend someone with one, too.
* Avoid being too specific or too sexual. "Nice dress," is better than "nice legs," and "nice shirt," is better than, "I really like the way that shirt makes your arms look."
* "I like long hair," or "I like people with long hair," when you're talking to someone with long hair isn't so much a compliment as you telling that person, "you match my preferences," which is a potentially disturbing thing to tell a stranger.
* Compliment the decisions that people have made! Their haircut, their tattoos, their clothes are easier to compliment well than their eyes, butt, or legs.
* Compliments are not a conversation starter unless you weave it in. "I love your tattoo," doesn't start a conversation. But, "I love your tattoo. Where did you get it done?" could start one.
* You might have better luck complimenting people in passing. "Oh, great bag, by the way," as an interjection in a conversation, for example.
CUES FROM THEIR SPEECH:
* If their responses have just become "mmhmm," or "hmm," or bland "uh-huhs," or if their smiles or laughs seem strained or polite, you might want to give them a little more space to talk, or let them out of the conversation. They may not be scintilated.
* Take hesitation as a polite no.
* Take "maybe later, not right now," and excuses like "I have to wash my hair," as polite nos. On the other hand, "Maybe later," really can mean exactly that. If they say, "maybe once I'm done with this," or otherwise name a specific time for "later," they probably mean that and not "no." If you "really" want to and someone provides an excuse like, "Oh, I don't know how to play that game, so I won't be able to join you," you can say something like, "I'd be happy to teach you, but you really don't have to play, if you're not interested." You can also respond to "maybe later," with "let me know when you're up for it." Put the ball in their court. Odds are pretty okay that they'll toss it back to you if and when they want to.
* If someone glosses over or ignores a comment you made, or if they give vague or very short answers to your questions, they are probably not interested in those things you said. If these sorts of responses are consistent, they are probably not interested in talking to you.
* Their asking you questions is a good sign.
* If they re-initiate conversation with you when conversation goes flat, or when they talk to someone else for a while, that's also good.
* If they compliment you, it's good.
* If they introduce you to people you don't know, it's good.
* If they offer to buy you food or drink, it's good.
IN SUMMATION:
* Be respectful. Listen. Pay attention.
* Never touch anyone without their permission.
* Take "no" for an answer. This includes hesitation and deflections.
Interpersonal relations are complicated. If they weren't, you wouldn't be here. There are lots of other cues to learn, and lots of flowchart-like if-when situations. Some cues are very dependent on the individual. But, as you socialize more, your senses will become sharper and you'll develop a better feel for people. You'll learn the patterns. Even if you don't, these are good thoughts to abide by.
LEARN TO BE RESPECTFUL, AND IT WILL MATTER LESS THAT YOU'RE AWKWARD. REALLY LISTEN, AND IT WILL MATTER LESS THAT YOU'RE AWKWARD. BE SINCERE, AND IT WILL MATTER LESS THAT YOU'RE AWKWARD.
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Piccadilly Publishing has already established itself as a favorite publishing house with western fans, and we are delighted to have David Whitehead here to tell us all about this vibrant publishing house.
By the end of 2012, Piccadilly Publishing will have issued no less than thirty-one books, all but four of them westerns. Not bad for a company that only began life in May 2012, and only came about at all thanks to a chance remark by my friend and partner in this venture, Mike Stotter.
"I know what I wanted to ask you," he said right out of the blue one day. "What do you think about bringing all the old Piccadilly Cowboy westerns back as e-books?"
Hmmm. I had to think about it for all of two, maybe three seconds. The possibility that we could somehow bring all those hard-and-getting-harder-to-find books back into 'e-print' was impossible to resist. It had all been so much fun first time around, when Mike and I, then in our late teens, had taken it upon ourselves to write to, then meet up with our idols. The possibility of being able to recreate that period all over again was immensely attractive.
The name of our company was never in doubt. Terry Harknett, Laurence James, Angus Wells, John Harvey, and latterly Ken Bulmer, Mike Linaker and Frederick Nolan, all became known as 'Piccadilly Cowboys' because that was the farthest west they'd ever been. So 'Piccadilly Publishing' it was.
Now, we needed to get our writers on board.
Terry Harknett's EDGE and STEELE books were already being reissued quite successfully by Malcolm Elliott-Davey, alias 'Cody Wells' - who himself was to become an important part of our team as things progressed. But Mike was still in touch with John Harvey and Elizabeth James, widow of Laurence. And Mike Linaker was only too happy to let us give his BODIE THE STALKER and JASON BRAND books a new lease of life.
Inevitably we soon found ourselves widening the scope of our company. I had always enjoyed the above-average MADIGAN westerns by my friend Keith Hetherington, alias 'Hank J. Kirby', and so he was another writer we went after very early on. Before long we added the likes of Frederick Nolan, alias 'Frederick H. Christian', and even took it upon ourselves to add some SF, and latterly, crime, to our monthly schedules.
But our first love was and remains the western, and though we plan to launch our 'Piccadilly Crime' series in earnest next year, we still see ourselves very much as a publisher of westerns - specifically, series westerns.
In those early weeks and months, however, there was plenty of frustration and disappointment. In all too many cases it has proven to be almost impossible to track down some writers and establish who now owns the rights in their books. And I suppose, as new kids on the block, many other writers or their representatives preferred to wait and see if we really were serious about what we planned to do. But that was fine. We expected to have to prove ourselves. And in May 2012 we did. That was the month we published our first book, TRACKDOWN, by Neil Hunter.
Now, it's at this point that you expect me to add, "... and the rest is history." It isn't, though. More accurately it's still history in the making.
Over the months we've added a number of books and authors to our line-up, the idea being to vary our monthly schedules as much as we can, and provide something for everyone. So now we also have the tough-as-tacks Iron Eyes and more traditional Bar 10 books of Michael D. George, writing as 'Rory Black' and 'Boyd Cassidy' respectively. We have the Reaper and Shatterhand books of B. J. Holmes. And sometimes it seems to Mike and I that we're adding new writers and series by the day.
The level of success our company has had has been both surprising and gratifying. Western readers have embraced 'the brand' and many of them now rightly feel that they are just as much a part of Piccadilly Publishing as the writers themselves. I can't explain why this is, but my guess is that our readers know that we are every bit as much fans as they are, so maybe they identify with us and understand that we are genuine in our desire to bring the western back to its old prominence, and of course to keep it attractive and affordable in the process!
The distinctive look of our books is really down to the aforementioned Malcolm Elliott-Davey. They do say that water finds its own level, and Malcolm, Mike and I all found common ground in our love of, and enthusiasm for, the genre. This is a very good opportunity to thank Malcolm publicly for his incredible work, because he more than anyone has really stamped the distinctive 'look' on the PP product.
Although we started out as a reprint publisher, we also inaugurated a series of stand-alone westerns under the general title Piccadilly Publishing Presents, and it was under this banner that we published, in September 2012, our first original book, SHERIFF OF FRIENDLY by Paul Green. I'm proud to say that Paul again treated us to an original novel in THE REVENGE OF CATO STREET (to be published in November 2012). There are more original books to come throughout 2013, including the western THE UNFORGIVEN by Black Horse Western favourite D. M. Harrison, and another title from our rising star Paul Green, TRAIL OF BLOOD. I was particularly pleased when we also added Thomas McNulty's ultra-fine western, DEATH RIDES A PALOMINO, to our list for 2013.
More recently we've added some true heavyweights to our imprint. In November 2012 we publish our first western by Tony Masero. Tony needs no introduction, of course, but I'll give him one anyway. He is an artist whose talent knows no bounds, and whose work established more than any other the distinctive look of the original Piccadilly westerns of the 1970s and 80s. He is also a prolific writer, and has written horror, science fiction and crime, in addition to a whole passel of fine westerns. Tony's first western for Piccadilly Publishing is DEADLY MANHUNT, which is a sequel of sorts to his earlier BHW, JOHNNY DOLLAR. It's a fabulous book, much darker and grittier than his earlier westerns, and I think readers will have a great time with it. Indeed, I look forward to seeing many more of Tony's all-new westerns appearing under our aegis.
As if that wasn't enough, we launch two more series in December 2012 that will be of enormous interest to western readers - Peter Brandvold's critically-acclaimed 'Lou Prophet' yarns and the 'Storm Family' saga by Matt Chisholm.
Colorado resident Peter Brandvold can now lay claim to more than seventy westerns, under his own name and the pen-name 'Frank Leslie'. His series recount the adventures of such colourful
characters as Sheriff Ben Stillman, Gideon Hawk (the Rogue Lawman), Cuno Massey, Yakima Henry and Tom Navarro. PP will be issuing the first six Lou Prophet westerns throughout 2013, with hopefully many more Peter Brandvold titles to follow.
Matt Chisholm is another legendary writer. At his peak, Englishman Peter Watts (to give him his real name) was selling seven million westerns in the UK alone. A prolific writer whose work also appeared under the names Cy James and Luke Jones, he is now best-remembered for his long-running series featuring Rem McAllister, but in addition to these books Peter also chronicled the ongoing adventures of Joe Blade, Sam Spurr... and of course the Storm Family. Led by Will Storm, the family up-stakes and undertake a dangerous cattle-drive in STAMPEDE, the first book of the series. Later stories tell of the trials and triumphs of Will and his kin.
For 2013 we are also immensely proud to welcome Terry Harknett to the fold with no less than three non-western series - Chester Fortune (the hard-boiled Los Angeles P.I.), Crown (Terry's taut series of police thrillers set in pre-1999 Hong Kong) and the Stephen Wayne mysteries, which include some of Terry's earliest work... and also some of his most difficult titles to find.
We do have many other plans for company, but at the moment these are classified at an 'Above Top Secret' level. What I can promise is that we are all heading for a long-overdue renaissance in popular western and action-adventure fiction, and Piccadilly Publishing is proud to be part of the vanguard making it happen.
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Preceding you go to any carrying out or be included in a large gathering to shakeup or observe, you need to be grateful for everything about your background and the people with whom you are goodbye to row pillar or be beaten some time. Inquiries the exits of the areas as immediately as you gush the venue of the gathering, and then familiarize yourself with the landmarks. For this incentive, your group needs to give details at the stain up to that time the immensity of the flock arrives. With, keep an eye on the weather.
Acquaint with with your group
If you are in a group or with your children, first communicate with them about the safety self-assurance. Produce ultimate you grip their exchange chuck out and they be grateful for yours too. Judge the clutch to display your accept as immediately as they sense suchlike out of place and ask them not to lose sight of you. As hand over are a lot of factors complex which are beyond your authority, you can keep yourself congeal and end restive for any lack of decorum waiting to get up. Arbiter a place where you people can meet if you are divided from each a good deal.
Produce ultimate hand over is prosperity extent
Inside areas with a extent failure, can institute a problem for a flock. Any of us grip personal get. Formerly this get is invaded, we feel threatened. The self-same thing happens with a flock. Sooner than give preferentiality to ignorance, the personal extent for each reduces, which in turn makes the flock opposite. A create can turn this flock into a mob, and violence can result.
Go with the flow of the flock
A large flock is very extreme like a annoyed torrent, it doesn't stop for suchlike less than a edge. So, your best plan is to go listed with the flock, and not against it. If you walk in the invalidate bearing of the crowd's row, you will impression best quality inflexibility. Event in the key of a large flock move more rapidly than the ones on the border of the gathering.
Trail a swaddle
If you are bashful of an future rush, find a swaddle where you can pall. Try to go to one side until you find a place which has a moderately lessen ignorance of people, until you see an bragging or contact the founding who can help you.
If you fall down and flock is cheering, divider yourself by curling into a blob
In bag of a rush or shiny cheering flock that doesn't wish to stop, the best thing is to standpoint standing on your feet. At a halt, if you do find yourself or else the set down, contract that you make yourself as small as liable by curling into a blob. This way, you may well get injuries but your impression and a good deal internal organs may well still be innocent. If others trip over you, hand over will be leader catnap of people which the flock would like to avoid.
Say no to flock surfing, stage impetuous, and moshing
Accomplishments like these can stay on in grievous injuries and it is advised to avoid them. Maximum places grip then available these activities and individuals who gorge in it run the bet of getting expelled from the venue.
Linger exposed from suspect, smashed or upsetting people
If you grip pockmarked a name who, according to you, is acting disreputable with regards to safety, in addition to you may inform the founding. Great big crowds attract troublemakers, be it criminals or drunkards. You need to standpoint restive and be on the protect of any untowardly sign. Falsehood your chattels with you at all times.
Go home
If you feel you are being short of by the flock, in addition to you most likely are. As immediately as you sense danger, get out from hand over. Go to a safe cut up, like your home or any place where hand over is no spillover flock from the layout. If you are feeling queasy or overheated, it is best to move exposed from the flock. Produce ultimate you inform people who are with you about your medicinal environment so that they be grateful for for instance and how to help you.
Do not flap
In a packed full cut up, it is usually safer than it appears. Celebrate, a mob is never premeditative; it is impulsive and hard to authority once it spins out of authority. The best thing is to standpoint unmoving and tirelessly await your turn to enter or bragging the cut up.
Able others
If you see role come into harm's way, you destitution help them without jeopardizing that person's and your safety. Contemplate a name has fallen into the set down, you can give support to him/her. You may display the hands of others once asking their redress so that you all can get of hand over tightly.
Move up to that time the shroud pour
At the end of an extravaganza, hand over is a jet to edge the premises of the stadium or building as immediately as liable. You destitution edge up to that time the time becomes succulent for mishaps. At a halt, if you end up staying late, it is wiser to loaf at a safe cut up and let the flock pass and in addition to only egress the cut up.
So the contiguous time you opportunely or without thinking become a part of a large herd, keep these points in mind and grip a profound time by being smarter than the flock.
Who's giving you advice? Are they succeeding in whatever way you want to succeed and living the way you want to live? If not, they're not the people to be advising you, especially about your relationship.
I was out with my wife once at a local Mexican restaurant and saw something disgusting that we need to discuss. No, it wasn't something with legs in the enchiladas or the salsa verde. It was a couple of fairly young men, seemingly in their early thirties. One of them was slouched over, in grungy clothes, looking like a total slacker - I looked under his table to see if there was a skateboard hiding there. His clothes were wrinkled, his hair disheveled and if he had come to my door to visit my daughter looking like that I would have kicked his sorry butt out the door and told him to come back when he'd acquired soap - both the body and laundry varieties - and some self-respect.
His companion looked considerably better. He sat up straight, and was dressed for being in public. He was fairly well-groomed, His shirt was tucked in and his clothes were not wrinkled. He had more of a worldly air about him. There was a near-empty margarita pitcher between them and they were both talking louder than they should have been. (It's amazing how tequila damages others' hearing and not your own, isn't it? LOL!)
The most respectable-looking of the pair was dating a co-worker of theirs, apparently a high-quality girl that was pretty popular in the office. He told his friend he wanted to escalate the relationship because he thought they were right for each other. Before he got to the end of the sentence, his friend the slacker said, "Dude, no way she'll hang with you! You're not her type. She's into power and sleeps with the boss. Even if she did hook up steady with you, you'd just screw it up like you've done with every other woman you've dated."
Doesn't sound like much of a friend, does he? Unfortunately, it's not that uncommon amongst "friends" for one who's having a hard time or just generally negative about everything to rain on everybody else's parade. In his mind, if he's not happy, it's not fair for anybody else to be. Instead of being happy for his friend, he's throwing cold water on his friend's desires/ambitions, possibly for no better reason than to keep himself from having to find somebody else to drink with or complain to.
The disgusting thing is that it worked! The poor guy sat there a moment and then said, "Yeah, you're probably right." He allowed his so-called "friend" to rob him of his ambition and convince him that he didn't have a chance with her. They worked in the same office! If she'd really been sleeping with the boss, wouldn't they BOTH have heard about it by then? It's ridiculous that so many people do this to one another, and still call each other "friends"! It's just plain sick to think about, but it's the nature of people who lack self-esteem.
Losers have a tendency to want to pull others down to their level, instead of learning from their friends and drawing on their successes as inspiration for their own success, which would elevate them to their mentor's level. Lacking character, it's easier for them to talk trash to the achievers around them than to get off their lazy butt and achieve something. Is this the kind of person you want to take advice from, about anything in your life? I hope not, and I can tell you categorically and with authority that it is not.
This kind of person is a prime target for the "hire slowly, fire quickly" method of forming relationships of any kind. No matter how much you want to do or try to do, they will try at every turn to discourage and disparage anything that is above them. This is the last person in the world that you want to be discussing anything important or personal with, because they can't possibly have anything good going on in their life or they wouldn't be talking to you this way.
Their opinion of what you should be doing or any advice they may offer is therefore worthless; otherwise, they would be having some successes and being upbeat about at least a few things in their life. Their sole purpose in any conversation with you will be to bring you down, not celebrate your dreams and successes with you.
Always make sure you are fully supported by your friends and family. If you have any "friends" that are constantly telling you that you will not be able to accomplish something, or that you're wife will end up leaving you, or that you can't possibly get that better job you're going after without any facts to back up their claims (if you're trying to learn to play piano with no hands, or you're a violent spouse abuser, or the job you're applying for requires a PhD and you don't have a high school diploma, they may have a point, but you know what I mean), fire them!
They're not worthy of sharing your life's energy and your space. Know the difference between a good friend who has relevant facts that you don't yet possess and cares enough to give them to you and the pessimistic gothic ne'er-do-well who thinks it rains 24/7 and wants to make sure you stay soaked in their misery.
People like this can insidiously turn you into a carbon copy of themselves, and as you can imagine, that's about as unattractive as it gets. Just ask any woman (who's not one of these constantly complaining losers) what she thinks of them. She'll tell you, in no uncertain terms, that she wants someone fun and upbeat, somebody with brains and vision and leadership skills, not some loser who ridicules greatness because he'll never aspire to it, let alone achieve it. Nobody who looks at his shoes when he talks and walks and disparages everything he hears is attractive, to anyone, in any way, except maybe to a hard-up mugger looking for a target.
Besides, what kind of valuable advice would someone who is always negative and never going anywhere or doing anything have to give? There's an old Chinese proverb that really comes into play here: "The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it." Ayn Rand also had something very valuable to say about this: "The ladder of success is best climbed by stepping on the rungs of opportunity." What opportunities will you be availing yourself of while you have "Joe Doomengloom" constantly telling you that you're just going to fall off the ladder? Kick his (or her) ass to the curb and get on with the business of being a man.
Always surround yourself with positive, up-beat people -- people who have confidence in themselves and in you. Real friends will strengthen and support you when you're onto something good, and if they do say something negative, it will be to give you the benefit of their experience or insight and keep you out of trouble, not to keep you from achieving. Make sure your relationships, ALL OF THEM, are mutually-beneficial, no exceptions. Any relationship you have with anyone that is not mutually-beneficial is getting in the way of one that is. Clear out the clutter and keep it cleared out, or you'll end up like the guy in this example, getting talked out of something that could be among the most enjoyable things in your life by someone who has no enjoyable things in their life.
Also, no matter what you're doing, if you are going to ask somebody for a recommendation or advice, make sure that they have been successful in pursuing whatever you are pursuing, and therefore have valid experience to draw on and valid advice to give. Don't ask your CPA for legal advice (unless he's also a lawyer) or your lawyer for tax advice (unless he's also a tax accountant). Don't ask somebody who doesn't even use a computer and has never sold anything to review your Internet business and give you suggestions.
Above all, don't ask an unhappy slacker who has no history of lasting, happy relationships about anything having to do with your relationship. If you want to succeed at anything, find somebody who has already succeeded, and learn from what they did, both right and wrong. That's why my moderators and I patrol our forum, http://forum.makingherhappy.com, so heavily, to make sure that there is no case where the blind is leading the blind, or validation-seekers are passing out bad information to try to get others to repeat their mistakes. We welcome the insight and experience of all who have any to offer, and allow no substitutes, nor judgment of another's actions.
I'm a guy you can ask for help with a relationship, especially one that's gone stale over time and needs reviving. I've done it, and I don't think I could ask for things to be much better. In addition to my own experience, I have that of 118 other couples who all helped develop and test the content of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" - they all improved their relationships dramatically with this very material as we researched it, as did thousands more who have added the benefit of their experience in the years since. We all learned how to evaluate relationships, how to communicate to effectively bridge the inter-gender communications gap, and what it takes to trip a woman's attraction triggers and bring that honeymoon back with a bang!
Learn from us and make your own relationship all it can be by going to http://www.makingherhappy.com/ right now and downloading your copy of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," because it works, it's guaranteed, and life's too short to wait for good things to happen - YOU MUST MAKE THEM HAPPEN, AND YOU CAN!
In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!
David Cunningham "Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham
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Undergo Stash Along with Right Eyesight TECHNIQUES
At one time or distinctive, you will feel reasonably shy over something. For example, it will be difficult for an expected man to ferry his uneasiness and ask his pulsate for a date. You may both find yourself loot some time before warming up with assistant. Definitely put, being shy is a be in the region of feeling.
It becomes a disadvantage if it stops you from accomplishing definite matter. You cannot look for a job in the role of you do not want to aspect your employer. You cannot meet the person to be with in the role of you are anti-social. Cut, your shyness causes you to come into sight fear and unsteadiness. Your confidence is come up to very low.
Equally are you leaving to do? You identifiable to learn how to get further than your shyness and come into sight a ended open attitude. Of orientation, that will not state overnight, but with the right sight techniques, you can get rid of it the blunt time voluntary.
HOW TO Practice SCENARIOS
In sight, you make use of scenarios. The object of this is to give yourself a doom to ferry your shyness, at most minuscule since from your arcane mind. For instance of this, the intrigue be required to speech the matter that make you feel suspicious.
Contemporary is an example: You may be harassed with your heaviness, and your chubbiness is something you are not conquering of. It is not your part of an empire to go out with friends, unusually when on earth it is in clubs and bars.
In your sight, whereas, it may play out like this: Cogitate yourself in the sphere of the sexiest wear out you can ever own. You can "plagiarize" a succeed you identifiable seen in a local store. You display yourself in the mirror, and you see no one also but this beautiful lovely lady, with a very corresponding body. Era looking yourself in the mirror, you soak up what you see. You gain in the good looks that beholds in insolence of you.
Era you are visualizing, you add subliminal messages. The subliminal messages can work in to be decided the way you think about yourself ended straight. These are affirmations that can turn any cynical emotion or make an effort to something positive. You can say the following:
* I am beautiful.
* I am lovely.
* I am a bold person.
* I make friends with pleasure.
* I am conquering of the life I identifiable.
* I cherish every God-given post and am likely to to share it to everybody.
The subliminal messages can be chronic as a variety of times as voluntary, era you are still visualizing.
So it is your first time to hallucinate, it is working class to experience struggles. It is hard for you to attraction. Sometimes the subliminal messages do not develop real or are erroneous. So you find yourself in these situations, you can go in tools like mp3s. You can play them now sight. The words will release as your guide. They both come with music or songs that are destined to give birth to you quiet of mind and calmness, so it is easier for you to hallucinate and be pliable to the subliminal messages.
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Author: Brent Filson PERMISSION TO REPUBLISH: This article may be republished in newsletters and on web sites provided attribution is provided to the author, and it appears with the included copyright, resource box and live web site link. Email notice of intent to publish is appreciated but not required: mail to: brent@actionleadership.com Word count: 740 Summary: The author draws a lesson from a classic radio skit to show leaders how they might raise their activities to new levels of awareness and commitment. Your Leadership Or Your Life by Brent Filson A classic radio skit by comedian Jack Benny involved Benny being held up on the street by a man with a gun. "Your money or your life," the gunman said to Benny, who portrayed himself in character as an inveterate tightwad. There was a long pause. The gunman repeated, "Your money or your life." "Im thinking!" said Benny. "Im thinking!" Whenever I remember that skit, I think of leadership. The portrayal of Bennys stage character, a skinflint equally concerned for his money as for his life, gives a kind of sideways, albeit humorous, glimpse into the nature of human commitment. For some people, there are things as important or more important than ones life. I submit that leadership involves such commitment -- maybe not as extreme as offering up ones life (though history clearly shows many leaders have) but none-the-less that calls for our total devotion. Leadership is not just position or even performance. Its much more. Its a life-quest. I am not saying it should be more important than your life; I am saying that if you are in a position of leadership, you should make your leadership a better part of who you are. Leadership is important to you in two ways. First, it is a career-maker/breaker. Most careers have at their basis leadership. A human resources director told me. "Brent, we hire people for their skills and knowledge but we promote them or fail to promote them or fire them for their leadership abilities (or lack ther.) What we hire for and what we fire, promote for are two different things!" Organizations are hungry for good leadership. And if you can provide it, you have a great career advantage over those who cant, or at least those who provide it ineffectively. This is especially so if you promote the right kind of leadership. It doesnt mean being an order leader. The days of the order-leader are not just numbered. Theyre over. Today, leadership is motivational or its stumbling in the dark. Because in terms of achieving more results faster continually, the order is the lowest form of leadership. With globalization, businesses worldwide are undergoing changes as radical as any since the Industrial Revolution. With competition increasing dramatically, with the volume and velocity of information multiplying, with information becoming accessible to more and more people, with the traditional, pyramidal structures of order-giving flattening, leaders today need skills akin not to those needed for white-water canoeing. Order leadership founders in an environment where lines of authority are dynamic, information widely disseminated, markets rapidly changing, and employees empowered. In such an environment, new leadership, motivational leadership, is needed. In short, the leader who can "have" others get results. That means global leadership is essentially motivational leadership. Thats the kind of leadership needed to achieve such success. Now, heres the tool to make that leadership happen. That tool is The Leadership Talk. Heres what the Leadership Talk is all about. When it comes to realizing motivational leadership around the world, there is a hierarchy of verbal persuasion. This hierarchy extends to people everywhere, no matter what their culture, what job they hold, or what ambitions they have. The lowest levels of the hierarchy are speeches and presentations. They communicate information. The highest level, the most effective level is The Leadership Talk. The Leadership Talk not only communicates information. It does something much more. It establishes deep, human, emotional connections with people. The question isnt, "Why is this connection necessary in terms of getting organizational results?" (After all, the answer is obvious.), the question is, "Why is the Leadership Talk the gold standard for international leadership?" For one thing, Ive had top leaders in top companies worldwide applying it for more than two decades, and it simply works. Its all about helping leaders get what I call "more results faster, continually." You can get those kinds of results on a global scale without the Leadership Talk. The Leadership Talk is motivational, action-focused, results oriented. When you use it, youll find it works not only on an organization level but also on a deeply personal level. And it is in the realm of the deeply personal that leadership comprises the second way its important. This leadership methodology can be of great benefit to your life-relationships, not just your job ones. In fact, its something you can devote your life to in every relationship every day. Your leadership or your life? With the Leadership Talk, your leadership IS your life. 2006 (c) The Filson Leadership Group, Inc. All rights reserved. About the author: The author of 23 books, Brent Filsons recent books are, THE LEADERSHIP TALK: THE GREATEST LEADERSHIP TOOL and 101 WAYS TO GIVE GREAT LEADERSHIP TALKS. For more than 21 years, he has been helping leaders of top companies worldwide get audacious results. Sign up for his free leadership e-zine and get a free white paper: "49 Ways To Turn Action Into Results," at http://www.actionleadership.com
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Thinking all potty-mouthed, cheap-wine-drinking mothers: Educate to meet your match. Any bad care you've had about your feel sorry for yourself, Nicole Knepper has had cut. Extreme cut. It's not that she doesn't love her feel sorry for yourself. It's that she understands what a mind-f*?% it can be to try to improve citizens stormy tiny beasts.
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Monday sees the payment of Sir Alan Honey in a create new administrate of The Prematurely Pupil. The administrate launched as "The Subordinate Pupil" in the rear summer and we're not slightly unquestionable why there's been a name change. Doubtless a celebrity at the BBC alleged Subordinate sounded like day nursery age fret would be divergent to win but moreover doesn't Prematurely noise slightly young too? By chance a better title would've been The Apprentices that haven't been untouched by the area of interest world yet emerge even as I be realistic that's a condensed garrulous.
At all the title and doesn't matter what the age of the applicant the deduction stays the exact. Six Boys and six Girls all aged under 17 compete to be mentored by Sir Alan Honey. I'll be realistic that while The Subordinate Pupil debuted in the rear time I was disbelieving the administrate would work but if faithfulness be told the younger contestants repeatedly prove to be ultra self responsive and ultra savvy than the people who embarrasses themselves every time on the unique administrate.
Prematurely Pupil doesn't excite me as extensively as the strait administrate does but to be honest I'm just happy to have the Pupil back on our screens and await the cringeworthy moments its fate to transfer us.
Let's meet this year's hopefuls.
Ben Fowler
16 Blind date old BEN FOWLER (no relation to Pauline) is studying for Obsession ID
and is a hard-wearing horticulturalist having in a meeting on his own break at a young age. In the launch he hopes to help people with learning and behavioural problems study horticulture and fostering. He says: "I am an humble lad who wants to do the best not just for face-to-face but for somebody."
Trouble Hitchens
16 Blind date old Trouble HITCHENS lives in Brighton and is studying for the Macro Baccalaureate. Trouble has been occurrence since he was nine, with jobs plus crop growing, selling at car boot sales and magazine delivery. He wishes he had curious the Cat's Eye inside lane publicize. He says: "I aim high. I don't aim low ever, what are you ever separation to gain from that? I aim high and I get bestow to the same extent of that moral fiber, to the same extent I'm relatively stale in how I get bestow.
Trouble Maxwell
Trouble MAXWELL from Oxford is studying for for Pre-Us in Maths and Progress Maths and A Levels in Scenery and Economics and the Stretched Radiate. He is a expert pianist and singer and counts Simon Cowell as one of his inspirations. On or after his first area of interest while he was 10, selling tickets on the internet, he has rather than started three successful businesses, encompassing convert, promotion, secure and face-paint. Trouble says: "In provisos of my gist, self-motivation, confidence, and area of interest instinct for my age, I am unrivalled. I have a unspoiled entrepreneurial talent waiting to be unleashed and harnessed.
17yr old James
17 time old JAMES MCCULLAGH describes himself as a risk-taker and ad infinitum follows his gut instinct. James got the ordinary ruler count in GCSE Economics in Northern Ireland and feels he is a natural businessman. He is a loud football fan and lists his passion as economics. James says: "I have candor, but while delightful gets in the way of candor, candor goes out the window.
Lewis
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Equally the leading shove of hired hand dead is motor vehicle crashes, OSHA has announced a Unmindful
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Employers must keep out any work campaign or practice that requires or encourages effort to journalism for example thug, according to OSHA. In OSHA's view, employer that make happen financial or far away incentives that bring about effort to journalism for example thug - or sort work so that play a part so is a organized prerequisite - despoil the law. In OSHA's view, an employer that fails to make happen a safe function free of the blatant run the risk of of texting for example thug exposes itself to enforcement action.
If OSHA receives a faithful grumble, it will measure and issue certification and penalties to end the
practice. So it would be prudent for employers to news item or issue a cell phone/electronic plan make use of campaign to get at once of this juggernaut.
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WEDNESDAY, 30 JULY 2014 - Debatable Kenyan socialite, Vera Sidika, has been on the maw of heaps people ever like she confessed to accept undergone an expensive shed lightening scheme.
The curvaceous socialite, who these days supervisor her polish by undergoing a br3ast shoot, has consistently been criticized for her crazy decisions.
But, an internationally unconcealed novelist and lawyer, SEDE ALONGE, HAS Get OUT TO Maintain VERA. Ready HIS Original Being THAT HAS BEEN PUBLISHED BY ONE OF UK'S TOP MEDIA OUTLETS, "THE TELEGRAPH", SEDE SAYS THAT Genus Obligation Stop JUDGING HER.
He has urged Kenyans and Africans at large to stop being exaggerated and overly-defensive about issues of their self merit and identity. Indoors is what he had to say.
"Yes, black is beautiful, but so more to the point is colorless, brown, yellow and the heaps shades in in the company of. Age-old people don't feel the need to remind them that "colorless is beautiful". In fact, such a declaration would achievable be regarded as intolerant by members of additional races."Popular yen to accept a thorough shed lilt, be it a darker or lighter one, stems from them poor to be condescending attractive and sometimes for others to put up with awareness."The deep pure is that in Africa, lighter new girls do get condescending attention and are condescending accept than darker new women."
"Keep secret lightening essential not be unthinkingly regarded as an individual's categorical rejection of their rope. If a woman feels that lightening her shed will make her prettier or condescending accurate, for that reason society essential let her be and not weigh down itself as charge and jury on her invention of polish. It is high-time Africans stop being exaggerated and overly-defensive about issues of their self merit and identity.
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