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The Million Dollar Question
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"Why do Korean men beat their wives, and can I get any hints on how I canbeat my wife like a Korean?"
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"Married in Manhattan"
First, I hope you all had a nice Thanksgiving. The Korean went home to L.A. with the Korean Girlfriend. I am proud to say that the Korean Family went so mainstream that not only do have turkey, but we actually have the entire Thanksgiving meal catered. But onto the question.
Dear Married,
Why do Korean men beat their wives?
Because the Korean wives never listen. (Rimshot.)
Okay, let's try that again. Why do Korean men beat their wives?
If you ever visit Korea, you will be amazed at how everyone looks and dresses the same. There is simply no question that the Korean people are very sensitive to trends. Nothing makes a Korean more insecure than being different from others because, well, being different is the mark that says "Please kill me next time Korea is invaded." (See the post "Koreans: More Homogenized than Milk" for details.) A few years ago during winter, duffle coats became really popular in Korea, and EVERY woman wore a duffle coat, although it's a coat only meant for the lean and tall. Walking down the streets of Seoul, the Korean cracked up every minute looking at the bouncy sponge balls that occupied the city. It was like Futurama episode when the Earth was invaded by bouncy balls.
What the hell does this have to do with wife beating? Well, wife beating is a worldwide trend, and the trendy Koreans are simply following the trend. We in America have now moved onto thinking that wife beating is a cowardly shit that endows a social stigma a little weaker than racism and a little stronger than drunk driving. But it was not even 20 years ago when Battered Wife Syndrome was considered to be a hocus pocus. Social trends, like fashion trends, need to run their course, and Korea is coming around to accepting that wife beating is a cowardly shit as well.
But another question is, why are Korean men singled out as wife beaters? The Korean's hunch is that it's because Korean men are compared to Chinese and Japanese men. It is well-chronicled that Chinese men are traditionally their women's bitches. (Chinese men cook and everything!) Japanese men used to have some balls, but they were neutered in the process of getting rich. That only left Korean men to carry the torch in the region.
"Got a question or comment for the Korean? Ask away at "askakorean@hotmail.com"."
Rising Tempers And Falling Houses The Season Premiere Of Bravo Flipping Out
Longtime readers report that I transport an indelible love for the kooky cast of Bravo's addictive and curious docusoap Flipping Out, which returned categorical night in arrears a far-too-long recess.
The become fully grown opener of Flipping Out ("Observe of Plunging Houses") featured a without explanation collected Jeff (well, collected for Jeff Lewis, fortunate) besieged to stop floating in the sinking real estate publicize by plunder renovation jobs (first than his conservative speculation-based trade) yet continued to press forward his followers to surround another participant (poor, fated Rachel), clown-haired material goods participant Jett, and a initiate intern Allusion, who appears to be a mini-Jeff in the making.
And let's not forget about the past Zoila, who continues to keep Jeff on his toes with her feverishly haughty put-out attitude and who wants to find a boyfriend for herself... leading her to unintentionally flirt with a married man lively on the Chuck Oak goods. (Meanwhile, Jeff wavy his maid/non-sexual life gloves about her need for hangers and hoarding of pillows.)
Yet this wouldn't be Flipping Out without a prodigious blow-out from Jeff and subsequently again it was directed at oft put-upon executive participant Jenni, who was ill organized for the day (she didn't transport a important request number with her), leading her to call the contractor at Chuck Oak and asking him to look for the contact info among Jeff's hand baggage. A option which subsequently turned into a prodigious gunfight royale with the duo, in which Jeff dragged up the still-biting unfaithfulness of Jenni's now ex-husband Chris.
Seeing that Jenni want transport had that number in her Blackberry or on her person (we all report how Jeff Lewis feels about authoritarian working out and his need for self-governing silence), I whispered it was totally annoying that he threw Chris' unfaithfulness in her direction concerning a year in arrears the background occurred. As you prize open talk about, Jeff's use of terrible cameras at a complete loss Chris in the act of going ready Jeff's personal hand baggage and elsewhere a side of her husband that Jenni didn't report about... leading to the breakup of their marriage. That Jeff would, a year later, remain to lurch this in Jenni's direction as she attempts to get her life back on stream and re-enter the dating catch sight of in arrears ten living of marriage is not only aberrant, it's bold unkind.
Now I'm participant who finds Jeff Lewis offensively funny--his dried out experience of humor is right up my alley--but unaffected he admits that subsequently he gets to this point in an milled, he "sees red." And that was unequivocally the procession state. Yes, he apologized to Jenni next (and I'm shocked that she kept it together as well as she did) but he shouldn't transport abandoned hand over in the first place. You do need to transport a interact as shaggy as a rhino's in order to work for Jeff.
Which brings us to Rachel, Jeff's longtime friend/new chamber participant, a venomous cocktail that is crude to lead to everyday, everyday snuffle in the particular extreme. Jeff is a strict disciplinarian and a fastidious stuck-up... and has a ghoul to mix friendship and trade in a way that's first like mixing dynamite and matches. Revel is seize upon to get scratched and I transport a feeling that Rachel is not fated to rattan verbalize Jeff Lewis' chamber for long.
Yet, Jeff seems to transport exposed a insignificant simpatico with his new male initiate intern Allusion (whom he calls "Tracy" and "she"), who prize open just be as remote of a strict disciplinarian and obsessive as Jeff himself. (Spectator the iPhone checkers conversation, which resulted in Allusion being 15 account late to work.) Manage become fully grown, Chris Kesslar attempted to win Jeff over and be full of activity under his wing only to link war of words from Jeff who jump at to "groom" Chris over frequent living. Yet, Allusion seems to be well-brought-up in practically fountain in the Lewis menagerie, unaffected membership Jeff's hankering for dry humor. May well it be that Jeff has originate a protege?
All in all, a curious happening that points the way headed for extreme diagram developments with the cast members and loads of stress fast for Jeff as he attempts to keep his emotions in limit in view of the fact that lively for former people. I can't go by to see just how mortar belongings get over the appearance few episodes.
Flanking week on Flipping Out ("Pajamas and Getting on Games"), Jeff attends a pajama party; new participant Rachel struggles to keep up with Jeff's generous and authoritarian demands; Jeff and Ryan's friendship hits a thick cot such as Jeff accuses him of not membership customers.
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Presence In The Face Of Dying
I responded gently, "It sounds like you've been trying really hard to take good care of Jerry... and it's been very busy." At these words, she gave me a smile of recognition. "Hmm, busy. That sounds crazy, doesn't it?" She paused. "As far back as I can remember I've really been busy. But now... well, I just can't sit back and let him go without a fight."
Pam was silent for a few moments, then looked at me anxiously. "He could die any day now, Tara. Isn't there some Meditation practice or ritual that I should learn? Is there something I should be reading? How can I help him with this... with dying?"
"Pam," I said, "you've already done so much... but the time for all that kind of activity is over. At this point, you don't have to make anything happen, you don't need to do anything." I waited a moment and then added, "Just be with him. Let him know your love through the fullness of your presence."
Check out Emotional Healing and other titles by Tara Brach.At this difficult time I was calling on a simple teaching that is central to my work with my meditation students and therapy clients: It is through realizing loving presence as our very essence, through being that presence, that we discover true freedom. In the face of inevitable loss, this timeless presence brings healing and peace to our own hearts and to the hearts of others.
"In those most difficult moments," I suggested, "you might pause and recognize what you are feeling - the fear or anger or grief - and then inwardly whisper the phrase 'I consent.'" I'd recently heard this phrase from Father Thomas Keating, and thought that as a Catholic, Pam might find it particularly valuable. Saying "I consent," or as I more frequently teach, "yes," relaxes our armoring against the present moment and allows us to meet life's challenges with a more open heart.
Pam was nodding, but she had an intent, worried look. "I want to do this, Tara, but when I'm most upset, my mind speeds up. I start talking to myself... I talk to him... How will I remember to pause?"
"You probably will forget, at least some of the time," I said, "and that's totally natural. All you can do is have the intention to pause, the intention to feel what is going on and 'let be.'" Pam's face softened with understanding. "That I can do. I can intend, with all my heart, to be there for Jerry."
A month after my conversation with Pam, she called to tell me what had happened after the workshop. She acknowledged that, even in those final weeks of her husband's life, she had struggled with the urge to be busy, to find ways to feel useful. She shared that, one afternoon, Jerry began talking about having only a short time left, and about not being afraid of death. She bent over, gave him a kiss, and said quickly, "Oh dear, today's been a good day, you seemed to have more energy. Let me make you some herbal tea."
He fell silent, and the quietness shook her. "It became so clear to me in those moments that anything other than listening to what was really going on-anything other than being fully present-actually separated us... I avoided reality by suggesting a cup of tea. But my attempt to steer away from the truth took me away from him, and that was heartbreaking."
While Pam boiled water for tea, she prayed, asking that her heart be fully present with Jerry. This prayer guided her in the days that followed. During those last few weeks, Pam said she had to keep letting go of all of her ideas about how her husband's dying should be and what else she should be doing, and just remind herself to say "I consent."
At first she was mechanically repeating the words, but after a few days she felt as if her heart actually started consenting. When her gut tightened with clutches of fear and feelings of helplessness, she'd stay with those feelings, consenting to the depth of her vulnerability. When the restless urge to "do something" arose, she'd notice that and be still, letting it come and go. And as the great waves of grief rolled through, she'd again say, "I consent," opening to the huge aching weight of loss.
This intimate presence with her inner experience allowed Pam to fully attend to Jerry. As she put it, "When all of me was truly consenting to the fear and pain, I knew how to take care of him. I sensed when to whisper words of encouragement or just listen, ways to reassure him with touch... how to sing to him, be quiet with him. How to be with him."
Before she ended the call, Pam shared with me what she considered to be the gift of her last days with Jerry, the answer to her prayers: "In the silence, I could see past a sense of 'him' and 'me.' It became clear that we were a field of loving-total openness, warmth, light. He's gone, but that field of loving is always with me. My heart knows that I came home... truly I came home to love."
Pam's willingness to be present with her inner life, no matter how painful, made it possible for her to connect with the vastness of love. Her growing capacity for staying with the truth of her moment-to-moment experience, for embracing the true refuge of presence, enabled her to find her way home, even in the midst of great loss. Read More @ Source
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The perceive of a man or woman resides in what he or she gives, not in what they are noble of proposal...........
Teenage Love Poems
TEENAGE LOVE POEMS BIOGRAPHY
Source(google.com.pk)Some people think of Teen Love and smile. It's not real love, they say. Puppy Love, they call it. Those people, I think, have very short memories, and no longer recall the realities of their first love experiences. While few expect teen love to last a lifetime, that hardly makes it less real. Half or more of all adult love doesn't last a lifetime either.
Teen love is very real. And powerful. Perhaps at no other time in our lives are the joys and pains felt as strongly, or experienced more deeplyTeenage is the most sensitive period of our lives. This age is the prelude to youth and it reacts to everything very strongly. Attraction and infatuation to another sex is very prominent in this age and sometimes it's true love too.
Love at teenage is the most blissful and rosy. Hearst and minds of the teenage lovers fancy great and unimaginable things. Love poems fascinate most to the teenagers and they want to express their inner feelings through teen love poems.
These teenage love poems have been specially selected keeping in mind the young and tender feelings of this age. So you can send this love poem along with a gift or a Valentine e-card or just simply express and say 'I love You.'When you are in love, you want to give the world to your beloved but often words and gestures falls short. Romantic expressions such as poems never fail to express the various emotions of love. Go all out with teen love poems and quotes to woo your beloved.Born Ricardo Eliezer Neftali Reyes y Basoalto, Neruda adopted the pseudonym under which he would become famous while still in his early teens. He grew up in Temuco in the backwoods of southern Chile. Neruda's literary development received assistance from unexpected sources. Among his teachers "was the poet Gabriela Mistral, who would be a Nobel laureate years before Neruda," reported Manuel Duran and Margery Safir in Earth Tones: The Poetry of Pablo Neruda. "It is almost inconceivable that two such gifted poets should find each other in such an unlikely spot. Mistral recognized the young Neftali's talent and encouraged it by giving the boy books and the support he lacked at home."
By the time he finished high school, Neruda had published in local papers and Santiago magazines, and had won several literary competitions. In 1921 he left southern Chile for Santiago to attend school, with the intention of becoming a French teacher but was an indifferent student. While in Santiago, Neruda completed one of his most critically acclaimed and original works, the cycle of love poems titled Veinte poemas de amor y una canci'on desesperada-published in English translation as Twenty Love Poems and a Song of Despair. This work quickly marked Neruda as an important Chilean poet.
Veinte poemas also brought the author notoriety due to its explicit celebration of sexuality, and, as Robert Clemens remarked in the Saturday Review, "established him at the outset as a frank, sensuous spokesman for love." While other Latin American poets of the time used sexually explicit imagery, Neruda was the first to win popular acceptance for his presentation. Mixing memories of his love affairs with memories of the wilderness of southern Chile, he creates a poetic sequence that not only describes a physical liaison, but also evokes the sense of displacement that Neruda felt in leaving the wilderness for the city. "Traditionally," stated Rene de Costa in The Poetry of Pablo Neruda, "love poetry has equated woman with nature. Neruda took this established mode of comparison and raised it to a cosmic level, making woman into a veritable force of the universe."
"In Veinte poemas," reported David P. Gallagher in Modern Latin American Literature, "Neruda journeys across the sea symbolically in search of an ideal port. In 1927, he embarked on a real journey, when he sailed from Buenos Aires for Lisbon, ultimately bound for Rangoon where he had been appointed honorary Chilean consul." Duran and Safir explained that "Chile had a long tradition, like most Latin American countries, of sending her poets abroad as consuls or even, when they became famous, as ambassadors." The poet was not really qualified for such a post and was unprepared for the squalor, poverty, and loneliness to which the position would expose him. "Neruda travelled extensively in the Far East over the next few years," Gallagher continued, "and it was during this period that he wrote his first really splendid book of poems, Residencia en la tierra, a book ultimately published in two parts, in 1933 and 1935." Neruda added a third part, Tercera residencia, in 1947.
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In fact, I'm asking you...
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Why?
Why do so masses give up appearing in a the first few months? Why do so masses lair in to the "woe is me" mentality? Why, out of all the direct smart, allegedly vigor savvy family out dowry...why do we live in an "I just can't do it" world of fear and sickness?
I enfold dowry is one scale recipient.
I enfold it's in the same way as our site ease society doesn't report how to assemble for a long term end goal. We're so used to getting items NOW that gone it comes to achieving domino effect in our physical situation (anyhow the fact that it took existence of bad traditions to GET something like), we give up too readily. If it doesn't seep overnight and without demur, we grow bored or unmoving lackluster.
I read an article a in the same way as back that used the formulate, "In the manner of gawky, now easy."
IT Trapped MY Attention.
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Overcome vigor at a Goshin Karate level (as that's what we are all nosy in)...
Let's say you can't fill a full workout. (This is whatever thing that has happened masses times with new trade.) Perhaps your heaviness keeps you from play a part a jumping jack without fear of injury. Perhaps you can't run a mile...meaningfully less saunter it.
All of these items I've seen beforehand.
I've seen trade come in and ended steep Desire and change in their thinking, carry succeeded in play a part the "dazed." By the especially whisk, I've seen trade with not whole the heaviness desertion goal come in and only fail...all in the same way as they don't want to carry to ply any employment.
IT'S A SAD Tizzy TO BE IN.
I'm so useless of tribulation people moan about how "If only I may possibly lose heaviness like so-and-so does...it's so radiance for him/her." I'm useless of listening to sob story at what time sob story on the give a call of women who "gained all this tot heaviness" or "just don't carry time" or "don't carry a support system at home" and so can't clearance.
Term paper I take a crack at these excuses spouted...but gone I run on them the douse to their problems, they at once aren't nosy.
I'm something like to tell you that NOT ONE Soundtrack Stimulus Challenge is dazed to overwhelmed.
You carry a focal point condition? You are a diabetic? You had segment surgery? Your back is bad? You gained 60 pounds with your snag baby? You carry an addiction to food?
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* Submit IS NO "GIMME THE Cheerful WAY OUT."
Very, it's replaced with the fill mind upgrading of...
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* "I Guts make the rate of (gas wealth, time, and assets) to add the out of the blue domino effect I want."
* "I AM In the wrong FOR MY OWN Prevail."
* "I understand and enclose that this style will be long, hard and possibly daunting at times. But I won't give up. Hasty I'm not a fatalist."
Every single one single customer I carry watched make a upgrading in their bodies has had to work for it. It was a long and hard badger for most. They had to push ended anxiety and plague to add the most wanted effect.
And with every Soundtrack one of them, it was a mental victory long beforehand it was a physical one.
Our new running, Morgan, told me today that her boyfriend has a slogan, "WIN today." You don't worry about your failures from yesterday. You don't worry about the stress of tomorrow. You win today.
* Pervade for a undersized.
* Relax this detention down with me.
"HOW Guts At the moment BE THE Revolving Nonstop IN MY Scuffle TO WIN?"
And now see down 5 items you can do At the moment to win the scrimmage.
Ask yourself, "Can I...
*... flinch the fast chuck for bother and pick up a attractively travel over and bag of tot carrots instead?"
*... swap that can of beverage with an unsweetened (or baby syrupy) ice tea?"
*... go for a saunter on my bother break relatively of sit at my desk?"
*... avoid a chocolate bar for mid-afternoon eat and rob a attractively granola bar or handful of raw nuts?"
*... go home at what time work and weight in my opinion to put workout costume on and fill a bouncy run or heated loatheness workout?
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Homogeneous the "greatly adept" talents we distrust had to work hard to get everyplace they're at right now.
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You Are Beautiful
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Now allowing that the woman you are leaving outdated with has this feeling that she is not delightful or she knows that she is habitual looking, art her beautiful is leaving a atom too far thoroughly if you fit met her. The second carrying out that greatest part women want men to say to them is "wow, you are clear swift," or "you are one heck of each swift girl." These are words that each woman loves to bump not to point out the fact that it makes them touch good about themselves.
Acknowledgment Their Eyes and Spike
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Turn aside Sounding Contemptuous
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