I have trained quite a number of coaches in my lifetime. In many cases, these people are enthusiastic, passionate, and always willing to step forward to help people. In my line of work, it also is imperative for me to know that there is help out there for anyone who seeks.
However, many people still don't know the existence of coaching. Hence, allow me to make a proposition. In order for you to understand coaching effectively, you first need to understand what a coach does.
Firstly, coaches are your answer to a gap in knowledge. If you really want to get an answer quickly, do you really think that going to Google is going to help you? Of course, if you can sift through dozens of pages quickly, it is likely you will eventually find your answer. Yet, it is probably more difficult to collate and integrate all the information you find than finding someone who is already well versed in what they do. They, would probably be able to give you the answer in half an hour of solid coaching than you could in three days of browsing.
If you ever wanted to accomplish more with your life, sure, you can go to the national library and do your whole bunch of research, and end up with the answer probably about three months down the road. On the other hand, within those three months, I personally utilized coaches and mentors to climb up to the upper echelons of various different areas of expertise. These include the one that I tend to be more famous for, Internet marketing. While I didn't have products to sell, it was so simple for me to acquire the knowledge and use it because I was interviewing well over 60 different experts in Internet marketing at the time when there was no one who could provide all this at one go. This enabled by book "The Secrets of Internet Millionaires" to rise to the top 10 on the Straits Times Bestseller's List for a few weeks. Not bad for someone who was in the industry for a couple of years.
Coaches are your answer to instant skills. At the same time, you may also realized that coaches who do have subject area expertise could probably give you advice as to what kinds of mistakes to avoid. This is imperative. If you know that there are mistakes to avoid, your journey would be more cost efficient. Now, I don't know whether you want to spend an hour, and pay a 200 bill for a coach, or waste several months, possibly a few tens of thousands of dollars, just to learn that you have to avoid this particular mistake. Now granted, I am quite sure that if you did it the latter way, it is likely that you would appreciate your lesson much more. But I learned a long time ago that you don't have to discover that you might die tomorrow to appreciate what you have today! That will be just plain stupid.
One more area where coaches typically add to your repertoire of personal development is their ability to speed up thinking. Think about it: all of your life you might have been driving down one road, even though you might be no expert in driving. You happen to know all the shortcuts along that road, and if there happen to be any jams or accidents along the way, it's easy for you to get out of that fix isn't it? Now, imagine that your coach is just like this expert. Any time you get into a jam, this expert wouldn't have to walk down the same path way just to tell you what to do. He knows exactly what to do. That's the beauty of a coach. You have the opportunity to tap into his speed of decision-making.
Now, consider that you are running a business. A decent business coach, will be able to provide you with direction, focus, skill, and effective decisions. It's almost like having a more mature business owner work for you, except that, well, he doesn't. In doing so, you not only are able to create greater value add, you also stop wasting time. And you and I both know that we only have 24 hours of that everyday.
So, consider you are now in the life transition. Perhaps someone in your life treated you badly, or you have just lost a loved one. It's very common to encounter dilemma and inertia at this point of time. a coach would be most suitable for you at this point of time because it can get you on your feet. One more thing, you might need someone to provide you with new perspective so that you can get your own motivation to kick in. This is the reason why I train Certified Motivational Coaches. these are people who understand the psychology of motivation. They also know how to remove motivational barriers to enable anyone to move forward in an effective way in their lives. As an illustration, I happen to know one of my coaches who was able to speak with someone he knew effectively enough such that he changed his old approach to communicating and develop a stronger relationship with his family. This is a life coaching application. Anyone who is well-versed in my methodology for coaching would be able to do this at least at a rudimentary and still helpful level.
So we have it: instant skills, avoidance of problems, and speed of decision-making. All this, on a silver platter, if you know how to leverage a well-trained coach.if you are seeking some coaches for help, you might want to drop me a note and I can refer you to the appropriate people. In addition, if you have never encountered coaching therefore, you can also contact me so that I can link you up with coaches who are offering a trial session for coaching so that you can understand how powerful coaching can be.
If you have yourself contemplated being a coach, you can head down to this link to find out more during my CMC introductory sessions.
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My Favorite Leadership Tweets From 2012
Influential leaders chronicle the power of asking questions.
Demand with your core, not just your prime.
Investigate to let go of fear and footing the unseen.
Dynasty are by a long way haughty amazed by your nation-state than by your wrap dossier.
Adept leaders use the power of stories whenever they grasp resulting messages to tell on.
To be effective, leaders grasp to close the conversational gap with their workforce.
One of the tests of leadership is the ability to reverence a problem sooner than it becomes an mean -- Arnold Glasow
Managers exhibit outing and outspoken to get things done; leaders impede to secure new ways of being and achieving -- Kevin Cashman
It doesn't matter where you're coming from. All that matters is where you are departure to -- Stephen Covey
Influential works are performed not by strength, but by perseverance -- Samuel Johnson
Inflexibility doesn't come from what we can do. It comes from overcoming what we what time notice we couldn't -- Rikki Roberts
The art of progress is to save up order among change and to save up change among order -- Alfred North Catch a glimpse of
The upper limit relentlessly predetermined people builders are extol and cheer on -- Brian Tracy
Few things help an assured haughty than to place obligation upon them and to let them chronicle that and trust them -- Booker T. Washington
Ask for example you want to chronicle. Chill out for example you want to grow -- Location Scharenbroich
If you want killing, hail only success. If you want invention, hail quad, and be present frivolous about success -- Marcus Buckingham
To get the best coaching outcomes, eternally grasp your 1-on-1's on your employee's ground not yours. In your chest of drawers the truthfulness hides -- Marcus Buckingham
The three extensive kind of best companies -- they care, they grasp fun, they grasp high performance outlook -- Brad Hams
The one promontory that's extensive to all successful people: They make a manipulate of work things that hopeless people don't like to do -- Michael Phelps
It is stunning what you can show if you do not care who gets the appreciation -- Irritate S. Truman
The leader of the outside was a person who knew how to tell. The leader of the premeditated will be a person who knows how to ask -- Peter Drucker
Leadership: The art of getting gather exceedingly to do whatever thing you want concluded for example he wants to do it -- Dwight D. Eisenhower
Good leadership isn't about advancing yourself. It's about advancing your gang -- John C. Maxell
Dynasty buy into the leader, after that the illusion -- John C. Maxell
Influential leaders grasp shingle, outcome and patience -- Act McBean
The same as QUOTES DID YOU SEE ON Shake THAT YOU WOULD ADD TO THIS LIST?
Attracting Women In The Work Place
So many guys spend so much of their lives working in the office, and they miss countless opportunities in attracting women they like who they see up to a whole 9 hours a day!
Why?
Simple, men believe that it is some what of a taboo to go for a woman whom they wok with, for many reasons, such as:
- If she rejects him, then he will have to face the inevitable uncomfortable silences and awkward situations that will happen as a result.
- People simply do not get involved with people they have to maintain a professional relationship with
- The lack of knowledge/skills and techniques that you need in order to actually make a move on a woman you are working with
This are the most common reasons that men use to avoid actually going for the woman they desire who they happen to be working with.
There is really no useful advice out there in helping men in this situation.
In this video Mark J touches on the this subject.
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What Are Our Children Seeing And Hearing
Increasingly, there are many days when the light is cast on another example of what our CHILDREN are seeing as they watch us day-to-day
each time setting the example for them as adults. It makes me shudder. How about you? Have you noticed? Has it always been this way? Am I just waking up to the gross reality of our sometimes shameful behavior?I've never seen myself as a moralist
hardly
but Ralph Waldo Emerson's words seem more real and relevant than ever before..."What you DO speaks so loud I cannot hear what you say."
Unfortunately, many of the wonderful leadership examples are more often than not over-shadowed by the dramatic ones the media picks up and plays over and over.
I guess what has made me most sad recently is the state of our politics. When we have such serious problems to solve
and President Obama appears to earnestly be working to solve them
the daily parade of partisan attacks that holds up progress and solutions is disheartening, don't you think? I find it almost embarrassing to watch our politicians lie and cheat and mislead, and tell half-truths and refuse to show up and talk and talk and talk.
As woman leader, this week it hit me hard to watch Sarah Palin so joyfully mock the President of the United States, while standing on a world stage, especially in such a personal way. In the days that followed it played over and over again. These questions have been echoing in my mind...
What message does this give to her children and our children about RESPECTING others?
What message plays across the world about how we respect our President in the U.S.?
What message does it leave about EXCELLENCE that Ms.Palin seemed to so casually mock...while other adults cheered and jeered?
What message does it leave about the character of women leaders when it is so unnecessary to be so mean-spirited in one's rhetoric about anyone, especially for personal gain?
Shouldn't we be expecting more from our leaders at all levels and the examples they demontrate day-to-day for our kids and those looking to them for leadership?
In my leadership training at IBM at a very young age, I was taught two things about EXCELLENCE that have stayed with me: EXCELLENCE speaks for itself. It is not necessary to disparage others if EXCELLENCE is your mark of distinction. It was a business conduct practice.
WHAT CAN WE DO?In my book, Putting Our Differences to Work: The Fastest Way to Innovation, Leadership, and High Performance, I introduce Five Distinctive Qualities of Leadership. Two of them seem perfect to heal this current reality if we all applied them to our lives and work:
4 Hold personal responsibility as a core value.This quality acknowledges the shift from "institutional loyalty" of the past to the reality of being "free agents," or perhaps other more fluid, mobile kinds of arrangements we've not yet imagined in the marketplaces, workplaces, and communities that are in a continual state of churn. What is added to our way of operating as individuals is the essential quality that Nelson Mandela affirmed, "With freedom comes responsibility." It is a sense of personal responsibility that needs to be part of our portable portfolio that goes with us when we move from one job to another, to a new company or within an organization, out in the community or in some new region of the world. Putting our differences to work is greatly enhanced when personal responsibility is a common thread woven tightly into everyone's fabric. The focus here is what is right to do.
5 Establish mutualism as the final arbiter for all actions.This quality builds upon the definition of mutualism: a doctrine that mutual dependence is necessary for social well-being. It is also essential for organizational well-being. This quality applies this concept to all aspects of work and life in all types of organizations, institutions and entities. It creates a new definition of success that has a clear "yardstick" that serves as the final arbiter of all plans, innovations, decisions, products, services, programs, profit-making, et al: Everyone benefits and no one is harmed.In other words, it creates win, win, win - I win, you win, we all win. Building the future on a foundation of mutualism changes everything we do. It asks more of us, but the benefits are significant. It demands that we consciously make a routine practice of first evaluating our actions, behavior, decisions, thinking, and new ideas with a thoughtful inspection of the implications and benefits to all concerned. It adds a new element of consideration to every strategic plan or action.
What would you suggest?
Would love to hear from you...
Debbe
Debbe Kennedyfounder, president, and CEOGlobal Dialogue Center and Leadership Solutions Companies
Twitter: @debbekennedy @onlinedialogues
author, Putting Our Differences to Work:The Fastest Way to Innovation, Leadership, and High Performance
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FUNNY ENGLISH
Today's Texting Abbreviation Quiz:
WHAT DOES "P2P" MEAN?
Peer to peer
WHAT DOES "DPS" MEAN?
Damage per second (online gaming)
WHAT DOES "BBS" MEAN?
Be back soon
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Today's Riddle:
Not Big:
If a man carried my burden he would break his back.
I am not big but leave silver in my tracks.
What am I?
A snail.
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Did They Say It?
~ Did JESSICA SIMPSON actually say "I'm not anorexic. I'm from Texas. Are there people from Texas that are anorexic? I've never heard of one. And that includes me." Yes.
~ Did ANGELINA JOLIE actually say "Brad and I want to continue to adopt, but keeping a big family uses up a lot of money." Yes.
Today's InnocentEnglish Classics:
Funny Mistakes by New English Students:
~ How is your sprinkled ankle? Once I sprinkled my toe, but I put some cream on it so now I can't feel it anymore.
~ My lips are getting dried. I need some good lip bombs.
~ I probably should have gone to the doctor one ear ago.
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FUNNY JOKES, QUOTES AND LINES
Today's Funny Sayings
~ If You Can Read This, Please Flip Me Back Over... (Seen Upside Down On A Jeep)
~ Rehab is for quitters.
Today's Stupid Questions:
~ Does a man-eating shark eat women, too?
~ Can fat people go skinny-dipping?
Today's Stand Up Comedy Quote:
~ Life, to me, is like a quiet forest pool, one that needs a direct hit from a big rock half-buried in the ground. You pull and you pull, but you can't get the rock out of the ground. So you give it a good kick, but you lose your balance and go skidding down the hill toward the pool. Then out comes a big Hawaiian man who was screwing his wife beside the pool because they thought it was real pretty. He tells you to get out of there, but you start faking it, like you're talking Hawaiian, and then he gets mad and chases you... -- "JACK HANDY"
~ In Hollywood a marriage is a success if it outlasts milk. -- "RITA RUDNER"
Today's Pick Up Lines: (Use at your own risk!)
~ Your eyes are as blue as my toilet water at home.
~ I really like your peaches, and wanna shake your tree.
Today's Puns:
~ A tatoo artist has designs on his clients.
~ When the electricity went off during a storm at a school the students were de-lighted.
Today's Funny Southern Expressions:
~ Nuttier than squirrel shit
~ you couldn't catch a catfish in a coffee cup
Today's Jokes
~ After 40 years of hard work, a man retired with 9,000,000, which he had gained through courage, diligence, initiative, skill, devotion to duty, thrift, efficiency, shrewd investment, and the death of an uncle who left him 8,999,999.50.
~ A blonde was walking her dogs when a man walking in the opposite direction says "Oh my, you have such beautiful dogs. What are their names?"
The blonde replies "Well, the taller one is Timex and the shorter one is Rolex."
The man responds "Huh, that's interesting. Why did you name them such names?"
The blonde sighs and shakes her head "Everyone keeps asking me the same thing... duhh, what else would you name your watch dogs?"
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Today's Crossword, Sukoku and Hangman:
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How To Make Your Girl Hate The Guy You Think Is Hitting On Her
GUY: Can I tell you something? Honestly? ("when you put the word 'honestly' anywhere in your grumbling, it translates from complaint to confession. So be polite and use 'Honestly'")GIRL: Sure/ yeah? GUY: I feel so ashamed of saying this, I mean I am so sorry. I don't even know how to say this! ("Put the blame on yourself, as if you are damaged so that she feels it as her responsibility to fix you")
"GIRL: What is it/ Just say it / What has happened? GUY: It's not about me. it's about you. Lately I have started to feel so angry and jealous of "(guy's name"). And I know it's stupid and wrong but I am not complaining, I am just pouring my heart out in front of you, because I don't want to keep it inside of me, and I can't live without you. GIRL: ("she will try to explain") Listen it's nothing/ we are just friends/ blah blah!GUY: I know all of this, like I said I am not complaining. I know I am being so narrow- minded by saying all of this. It's so embarrassing, but I am only speaking the truth. I hate myself, I am so uncool. You know, I get so jealous sometimes that I just want to break his head. I can't believe I am so possessive of you, I am so sorry. I am so uncool! ("emphasize on two things excessively: being uncool & jealous/ possessive. And soon you'll notice she will find you being so possessive extremely cute and correct you that you are not uncool.)"GIRL: No you are not. Shut-up! And I love it that you are possessive of me, you should be! ("Keep going on with the being uncool and 'I hate myself' thing for a little while longer. By this time she'd have totally forgotten her 'self' and would be completely devoted to make you fine)"
STEP II - SHE IS HELL EMOTIONAL AND ROMANTIC NOW. GET YOUR GUNS OUT! (NAH! NOT THAT)
("if you'd notice, the girl has accepted your being possessive/ jealous about her friend, which she would have angrily responded to had you talked to her in a complaining or an angry tone)"
GUY: Can I ask you for something, If you don't mind? GIRL: Sure, anything. GUY: I don't know how to say this, but can you please don't talk to him that much? ("adding that much is very important, as girls are not good at ignoring people, they either are very good friends, or in the effort to be moderate friends, screw it up. If you say "Please don't talk to him, "It might sound unpleasant to the girl as girls are very bad at ending friendships and don't generally do that. So stick to adding that much for sure) "Baby, I know it's stupid, and I am being totally selfish by saying this, but I have to be. I can't concentrate on my work, which will eventually lead to us being together ("show her a future, that will make her emotionally inclined towards you), "but if I don't work, my state of mind is gone. And in this confusion I don't ever want to blame you or be angry with you, I hope you understand. I don't ever want us to fight because of some third person ("alienate him, and from now on, use us instead of me). "Please baby, can you do this, for us? Please?
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How To Date As A Single Parent
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Carmen Electra Dave Navarro Call It Quits
Dave Navarro is no longer addicted to Jane - and he's allegedly had loads of Carmen Electra, as well.
"They are amicably disentanglement," Electra's rep, Brit Reece, told "Us Weekly".
The crazy couple has been married being November 2003, static starring in an MTV reality gush based on their marriage, "Til Beating Do Us Part: Carmen + Dave." We run into what you're thinking:
Do all MTV reality show marriages end in divorce?!?
This will be Electra's second unsuccessful union. She fixed the come together with Dennis Rodman in 1998, for a tighten up five months! That, save for, topped Navarro's marriage to a woman named Rhian in 1994. Rate until their annullment? Two weeks.
Electra has been active immediately, touring with The Pussycat Dolls and filiming a mist, "I Intention Sweetie", right and proper to be without charge moreover appointment. Navarro, 39, cohosts the CBS ability spirited Hover Pin-up.
The pair may well positively learn a lesson or two from Ashlee Simpson and her birthright relationship.
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