The ability to suppress ones own fear and suspicion is absolutely vital when one wants to maintain control.
It is the emotions that cause us stop thinking which is why maintaining perspective is vital.
There is a trick bounty hunters use to trap their guys who jump bail and it uses knee jerk emotional reactions as a key.
Often men who jump bail have a girlfriend who is willing to hide them and lie for them. They bail jumper will tell his girlfriend to never reveal where his is and that bounty hunters will trick you into giving him up.
So does the bounty hunter know on the door and say he looking for Bob The Bail Jumper? No. Instead he has a woman telephone the girl friend asking for Bob. The woman will tell the girlfriend that Bob The Bail Jumper is her boyfriend and that shes pregnant. A verbal fight will ensue and the mysterious female caller will hang up.
Two hours later THEN the bounty hunter will call the girlfriend and what do you know... she gladdly hands over Bob The Bail Jumper for cheating on her.
The lesson here is simple. Watch out for emotional traps.
Bounty hunters know that by distracting others away from their focus and presenting them with another version of "what's really important" they will forget their previous mission completely.
The only solution that will prevent this from happening is to has as big a vision as possible. Think beyond your current problem and think toward your greater mission. When you have started to do that then you must plan... plan... plan is as much detail as possible. Making that even harder is knowing that the unexpected will occur. You can foreseen but you can plan how you will react to it.
In the case of Bob The Bail Jumper he could have told his girl friend that people will try to play to her greatest weaknesses, guilt, jealously, family and to delay any reaction when she feels those emotions rising.
To be able to do that effectively is the first path to becoming a force of nature.
It is a very hard task.
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